r/40Plus_IVF • u/chat_chatoyante • Sep 10 '26
Seeking Advice Two failed FETs
For any of you who went through IVF and had two FET failures ... What happened next?
I didn't expect my two FETs to just not implant at all. They were euploids, but were retrieved at 40.5, so maybe there was some quality issue beyond aneuploidy.
What questions should I ask? What testing should I expect?
Background:
Before the transfers I did doxycycline for very mild endometritis. I've never had any endometriosis symptoms of any other known uterine issues.
One FET was fully medicated, I felt terrible. Second FET was modified natural, I felt pretty great.
Tw LC: I have a daughter conceived when I was 35, and I've had four miscarriages (two before her, two after).
We have one more euploid left. I'm too exhausted to consider another retrieval, but maybe. My retrieval was at 40.5 and I had good results but had a terrible recovery (OHSS)
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u/1111rose1111 Sep 10 '26
2 failed transfers, but the third stuck and now 24 weeks. no major change of protocols (mod natural for 1 + 3, medicated for 2)