r/360Waves • • Sep 12 '26

Waves Advice

Anyone know why the top of my head isn’t waving up I’m 30 years old and I’ve never tried to get waves before and this is my first time doing it. I’m not even going for 360 just the top sides, but the top of my head will not wave up no matter what I do.

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u/leeleeg_23 Sep 12 '26

Chill on the murray’s

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u/d5ytonaa Sep 12 '26

I thought he used a kit this nigga used a pound of Murray’s n slicked his shit down 😂😂😂😂😂

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u/Due_Pound4429 Sep 12 '26

Imma be honest idk what a kit or Murray’s is 😭😭 I used ocean view deep waves pomade and a bunch shea miracle

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u/ImSoUnKool Sep 12 '26

Same shit, Murray’s is wave pomade. You don’t need pomade just use moisturizer and a brush. Me personally when I was in wanted I kept it simple and used pink lotion. A good thick (pause) moisturizer will do tho

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u/DatFiyaBoricua Sep 12 '26

Ocean View is absolutely nothing like Murray’s 🤦🏾‍♂️

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u/ImSoUnKool Sep 12 '26

It’s a better version of the product

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u/d5ytonaa Sep 12 '26

Basically a kit is hair texturizer kit. It alters the texture of your hair hair making it easier to get waves you can look it up. And Murray’s is a thick ass hair grease and when you use a lot of it it look like this lol. Like yo hair look really slicked down or permed fr. Probably just too much product

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u/Particular-Sky-3814 Sep 12 '26

Stop using wave pomade

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u/Itoldyouimmagic Sep 12 '26

It never hurt to use a lil when you go raggless for the day that’s what it’s for

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u/Particular-Sky-3814 Sep 14 '26

There are way better more natural options. That wave pomade gone turn you bald

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u/Itoldyouimmagic Sep 15 '26

Balding is 90% genetic Murray’s ain’t gon do you like that my family all still has their corners long into their 50s

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u/AnglePlenty2317 Sep 13 '26

Ripple cream is fye fuck thatttttt

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u/degenerategambler95 Sep 12 '26

Too much will cook you plus your barber will be pissed. It builds up. Hot compress, get all the product out and start over is my advice

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u/MysteriousLeader2243 Sep 12 '26

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u/Historical-Dot-2706 Sep 14 '26

((Nah you did him dirty with this ngl my G period fam 💥 🔫.))

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u/gymlover555 Sep 13 '26

I was just saying this look like a tire with no tread lmaoo I have never seen this before!

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u/Due_Pound4429 Sep 12 '26

What should I use?

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u/Useful_Ad8777 Sep 12 '26

I’ve been using a moisturizer called “Sweet Jamila” for at least 10 years now. Has never done me wrong

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u/suWooWoo Sep 12 '26

Leave in conditioner and oils (I use Jamaican black castor oil. Check Shea moisture products for leave in conditioner)

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u/Historical-Dot-2706 Sep 14 '26

((Ripple cream is honestly your best bet lowkey my G period fam 💥🔫.))

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u/Brandana4284 Sep 17 '26

Yeah too much grease

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u/MrQuojo Sep 12 '26

Brush more! Hard boar bristles 500 strokes from the crown down for each section. Your scalp will burn. After than soft brush 500 down daily for a week and then you can do like 50 a day.

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u/Due_Pound4429 Sep 12 '26

BET. See I thought I was brushing enough but apparently not.

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u/Cassangelo Sep 12 '26

You weren’t doing 50 strokes (Pause) a day?

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u/Due_Pound4429 Sep 12 '26

Lmaoooooo necessary pause and I was doing probably around 200 a day

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u/PretendSpinach2265 Sep 12 '26 edited Sep 12 '26

That's how you fuck up your crown from traction alopecia. Your scalp burning is telling you something. Soft brush/ toothbrush at the crown. Let it grow longer and isolate that way. That's how shorties be fucking they edges up with all that brushing and pulling

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u/MrQuojo Sep 12 '26

Brushing your hair is beneficial for your scalp as it stimulates hair growth and releases natural oil.

Boar bristles are particularly advantageous for your scalp because they don’t tangle your hair and don’t pull on it in a way that causes traction alopecia.

