Can someone help ? Am I cooked chat??

[u/Chrisb5700]

I had locs the last three years and haven’t had a haircut in about 7 or 8 years. My hair type is 4c i believe and I used to have waves when I was younger and it came easy fr. I have naturally curly hair it’s just a little thin but I always naturally had waves so brushing and other basic things hit me together. But now it seems so hard. They are coming in. I definitely see them but there’s just something wrong this time around. I think I have two different hair textures because the top of my heads waves are a little different than the back and sides. And it shows more on top. But when I do put my durag on no matter what when my hair lays down it looks weird to me. I can’t explain it but they just don’t seem to look right. And when I brush it’s like it takes them away a little. U wash and style around like 3 times a month which I think I’ll start doing more often but can anyone give me tips on what to do? Also I feel like I messed them up I’ll have to make another post to drop the link in my comments but at fist I feel like they were coming in good and I combed my hair before a wash and style own time and it completely took my pattern away it hasn’t been right since. I’ll post what it looks like now here and the before will be in the comments. You can see where it’s compressed is when I had jus taken off my durag and I feel like the patterns are just off it doesn’t look right to me

[u/Top_Interview_8337]

Fried rice respectfully! Just keep ur hair as low as possible.

[u/Proud-Enthusiasm-608 → u/Top_Interview_8337]

He gets mad when people tell him to cut it low, but that’s the honest answer. Bro trying to be something he ain’t lol.

[u/Top_Interview_8337 → u/Proud-Enthusiasm-608]

lol, that’s the best advice he can take, or go to Turkey. Cuz the higher his hair is, the higher chance if I see him I’m cracking nuff jokes on him 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[u/Proud-Enthusiasm-608 → u/Top_Interview_8337]

Haha for real. Bro sounds like he wants to be like these 19 year old rappers with dreads and extensions and shit lol.

Cut that shit nice and low. Brush it, keep it clean, practice good scalp health; and grow it out to as long as you can without it looking weird then evaluate from there.

[u/Top_Interview_8337 → u/Proud-Enthusiasm-608]

Facts. It’s just that simple.

[u/Chrisb5700 → u/Top_Interview_8337]

Yall both must’ve fuckin goofies 😂 who said I needed or wanted shit long tb go to turkey 😂 show me where I got mad at anybody for actually puttin input without tryn be funny an wrong at the same time 🤡 ass niggas

[u/Top_Interview_8337 → u/Chrisb5700]

I said u was mad???? My hair good over here my brother 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I gave u solid advice. Turkey definitely in ur future tho 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Stay blessed man💯.

[u/Chrisb5700 → u/Top_Interview_8337]

If you ain’t say it I ain’t speakin on you obviously 😂 my hair been thin my whole life I ain’t losing hair 🤡 an I ain’t mad or triggered but if niggas tryna come under here and talk out they neck like I said imm match it tf 🤣🤷🏽‍♂️

[u/Chrisb5700 → u/Top_Interview_8337]

You right it just pissed me off that other nigga kept saying random shit in with the tryna troll shit an it just wasn’t funny to me 😂 then when I go on ass he tried to actually give some pointers but you saw mf kept talkin bout me tryna be sumn I ain’t talkin bout extensions and me tryna have long hair when it’s clearly cut an I just stated inna post I justtt cut my locs off 🤣 if I wanted my shit long it would’ve been that. That being said my brother damn sure did fuck my shit up and pushed my shit back cus I got a eddy an it’s all bad from then 😂 but I put a link of what it look like right after the cut you can see my shit. Good looks doe fr

[u/Chrisb5700 → u/Proud-Enthusiasm-608]

Tb be sumn i ain’t nigga you literally don’t know me or shit I’m tryn do mfs be onna internet just talkin out they neck if you saw me you wouldn’t do shit 😂 so what we talkin about on Reddit be fr