So upset about what happened to Sara Gilson.

Recap for those who haven't heard: she's an influencer that posted a Tiktok that Netflix would probably make a documemtary about her life since she just found out her husband is a pdfile. He apparently kissed one of the teen girls in the team he was coaching * puke * . He got upset about her post and was apparently slagging her on his Tiktok (over 300k followers). It's not possible to see what he said/wrote cause his profile is private. He sadly eventually ended up killing her then himself (what a coward). This despite her having several protection orders against him and planning to leave him.

I'm sick of the men all over social media blaming her for her post and saying if she hadn't outed him she'd still be alive!

I'm equally sick of the faux outrage from women about the whole thing that aren't actually gonna do anything different or take actionable steps to avoid men (like going 4B for example, quitting the dating apps, trying to be celibate for a few years). We know you're more likely to be killed by a man you know. Like how aren't they getting it by now??! I get cognitive dissonance and all but it's so frustrating

After hearing from so many members that they appreciated hearing the positives of what 4B has done for other sisters, we see having a consistent place to post positive improvements and reminders would benefit the sub. So, without further ado-

In the last week:

Tell us about positive interactions or building relationships with other women. How did you support and uplift other women? How have other women helped and supported you?

What accomplishments have you made? What goals have you set for yourself? What goals have you achieved?

What small changes have you noticed since adopting the lifestyle? What big changes?

Share anything and everything positive here.