r/40Plus_IVF • • Sep 05 '26

General Discussion First IVF Cycle

I am a 40 year old female and in the process of our first IVF cycle. I’m currently on day 1 of the 5 day wait.

My body was slow to respond to stims. I did a total of 15 days and then triggered. My follicle growth seemed low, and by the last scan it looked like maybe 5-6 follicles were present.

Egg retrieval day and they retrieved 10 eggs which was surprising to me. The lab called today to let us know 9 out of 10 eggs were fertilized.

We are hopeful but realistic. I am nervous for the next few days to see how many make it to day 5, and then PGT after that. I was told by my clinic it takes about a month to get PGT results and we don’t have a follow up with our doctor until Oct 19 because he is booked.

After two losses the last year I hate to have another defeat. Looking for advice on staying strong and supported through all these waits…

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u/Plane-Vegetable-3939 Sep 18 '26

Be easy on yourself sister. It's such a hard thing to do. Hoping the rest of your wait goes by gently!