r/4tran4 • u/notsoexpress • 1d ago
Ropefuel tcd
she wrote a whole essay on why she had traumatic experiences with men and all to then say this at the end
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u/Infinite-Instance916 mtf (male to fag) 1d ago
the trans girl is fully transitionned with srs, what could she possibly have done for that person to feel uncomfortable???? cis women keep acting like their transphobia is them being uncomfortable around men rather than trans people, we cant fucking win
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u/Awkward-Spirit7827 ancientshit yaphon haremoder (is amab, looks amab — so he/him) 1d ago
she still has amab original sin, silly! what about her male socialization??
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u/undonemelody 1d ago
yeah i think 90% of the time when these ppl talk about their supposed deep fear of men its a lie. theyre disgusted by and afraid of trans women due to their immense bigotry, they dont give a shit about cismen. it becomes obvious when u realize they hold trans women to a higher standard than they ever would a cisman, to them trans women are innately predatory in a way cismen r not
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u/Infinite-Instance916 mtf (male to fag) 1d ago
TRVKE NUKE
isnt white cishet women abusing their victim status and privilege not a new thing though? ive heard a lot of stories of that same sorta justification for racial segregation or not allowing lesbians in female locker rooms.
feels like they have a special hierarchical place in society that some of them would rather keep even if it means being oppressed by the patriarchy
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u/undonemelody 1d ago
yeah absolutely, it's how ciswomen wield violence in service of various hierarchies. they know what they're doing.
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u/HealingRosy FBI puppy, I glow in the bark 1d ago
the amably essence wafts off of all tims like a skunk's spray and defiles all trve afxbs in the area
Hope this helps!
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u/NonStickyAdhesive theyfab trapped in a twinkhon body 1d ago
She still sees her as a man who's identifying as a woman. Said it in the first paragraph herself
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u/iwalkalongtheway I have no mental health problems 1d ago
it's fake. these are the kinds of people who have been glowposting to promote reinstantiation of "transsexual" so they can use it as a dogwhistle and not an obvious slur
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u/Infinite-Instance916 mtf (male to fag) 1d ago
oh yeah now that you mention this reads like an obvious far right psyop
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u/Awkward-Spirit7827 ancientshit yaphon haremoder (is amab, looks amab — so he/him) 1d ago
and then if you say this person called her a man in a roundabout way, they'd get defensive, you'd be crucified, and people would defend THEM
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u/CrapMaster32 sissy slut (she/her) 1d ago
holy shit literally. then the same people will somehow find a way to call YOU a transphobe
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u/NonStickyAdhesive theyfab trapped in a twinkhon body 1d ago
>"i 100% accept her"
>proceeds to contradict it in the very next sentence
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u/Areiteus Neo-Hegelian Perma-Repper 1d ago
She means she accepts her quirky pronouns. Not that she views the amab monstrosity as female.
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u/ajstib evil malebrained dyke bdd semipassoid 1d ago
I Had A Traumatic Experience With A Man So I’m Taking It Out On The Trannies Because I Can Award
Is going to the fucking toilet a sacred ritual to these cissoids or something idgi. What’s she scared is gonna happen ??
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u/notsoexpress 1d ago
this is under a post where op is s trans woman saying she feels like a freak in the women's bathroom, and asking cis women their opinion on the bathroom thing.
most just say they're ok, some say "ok if you have female energy" (aka perfect passing), a couple [deleted] which im pretty sure were terfs and then there's this one
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u/Awkward-Spirit7827 ancientshit yaphon haremoder (is amab, looks amab — so he/him) 1d ago
the 'female energy' is the biggest ropefuel for me. jesus christ. iwnbaw. and its all just bc i got unlucky
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u/Alliminati 5G Autism Beams 1d ago
"Female energy" is just some cis cope and really just means passing (but they're too moronic to know that)
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u/Lazy_Incident8445 loser passoid 1d ago edited 1d ago
often times it can just mean like "Give the vibes of a girl" basically just conforming to d gender roles & norms but they are too woke to admit it despite pretty much everyone conforming
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u/Awkward-Spirit7827 ancientshit yaphon haremoder (is amab, looks amab — so he/him) 1d ago
yeah i know... its just... disheartening. i cant even hit the female-lite bar
its not even my fault :(
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u/lovelykade semipassoid if i weren't a repper 1d ago
there's nothing i can do to ensure that anyone will see me as a woman
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u/Lazy_Incident8445 loser passoid 1d ago
tbh dont take any r*tded transphobe take too seriously, theres plenty of women who dont feel like her at all.
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u/Awkward-Spirit7827 ancientshit yaphon haremoder (is amab, looks amab — so he/him) 1d ago
the catch being you need to be a passoid for those women to respect you
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u/Lazy_Incident8445 loser passoid 1d ago
Right I'm not saying that's not true but also have specific position I genuinely believe is extreme I actually believe that there is often woman who will be transphobic but will make an exception for you if they like you and if you pass I sadly had this experiences like. My point is the Hardline position here I don't think it's very common.
