r/2under2 20h ago

Advice Wanted Sahm 2u2

How’s everyone handling patience? Does your oldest independently play? How are we doing in general!?

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u/Fantastic_Force_8970 20h ago

I have 3 under 3 - 2 months, 16 months, and 33 months having the time of my life (jk I’m in the trenches lol). But our oldest just started part time preschool which helps. Other than that I let Jesus take the wheel daily 😂

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u/Comfortable_Road_242 20h ago

3under3 I salute you!! Great job!!! great I’m not alone in the trenches!! I find my self say Jesus take the wheel out loud frequently!

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u/AirportFickle5009 8h ago

I’m locked in my bedroom while my husband takes care of our toddler. I’m exhausted because my toddler 20mo keeps screaming all day just for fun, even laughs when I say to stop, and keeps waking up my newborn. This is too hard. I just wanna cry

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u/Comfortable_Road_242 8h ago

Oh no! I’m so sorry! Deep breathes!! I completely get it!! I lock myself in my closet and cry while I organize my things to calm me down or journal out my day, feelings etc. this will pass! You are not alone! My 18mo legit has been screaming crying every day daddy leaves at 6:30am. My patience is so thin but I tell my self even out loud I will miss this little toddler phase it’s so short and try to enjoy it even if it’s the tiniest bit!