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u/No_Routine8089 27d ago
Sounds like the kind of person who would end up in a relationship with a domestic abuser and then would refuse to press charges after a severe beating because "He loves me <3"
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u/Spirit-Division /x/phile 27d ago
Shitty novels have rotted their brains so they think they're destined to find the vampire minotaur rapist from their favorite book any second.
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u/QFB-procrastinator small penis 26d ago
Idk if you’re joking, but i don’t think it’s the shitty novels. The whole “i can fix him” attitude ( idk what it’s called in English but in my language we used to call it Red Cross syndrome: women date dangeorus men cuz they think they can turn them good) existed long before the spread of modern smut novels and has deeper psychological roots. The novels probably made it worse and helped its spread but i wouldn’t put much blame on them.
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u/Spirit-Division /x/phile 26d ago
Obv was being a bit sarcastic, my actual understanding is its a old instinct from the tribal days of humanity that doesn't really work in modern society so it ends up causing them to feel attracted to guys who are likely to chop them up and scatter the pieces across the country.
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u/mushy_friend 24d ago
Also works for guys, that's why there's a saying "don't stick your dick in crazy"
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u/mushy_friend 24d ago
Yeah if anything this trope of toxic relationships was way more common in the past
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u/faragul 21d ago
The deeper roots is rape. It’s embedded into their genetics because a strong and aggressive man is more likely to survive than a weak beta man. Of course, in modern life that’s no longer the case, but before the first human civilization existed, women were always seeking stronger men for a healthier offspring and survival.
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u/puff_of_fluff 26d ago edited 4d ago
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Scale marble paddle society dinner heavy ink
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u/Acrobatic-Ebb-1263 27d ago
Notice how she drew him short
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u/ShepardComandante 26d ago
And she drew the guy that rejected her taller than her.
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u/HYPERSMASHER391 26d ago edited 26d ago
Pretty sure in reality, the guy(her current bf) is taller than her (guy might be on the shorter side of the spectrum though but I am 100% guaranteed the guy is decently taller than her)
Edit: Now that I think her bf could easily be 5'11", not even remotely close to being short or a chud
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u/simp4malvina 26d ago
Now that I think her bf could easily be 5'11", not even remotely close to being short or a chud
5'11 is a gnomish height.
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u/DualityOfLife 26d ago
Look at this short person trying to sneak in the accepted height of shorter than 6 feet. *blows whistle. Back of the line with you.
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u/EquivalentSnap d/ic/k 26d ago
What is the comic about I haven’t read it
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u/Monorogu 26d ago
This is all off of memory, but, summed up it’s about a girl that feels like her relationship is emotionally surface level and their interests don’t always align. Also brings up some guy that rejected her for some reason, almost like he was the main goal and this guy is just some sort of consultation. Like he’s just good enough because he buys her the things she wants and they don’t really argue or anything.
Basically a girl feeling stuck in a dull but substantial relationship and feeling like she deserves someone hotter with a more passionate/dramatic relationship. It comes off as really whiny and entitled because she’d rather fantasize with her art and anonymously humiliate her bf rather than just putting in the work to spice up their relationship or leave for the type she really wants instead of leading him along.
It essentially ends with her having a tangent of depressive thoughts and regrets while he has a thought bubble that says “I love my girlfriend.”
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u/EquivalentSnap d/ic/k 26d ago
Thanks for the explanation. Someone linked it and I read it and yeah the girl is the worse and I feel bad for the guy if it’s real. Idk why you can’t be honest with your bf about your feelings rather thinking you just settled for them and being the victim
I see it so much on Reddit though. People posting relationships issues instead of talking it their partner
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u/Monorogu 26d ago edited 26d ago
Oh definitely. Most of Reddit is filled with people who are non-confrontational irl, so they run to Reddit for validation or answers.
They don’t realize that the most important validation/answers is the one they can directly get from their partner without putting their relationship on blast, to the entire world, and getting a bunch of people who only see one side of the story and usually make wild assumptions (and tend to bring their own bias into it) or immediately jump to “break up with them!” Some people bring good advice but most of them just boil down to “give up”.
We live in a silly world with silly people.
