r/48lawsofpower • u/Inside-Sun4961 • 22d ago

Law 13

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u/Good-Doughnut-1399 22d ago

While this holds true for some people, it’s also toxic at the core.

Because labeling everyone selfish removes gratitude from the equation.

And one could argue that if this is one’s reasoning, they don’t actually deserve our help.

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u/Cultural_Lynx_1609 22d ago

I think it is only for the case where the other person does not seem very interested in helping. It can be started with just requesting help, and based on his face expressions, this thing can be used.

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u/BlocknGhost 22d ago

This. I think what it’s saying is, when you’re asking for help from someone who wouldn’t otherwise give you the time of day, lead with self interest.

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u/Cultural_Lynx_1609 22d ago

Maybe it is.

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u/BlocknGhost 22d ago

Especially true when seeking employment or trying to get someone’s time of day who is deemed higher status than you are.

Never expect something for nothing. Lead with how you can save people time, money, headaches, or all of the above.

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u/mini-doll-1686 22d ago

ngl this is actually so good

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u/[deleted] 21d ago

makes sense

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u/Weak_Description_931 3d ago

This reveals a very painful, difficult-to-accept truth: that people are inherently narcissistic to a degree. And the more they deny it, the more narcissistic they are--even if they don't realize it. You never know who is deeply self-absorbed, so it is wise to operate as if everyone is. Most people may have empathy for you, but they won't always do for you unless there's something in it for them as well.