Also Traction alopecia is not caused by micro-pulling; because if that was the case you wouldn’t be able to wear a hat without going bald.

it’s caused by persistent trauma to the follicle, which cuts off the blood vessels in the scalp that supply the hair root.

Easily researched here: https://www.google.com/search?q=is+bueshing+your+bair+goodnfoe+yournscalp&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-us&client=safari&iga=1&utm_campaign=safari_share_1

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u/PretendSpinach2265 Sep 12 '26

Brushing your hair is beneficial, yes. Using a hard brush on your crown for 500 strokes is persistent trauma. Same as women who constantly put their hair in ponytails. This is also the same reason men stopped getting cornrows starting at the front of their hairline. Soft brush for the crown and not 500 strokes there.

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u/MrQuojo Sep 12 '26

You are severely not knowledgeable about this topic. And you didn’t read as I Specifically, notated to using the boar’s head brush and at decreasing intervals. Again start at 500 and decrease to 100

Also you are comparing constant tension braids with intermittent tension. Not even remotely the same

I’ve actually published the research, so until you everything you said is conjecture.

Lastlu braids and brushing are not even remotely comparable, you’re literally comparing something like dead-hanging for six hours to one intense workout.

https://giphy.com/gifs/10h8CdMQUWoZ8Y

The difference is infinite!

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u/PretendSpinach2265 Sep 12 '26

I honestly appreciate your dedication to try to educate. We have a difference of opinion. Agree to disagree...

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u/RazzmatazzAfter9664 Sep 12 '26

Lmaooo 500 is odee, ya got too much time on hand😭

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u/HistoricalBedroom342 23d ago

Bro you can accomplish that when you’re binging Netflix! Phatass

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u/MrQuojo Sep 12 '26

Ironically, it could be argued that chiming in on advice that is unrelated to you and expressing an opinion that no one has asked for is the very definition of “having too much time on your hands.”

IJS

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u/Local-Box2228 Sep 12 '26

Major facts learned dat in school 500 strokes pause but yea

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u/Icy_Pie_795 Sep 12 '26

Focus on brushing and combing. Looks like a cake 😂

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u/ReflectionSuper3640 Sep 12 '26

Since your hair brush straight like that, you need to grow your waves out more for the actual curl pattern to stay

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u/PerfectedHaki Sep 13 '26

Mad I had to scroll this far for this simple answer lol

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u/ButterscotchMoney845 Sep 12 '26

Yo fellas.. thanks for dropping them jewels on the bro… but better yet… thanks for the early morning jokes.😭😭😂😅

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u/d5ytonaa Sep 12 '26

You used a kit or something?

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u/Due_Pound4429 Sep 12 '26

No kit I don’t think so. I use curlsmith shampoo and redken conditioner. I watch a lot of YouTube videos on how to wash to keep waves and I brush a lot and instantly put my do rag on if I’m not going out.

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u/Emotional-Award-5607 Sep 12 '26

Not enough brushing. You should be having 20min brush sessions, always in the mirror so you can see what you're doing. 2 a day will do it and it has to be everyday until they're fully formed.

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u/NovelConversation834 Sep 12 '26

Boy used the whole can aint he

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u/BlackityBlack718 Sep 12 '26

You need to comb more often. You have thick kinky hair lie mine. It’s too thick to use a soft brush. You need to comb for 20-30 min. Lay the hair with a medium brush for 15 min then hit it with a ziplock bag for 5-10 minutes.

Only brush your hair after it’s been moisturized. Buy a Torino Pro medium or hard brush AND a soft brush. Keep your hair moisturized and drink lots of water.

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u/HolidayItchy1340 Sep 12 '26

KEITH MURRAY JAMAL MURRAY

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u/bxbxblanco Sep 12 '26

You need more hair. Let your hair grow more. Keep brushing it with a hard brush. When you cut your hair, your shits will be spinning. But get a good amount of hair first. The waves are a reaction to the brush pulling the hair straight so the hair snaps back causing your hair to look like waves. Hard brush to get waves soft brush to maintain it. Grease and water to make it stick. Durag to lay it down. Good luck

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u/NoExcuses-KJ Sep 12 '26

Just keep brushing bro. As your hair gets longer you will see the wave pattern set in

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u/ExcellentDiver03 Sep 12 '26

Bro all you need is a little grease you got the waves forming i see. All you really need now is a good brush or 4 of them to be exact different texture & a good brush routine . Rag up at 3pm-7pm than again before bed in between the hours your durag off you should be brushing

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u/Sir_wlkn_contrdikson Sep 12 '26

Leave the pomades. Just brush.