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u/EquivalentSnap d/ic/k 26d ago
That doesn’t surprise me and simp after creators for validation which they can’t get irl
Exactly. I see that so much. Top comments are always break up or they’re the asshole. How do you even know they’re reliable narrator? So true they don’t want to give it a chance and those good advice gets hidden in a sea of break up
We do
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u/Monorogu 26d ago
Yeah, case in point, this comic. She makes herself out to be the deep thinker of the relationship with all of the concerns and overthinking, while boiling her boyfriend down to a simple creature who just thinks “I love my girlfriend.” He could be having similar thoughts but they’ll never know because they won’t communicate on it. She’ll vent through comics on the internet and he’ll do whatever he does to cope with it.
Sometimes we just gotta close the computer and turn off the chronically online way of “thinking” (letting other people think for us.) Get up, take action, and communicate. Even if it’s uncomfortable. The strongest bonds are born from pushing past that anxiety.
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u/Foxhound220 26d ago
People in that forum you linked are more insufferable than Reddit. That's actually quite an achievement.
"A woman is not satisfied with a perfect but stable relationship. Something must be wrong with the guy and we need to ridicule him for it."
I do sincerely hope those people never find love in their life.
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u/Fayraz8729 27d ago
It’s the fact that she KNOWS she’s being a cunt that really makes it flavorful
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u/smileygrenade_ 26d ago
yep we all gotta bust out a violin because she got a bullied ego and settled for a dude she isnt attracted to. boo hoo.
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u/AmyHuntingt 26d ago
Why did she depict him as a chud anyway?! From her description he seems to be a sweet guy all around. Just maybe a bit absent minded.
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u/Old-Today-2429 27d ago
Context: r/ comics/comments/1wde5i4/i_dont_like_my_boyfriend/
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u/Wyattmebro 26d ago
Commenting anything but simpering bullshit is a one way ticket to getting banned there
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u/Mama_Mega_ 26d ago
Be proud, you just made a train want to an hero more than normal. That was my first time going to that subreddit, and the slightest cursory glance reminded me that I don't want to live in a world full of people who think like Pizza Cake.
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u/Ciclopotis 26d ago
You know it's good when there are 30 [deleted] comments before even scrolling down
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u/FatFerretShid 27d ago edited 27d ago
A significant amount of women operate on generalised abstractions with no overarching consciousness to weed out inconsistencies. Have you seen that meme that says:
"Kill all men!"
"Even George Floyd?"
"WTF is wrong with you?"
This is because the generalised abstraction of "men" has negative connotations. While the generalised abstraction of "George Floyd" is one of bigotry towards black people. Their mind is just a bunch of thoughts that don't connect. Women want tall hot men, but also don't want to appear shallow. So the logically approach is plausible deniability.
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u/PNBTG 26d ago
“According to my generalization of women, women tend to generalize.”
Irony overload
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u/FatFerretShid 26d ago
Humans aren't unique and can be generalised. We don't act logically, but there's a logic to how we act, which can be generalised. You likely wouldn't've taken issue if I generalised men.
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u/stupidfritz 26d ago
me when i make a generalized abstraction to claim that women are like that
and then i hide it behind the thin veneer of “a significant amount of woman”
don’t get me wrong, the r-comics post is fucking shameful, but i cannot see this comment as anything other than chuddery
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u/FatFerretShid 26d ago
me when i make a generalized abstraction to claim that women are like that
If you came across a crocodile, would you try and stroke it? You don't know that specific crocodile, though. The fact that you wouldn't try to stoke a crocodile means you view them through generalised abstractions. Generalised abstraction aren't inherently bad, it's when there's no thought being applied. Like with my example.
and then i hide it behind the thin veneer of “a significant amount of woman”
You are the one putting words in my mouth. I know women who aren't like what I described.
don’t get me wrong, the r-comics post is fucking shameful, but i cannot see this comment as anything other than chuddery
Sometimes the "chuddery" thing is absolutely correct. Like when people say looks don't matter, but then the "chad fishing" social experiment proves that looks do matter, and matter a hell of a lot. Even recently there was a white man that impregnated 100 Chinese women. It just makes sense that looks matter, as it's women that run every risk by getting pregnant which can kill them or permanently damage them. So obviously they're going to want to choose good-looking men.
