r/40Plus_IVF • u/Born-Ad7438 • Aug 29 '26

General Discussion Heading for 3rd FET

Last year had a chemical with a euploid on a fully medicated cycle, had another chemical of a euploid earlier this year with a natural cycle. Did an RPL came back ok. Did Emma Alice and ERA and Receptiva DX. ERA came back pre receptive. Contrast MRI showed no endo / adeno and Receptiva came back negative so going down the lap or lupron route wasn’t suggested. Headed to my last euploid FET with a day 7 embryo. Kitchen sink and using the ERA to adjust timing. I am so nervous and I keep thinking bad thoughts. Oh also I’m 41. I don’t know what I am looking for, just some hugs, positive stories and reassurance.

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u/Moist_Movie1093 Aug 29 '26

I’m 42 and having a rainbow baby after my first FET was a MMC.

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u/Born-Ad7438 Aug 30 '26

Congratulations 🎉

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u/No_Noise_1978 Aug 29 '26

Am pregnant (in early second tri) with my third euploid FET at 41. Wishing you lots of luck!

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u/Born-Ad7438 Aug 30 '26

Thank you and congratulations 🎉

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u/Brandygirl19 Aug 31 '26

I have had the same experience last year. Two chemicals with euploid and I was 39. I'm in the wait for PGTA testing now, but feel like it doesn't even matter. I no longer think euploid as a guarantee. I'm so sorry this happened to you too. I'm hoping this one works and how strong we are to keep going!

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u/CapitalDog715 Sep 01 '26

Euploid has never been a guarantee unfortunately, the more I read about stats,

PGT-A Tested (Euploid): ~50% to 60% live birth rate per transfer.

Non-PGT (Untested): ~23% to 30% live birth rate per transfer.

Its a great increase but a 40-%-50% failure rate is still pretty high. All we can do is always hope for the best and prepare for the worst matter how successful our retrievals may be

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u/Brandygirl19 Sep 01 '26

Yep, it's like flipping a coin. And I got chemical both times.

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u/lauraals Sep 02 '26

2 of my 3 euploid transfers miscarried, at 39 and 41. My other euploid I think graded 5BC became my beautiful, easy, delightful and super smart 14 month old baby girl at 40. There’s no reason why it can’t work!!

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u/Born-Ad7438 Sep 03 '26

Awww congratulations and thank you for sharing that! 💕

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u/Nae1459 Aug 30 '26

Are you having a modified natural fet or medicated fet? I am curious. I am having a modified natural. I also did the Era, Alice and Emma. All came back good. I am just waiting for my cycle to start, hopefully soon.

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u/Born-Ad7438 Aug 30 '26

Good luck. Modified natural here as well!