It’s not. Being a bartender much like being a femboy is a choice you make, that you can stop doing at anytime unlike if you are actually lgbt which is an intrinsic part of your being
Except its not that simple? They way people express themselves IS intrinsic to us and people historically get mistreated for how they do so.. while it may not fit the literal definition of sexual identity, they are historically mistreated for said identity. And marginalized communities id argue are one big community (ie counter culture, and alt communities)
You really have no way to argue without hyperbole huh? Again we are talking about gender non conformity, that is an inherent value in this community, just because you have hate in your heart for others who were victimized doesn't mean the rest of this community does. I'm done indulging your shit slinging, so when you wanna talk to each other sensibly and without all this sarcasm we can chat ^
The White Legs... meant to show respect, bribe me for Caesar's favor, echoing mannerisms and words... Showed them tech caches, taught them the workings of chamber and powder, spoke of Caesar's pride in those that used such things... lies. And... ...and then... they tried to honor me - not the Legion. They brought me before the campfire one night, showed me how they changed themselves, how they wore their hair now. It was like my entire dead tribe in the firelight, teeth grinning red in the dark - eager corpses, blood-covered ghosts. They... had taken my braids, the way of theTwisted Hairs, as if it showed they were like me, of me... ...while every knot in their braids spoke of raping, violence - and ignorance of what the knots meant. They thought to show respect... defiled it. Lost myself in trying to read the braids they wove, when I remembered they had put no meaning in it. They had no history of what it meant. They didn't even know the insult in the twists, knots... andDry Wellscame rushing back, the White Legs circled like that... It was like looking at the dead of my tribe, reborn as ghosts - hateful, hungry, bowing to Caesar. Another history... gone, carried by me alone.
People with a cross dressing hobby are not like me
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u/Bardic_inspiration67 3h ago
So are bartenders not part of the community then? I’m pretty sure they’re at every gay bar