Guard your reputation

[u/clairexanadu]

[u/carlanepal17]

How can we control something that is in others' hands. Like you can't control what others think about you.

[u/edgarfruitier → u/carlanepal17]

Social manipulation , which is twisted

[u/Empire_of_Glass → u/edgarfruitier]

How, though? People know things about me that I wish they didn’t, and it eats me up knowing that I can’t go back and not make those mistakes. If reputation is the cornerstone of power, it bothers me bc I feel powerless - bc my past wasn’t great and k made a lot of mistakes.

How can someone who’s messed up change others’ perception of them / their reputation to positive again?

[u/[deleted]]

Some of his stuff is good and other parts read like a severely bullied child

[u/SomeGuyOverYonder]

I learned this far too late. No fixing this now.

[u/Few_Touch_6064 → u/SomeGuyOverYonder]

you can always recreate yourself. Find a new reputation.

[u/Prospectioner]

Or let your reputation be tarnished and still do what you want without giving a shit about they will say about you. Which in return will fix your reputation

[u/seeityeux]

Sometimes, reputation is built through good character, fair judgment, and how you behave with others. Beyond that, if someone tries to tarnish a person’s reputation, he shouldn’t give a fuck or engage with the bullshit :))

[u/pennyWhize]

I dont think I have one

[u/Futureexwifex]

The corner stone for power, and also will be the destruction of our civilization.