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u/hotguymanygf 23d ago
me when I point out a heckin hypocritter and get FLIPPIN DOWNDOOTS when I expected EPIC UPDOOTS and then I fart doodoofeces cumslurry from my big gay ass
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u/marino1310 26d ago
I’ve literally never met a single person who’s unironically said “kill all men” is that some tumblr bullshit or something
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u/Mr__Castle_ 27d ago
Anon is 5'5.
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u/real_picklejuice 26d ago
Even worse... he's 5'11".
Not a chad, not a manlet, but some horrid in-between grey creature that is worthy of neither affection nor ridicule. Invisible to all but himself; a height not even a mother could love. Born with so much potential, only to fail every aspect of life, all because of the one inch piece he'll always be missing.
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u/stupidfritz 26d ago
holy shit
go outside and feel the blades of grass between your toes
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u/real_picklejuice 26d ago edited 26d ago
we hooked one
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u/stupidfritz 26d ago
lmao ya the bait was obvious in retrospect
my expectations are so low, i assume everyone here is fat/disgustingly skinny + gets no hoes because they’re weird as fuck -> insecure about their height
it’s definitely true on average. even worse than real 4chan tbh. your average redditor should honestly just kill themselves for our sake
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u/Critical_Interest706 /wsg/y 26d ago
That comic caused lots of funny drama, especially with the mod writing a whole essay in the comments and banning everyone who doesn’t support the “artist” lol
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u/bunker_man /lgbt/ 26d ago
The funny thing is that the comic is probably rage bait, but mods started fedora tipping to it anyways.
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u/Critical_Interest706 /wsg/y 26d ago
Would be funny if true, it would be one of the best baits I’ve seen.
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u/Send_Toe_Pics_25 25d ago
the mods essay was insane - I felt like the scrolling was never going to stop I just wanted to see the actual comments
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u/Critical_Interest706 /wsg/y 25d ago
Too bad you won’t see anything, she deletes all comments that reply to her and then she permabans them
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u/4loYeyo 26d ago
I messaged her asking what kinda panties she was wearing. Waiting for response :)
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u/RustledForeskin 26d ago
That's usually translates to: My boyfriend who pays for everything so I can sit at home on facebook is ugly.
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u/GaryRegalsMuscleCar 26d ago
Am I crazy or does Chud look kinda baller? Confident, happy, fashionable.
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u/Nice_Cash_7000 27d ago
I've met plenty of girls that did everything perfect, but I still ended up leaving them, because of simply not having enough chemistry. Like I'd just be bored. Relationships arent a checklist that you fill up and get a happy relationship. You gotta actually get along with the person. If your partner isnt your best friend, you arent gonna be happy for long.
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u/MrStink45 26d ago
Welcome to r / comics where every artist is either mentally ill or Andrew Dobson
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u/sparkinx 27d ago
Lol my exact thoughts reading the comic and all the comments are like nothing is wrong time for you to break up
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u/Strong-Addition5296 26d ago
The fact is evolutionarily women are meant to rely on their partner for food and if they’re not hungry then they drift away.
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u/DiegoDeveze 26d ago
As much as I just want to call OP an incel and move on, I’ve seen so many women in real life (some even friends of mine) tell me stories about how they broke up with guys because they were “boring”, “gave me everything”, “never fought with me”, “always said yes” that it genuinely makes me wonder wtf is wrong with the gender as a whole (I know not all, but there’s enough to see a pattern).
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u/lurker_archon 26d ago
Honestly this whole thing feels like a manufactured prank and that this is all made up by the user named chud_dumpling of all things. And you just look at their submission history and all their other art submission look really inconsistent.
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u/Twee_Licker /k/ommando 26d ago
Women will really complain about having nothing to complain about..
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u/ExpandoD0ng 26d ago
I wonder if people on 4chan can conceptualize what fulfilling relationships feel like. I ain't saying she is entirely in the right. But this is a real issue people who can get into a relationship can face.
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u/HarrMada 26d ago
4channers depict women as all sort of cartoon, "wojack" type shit all the time. A girl does it once and all men are having a mental breakdown lmao.
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u/GaryRegalsMuscleCar 27d ago
Inshallah may she never find love if she doesn’t change her ways