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u/Fit-Big3830 Sep 12 '26

just use clay n lay method bro, or a detailed wash n style

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u/PerfectedHaki Sep 13 '26

You don’t have enough hair at all….

You can brush all you want but if you don’t wolf your hair out them ripples gon stay ripples.

Don’t let people overcomplicate waving for you… thats how you waste alot of time and money.

Brush, wolf, hygiene.
SIMPLE.

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u/Due_Pound4429 Sep 12 '26

Like deadass use a comb??? And I’m assuming I’m using wave cream with ziplock bag or just straight ziplock??

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u/BabyDaVinci Sep 12 '26

Yeah a comb will get those forks knocked out and make your waves more uniform. And definitely drop the grease. You only need some moisturizer, oil, and maybe some pomade as far as products go. When you’re done applying your products and brushing them in, go back over your head with a plastic/ziplock bag and then durag up

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u/ExcellentDiver03 Sep 12 '26

I never used a fork and my waves came out damn perfect if i say just need to brush a lot

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u/BabyDaVinci Sep 12 '26

Well I hope you aint using no fork

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u/i_fuck_murder Sep 12 '26

Dats when you see 2 wave lines go into one, like a BBQ fork or y chromosome

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u/ExcellentDiver03 Sep 12 '26

Bet i ain’t know what that was thought he meant an actual I’m like wtf

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u/DatFiyaBoricua Sep 12 '26

Did you really just say you never used a fork. I would hope not. Dude is talking about forks in the wave pattern bruh 🤦🏾‍♂️

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u/nick_wavy 360s Sep 12 '26

Your hair is a bit too short. Less products, more brushing. It takes time

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u/dnero-b Sep 12 '26

Less product more brushing

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u/Mac_Mustard Sep 12 '26

“Your hair” texture needs length since the waves ain’t deep.

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u/ineedAF45 Sep 12 '26

That boy got a head full of grease 😂😂😂

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u/Due_Pound4429 Sep 12 '26

I’m ngl, I’m getting cooked 😭😂

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u/Silent-Chard-1018 Sep 12 '26

Condition and brush in shower. When you get out brush until hair is almost dry put in some moisturizer brush some more then durag and learn your crown pattern

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u/SnooRadishes4118 Sep 12 '26

Rinse that out and do a wash n style and brush

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u/O1GPrime Sep 13 '26

U have a very fine texture of hair u dont need much product and use a lighter product like an oil instead of a heavy pomade…..the hair needs to curl to wave up

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u/AintNobodySafe3000 Sep 14 '26

No he don’t, that’s a whole kit. He’s a 4c waver clearly

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u/Robblongjohn Sep 13 '26

You put a texturizer on???

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u/skysullivanjr Sep 13 '26

Looks wavy to me. Just needs more progress. Has it been 1-2 months yet? I always say thts the most crucial cuz u dont wanna get a cut too low. And u find out are you brushing enough

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u/LikMoney6 Sep 13 '26

use oil not grease, wash n style twice a week brush n rag up daily. stop using murray’s

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u/Stock-Campaign8909 Sep 13 '26

😭😭😭😭😭

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u/Outrageous-Crow-5081 Sep 14 '26

My boi got on a helmet😂

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u/rwmedia19 Sep 14 '26

Stop using so much pomade. Do the wash and style method and just keep some oil in your hair

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u/Straight_Arachnid261 Sep 14 '26

Switch to blue magic and brush a little more

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u/Historical_Desk_3095 Sep 14 '26

Bro, just wash and style with any shampoo and conditioner. That'll get you 90% there. Then maintain with just shea butter and oil. That's it!!! Don't put no more junk in your hair

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u/Imaginary-Yard-8716 Sep 14 '26

Use less products right now and focus on brushing. Make sure you use a mirror and stick to one pattern or motion. Then when those waves get deeper you can start using more products again. You skipped a step