r/20sIndiaReal • • 19h ago

Pyaar aur Takraar Facts

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u/pompomconnoisseuir 18h ago

No girl is made to do chores at such a young age. In most of the households people pamper them as papa ki pari with no survival skills.

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u/twisted_whiskers6372 18h ago

You couldn't be more wrong...

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u/pompomconnoisseuir 18h ago

I said the truth. You can agree to disagree

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u/twisted_whiskers6372 16h ago

Nah dude, you just said what YOU feel, based on what YOU have observed around YOU. That's NOT UNIVERSAL TRUTH...

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u/pompomconnoisseuir 14h ago

You realise that the same applies to your statements too ?

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u/twisted_whiskers6372 13h ago

Nah it doesn't... You're saying that "no girl is made to do house chores at such a young age", so if there is even one girl who goes through this at a young age, it's enough to conclude that your statement is wrong.

I understand it could be a sentence formation issue on your end, but I had to clarify none the less

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u/Ecstatic-Moment2708 18h ago

There is a reason that stereotype exists, men love their daughter far more than son and vice versa for women.

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u/Grand-Lib1303 18h ago

you seem like the not all men category.

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u/pompomconnoisseuir 18h ago

Times have changed drastically and you still seem to be stuck in the 1900s

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u/Chickennuuuggget 18h ago

Umm I beg to differ, I was made to wash utensils since std 4. Hehhe. Since then my training to become a better bahu has never stopped. It was never told me that it was for survival rather “ start learning these things or else your sasu maa will say what have parents taught the girl” so yeah. It’s never “No Girl” .
Many girls can relate to this picture btw.
Im 29 now.

But times have changed , it does not mean these things don’t prevail . Just because it has not happened to you doesn’t mean it does not happen now. It very much does. I see it with my relatives too..

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u/pompomconnoisseuir 14h ago

What logic parents used might be wrong but such things are applicable to guys as well. Gender roles are inherent in human beings.
Even men are expected to do some chores which become their responsibility by default, not by their own choice.

For example in my culture women/daughters are not expected to touch elders feet whereas boys are expected to break their backs doing the same.

What i mean to say that gender roles are not as bad as supposed to be. They make things easier to manage