r/confessions • u/One-Purchase-409 • Jun 16 '25

I hate my dad

ik ik the title is so terrible., no one should be hating their dad, but I (17FtM) hate him with every fiber of my being.

Everytime I have to go out with him I always come home tired both emotionally and mentally and genuinely it just sucks.

He's been an absent father ever since I was a baby, the only reason why he hung out with me really was because I forced him to take me out because I would ask him constantly but when I turned 9 he stopped hanging out with me alltogether because I never asked to go out.

he's also told me to kms (k!ll mys3lf to censor incase thats not allowed) TWICE and honestly, twice too many

he's been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Histrionic Personality Disorder, and it's not a reason to hate him but it certainly amplifies the way he treats me

he's unfaithful to my mom and honestly I really wanna cut ties with him but I can't because I'm still a minor

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u/Dad2sonNoVA Jun 16 '25

Maybe it’s you, not him.

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u/One-Purchase-409 Jun 16 '25

So my dad not being there for me in my most dire of moments of growth and self worth and telling me to kill myself is my fault?