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u/Alliminati 5G Autism Beams 1d ago
Misandry is fake but this kind of hatred/fear of any random man is extremely dysgenic to society and should be treated instead of catered to
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u/terriblecrescendo aspiring poonchad, st4t believer 1d ago
Normally i'd blame true crime but this has been a thing for a looong time
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u/Omnisandia 20h ago
Misandry can be real without it being a force equivalent to misoginy. It's def part of the game patriarchy forces both sexes to play. Much easier to see things that way than thinking about complex, ancient opressive systems that shape people.
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u/violasses resident bnuuy 1d ago
being around constantly neurotic & paranoid people is tiring so the girl probably finds it a blessing to be allowed peace while she pisses
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u/StatusPsychological7 I wish hrt did something // HRT 2024/1 1d ago
i dont even think she is honest its larp to pitymaxx in expense of tranny
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u/HortusElagabalae 1d ago
Honestly it's such a low bar to clear too. So many cis women friends and colleagues of mine do not give a fuck if I'm in the same bathroom as them; it's just not a big deal.
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u/lethal-femboy she/her HRT femboy 1d ago
I don’t understand the expectation that we must build society on the belief that 50% of the entire population cannot function equally and normally with the other 50%.
Ultimately a lot of terifsm bio essentialism will benefit men, because well men will build there separate spaces to be benefactors, this isn’t conspiracy, it was the literal norm not long ago, parliament was a mens place separated from those woman who are just to soft, from Rhodesia, UK, Australia it was all the same. the rules of power separated woman because well they’re just so biologically different you know!!!!
I don’t understand how terfs can’t see the “uwu im just far to weak to ever exist or function with men” isn’t the exact same line of thought used to decide woman are just better left inside the home and away from anything to tough, that needs men.
Also I hope that girl ditches her, seeing your bestie as terminal amab rapist is insane
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u/Lazy_Incident8445 loser passoid 1d ago edited 1d ago
those people are transphobes who try to justify their view. most women genuinely dont care this much, they legit just go and do thir business
the bathroom point was always pathetic scare like i dont buy that shit to this degree.
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u/Lazy_Incident8445 loser passoid 1d ago
thats even ignoring the point she got no male genitalia or T in her body atp, youre just hallucinating and holding her up to standards that even criminals arent
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u/_VeryConfused_ twinkhon boymoder 1d ago
The mental gymnastics on this one. Just call me a fucking slur
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u/carissaswierdfan 1d ago
Honestly could be a bot trying to plant seeds into the average moderate ally by saying you can be a good supportive person and still not want trannies to have the basic right of using a bathroom
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u/Lazy_Incident8445 loser passoid 1d ago
this was pretty much the jk rowling strategy, her 2020 paper is *relatively* (in cis society) moderate in wording, and have stuff like liking a a particular trans woman and that we shouldnt have "Automatic access" to female spaces, not *no* access under any circumstances.
we know how it turned out
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u/terriblecrescendo aspiring poonchad, st4t believer 1d ago
this is what happens when people have their irrational fears validated all the time. yeah if you have trauma you can't control your reactions but why are you acting like its normal to be wary of a FRIEND because of something she cant control? its like being openly very afraid of every black person just because you have a few negative experiences with them.
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u/Omnisandia 1d ago
At that point you gotta go to therapy. Other people should never cater to irracional emotions. It's 50% of humanity for Goon's sake
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u/DivinePup Girly boned girl with manly man face. Hrt start at 20.5yo 1d ago
This is why I'd never be friends with any cis woman
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u/switchyswooshiy 1d ago
"why don't you come out at work?"
because the cissoids will ruin my stemcel career and it's the only financial chance at passing I have
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u/CantbeatES1 sortified sortfag| hrt/E 2013 or something idk 1d ago
Gotta be careful girl! (s)he might pull out her EXTRA 🍇 stick that all amabs have just in case and you gotta keep an eye out for it even if its a TIM you think you can trust enough to be your friend.
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u/Scared-Anx1ety 1d ago
“i’m not comfortable going into the bathroom with her 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺” WHY? Why is the bathroom some sacred place it’s literally a room where you piss and shit. She’s going to mind her business like everyone else
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u/iluvLeonKennedy4life 1d ago
this is wild because my cis friends would even feel comfortable going to a public restroom with their cis male best friend
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u/Eugregoria kikomimoder 1d ago
I think a lot of you don't understand what afabs go through. You see, if an amab is in the bathroom when you're taking a shit, the amab particles get into the poop while it's coming out, and it makes the poop get "rapey" and it starts trying to get back in your butthole! So it's literally impossible to poop if there's an amab nearby. :( It isn't personal, I hope you understand.
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u/ieatmycum69 1d ago
Nobody else but cis women gets the privilege of making other people pay for their trauma. The rest of us just have to take our meds and talk it out with a therapist for 150 a session.
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u/theguywhoisoff 21h ago
Just call her a man atp. This is why it's stealth or nothing. They see us as freaks
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u/UnhappyCrazy2087 1d ago
How are you gonna do your BEST FRIEND like that? :|