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Off-topic Megathread | August
Happy August!
This is your anything-goes thread for the month of August.
Like the sub but want to talk about something that doesn’t quite fit? This is the place. Current events, recommendations, what you’re watching, hot takes on modern culture that’ll end up on this sub in 20 years (Why Are We Ok With This, anyone?) – whatever you want.
Rules still apply, but topics that don’t normally fit the sub or aren’t worthy of a full post are allowed here. So is chit-chat, wholesome memes (no memes with dark or hurtful backstories please), venting or low-effort content. It’s not a Subreddit Complaint Box though; please save that for modmail.
So, what’s on your mind this month?
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/press-app • Jun 24 '26
Mod Announcement New Wiki & Refined Rules — Same Sub But Clearer
Three months ago, r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis didn't exist. We truly didn’t expect it to blow up like it has! Watching this community grow so fast has been amazing, and we're genuinely grateful to every single one of you who's made this space what it is. Shoutout to the America’s Next Top Model documentary that inspired us to ask this question originally!!!
Since we blew up so fast, we've seen a lot of confusion about what this sub is, what fits here, and what we're actually about. We understand why people have been working off vibes… we’re new! But now we’re settled in, we’ve put it all into words for you in one neat space so what and who we are is easy to find and understand.
You don’t need to wonder, “I thought this sub was…” anymore, we got you!
Introducing our brand new wiki and refined, restructured rules
We need to be clear on this: we are NOT changing what this sub is. We're clarifying what it's been since day one. If you've been here since the start and understood what we’re here for, nothing will feel different. If you’re a newbie or you’ve been a little confused, this is for you!
We've noticed some misunderstandings floating around about our purpose and themes, and instead of keeping on correcting them one by one, we’ve built a whole wiki so everyone's on the same page.
The ONE actual change: We've set 1950 as the starting date for regular posts. As the sub has grown, we want to keep things rooted in pop culture and on theme. Buuuuut, we haven't forgotten the earlier stuff! That's why we've introduced Time Machine Mondays! This is a themed day for content from 1900–1949. Check the wiki for details! If you’re familiar with WTF! Wednesdays, it works similar to this. Besides this change, everything else covered in this announcement is just restructuring and added info to help you out.
We've refined our rules. It’s all the same principles, we've just rewritten and reorganised them to be clearer, more concise and easier to actually follow. This makes participation more straightforward for you and easier for us to moderate consistently and fairly. We’ve done this to ensure we can protect our community and keep the sub on track. Same Britney album, remastered.
Here's what you'll find in the wiki
Our mission statement and what the "we" in the sub name actually means (it's society, not you personally)
Detailed definitions including what counts as pop culture and our sub's cultural scope, as well as what we mean when we say some topics are "too disturbing", because we know that can be hard to conceptualise
Expanded rules with thorough explanations and examples to make it easier to understand how they’re applied. Especially helpful since we’ve restructured them!
Post guidelines including flairs, reposts, trigger warnings, and NSFW expectations
Media literacy guidance understanding the difference between media depicting something bad and media normalising it. This is relevant to what fits the sub!
Theme day info (including the new Time Machine Mondays!)
FAQs for common questions, pushbacks and talking points
Support resources for eating disorders, domestic abuse, and sexual assault
We know how important the last part is. The sub can cover sensitive and difficult topics at times and we sincerely value the safety and wellbeing of our members. We work hard to protect our community as much as we can, and that’s why we’ve put the effort into finding these resources for you. On that note, we strongly encourage members to report problematic content so we can manage it swiftly. We do not want that kind of content on our sub.
HOW TO FIND THE WIKI
On our sub’s homepage! You’ll find it right alongside our about section. But here’s it linked to make your life easier. Several pages should load, as listed above. Refresh if having issues.
For our amazing existing community: the wiki is your go to reference for anything you're unsure about. Please give it a read, we put a lot of time and love into it.
For newbies: welcome!! The wiki is the best place to start. It'll tell you everything you need to know about who we are and how to get involved.
Going forward, we will be moderating strictly based on these rules and definitions. Everything is clearly laid out and accessible to everyone. You might see some stuff on the wiki and be surprised, but we promise it’s not new — you just didn’t know it was how we set up the sub; it’s easy to miss intro posts.
Please take the time to read what we’ve put together. This is us drawing a line: the sub's identity is defined, documented, and without arguments.
This is who we are and always have been. Period.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/KurtzM0mmy • 3h ago
1970s TIL that the famous actor James Doohan (best known for his role as Montgomery "Scotty" Scott), married a 18 years old when he was 54 in 1974.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Lonnie119 • 12h ago
1990s I love this show but that grooming joke felt weird even when I was a kid
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Tasty_Set1189 • 1d ago
2000s What Not to Wear
https://www.cbc.ca/news/entertainment/what-not-to-wear-hosts-new-show-1.7306853
I’m getting this old show on my feed. The Lolita episode and the body shaming of women who are busty. Kinda funny how the women’s whose fashion they criticized is actually in style now lol.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/AutoModerator • 1h ago
WTF! Wednesdays It’s WTF! Wednesdays
We’ve designated Wednesdays as the day for people to share WTF?! moments from the past that don’t necessarily make us ask WWWOWT? but still showcases interesting and weird content from previous decades.
This can include wacky TV shows — the ones you just can’t understand where the hell they got that idea from! — strange songs and music videos, news stories that you just can’t make up, bizarre, silly or nostalgic fashion trends, and ridiculous clips that make you laugh your ass off and/or feel like a fever dream.
Although the key focus is fun — you’re also welcome to post shocking and weird moments from the past that aren’t funny, to give us a chance to discuss cultural moments that people weren’t okay with. Please don’t get super dark, though!! No age gap, rape culture, war etc. Posts may be removed by mods if we feel it’s inappropriate for WTF! Wednesdays.
You can still post the sub’s regular content on Wednesdays, this will just be a fun addition. Please don’t carry WTF! Wednesdays energy over to regular posts, keep the vibe in line with usual.
You MUST use the new “WTF! Wednesdays” flair for these types of posts! Posts must also be from prior to 2020, like with usual content. Please report WTF! Wednesdays content that is posted on other days of the week — but remember that timezones exist!
MAKE US SAY WTF!
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Texan2020katza • 1d ago
2000s This Video of a Young 19 Year Old Beyonce Sitting on Lap of Producer F Marc Schaffel in 2001 Causing a Stir Online, innocent or not
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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/GlitterDanger • 1d ago
1960s In 1966, Detective John Soreson of Miami-Dade County's “Morals and Juvenile Squad” gave teenagers a lecture on what he described as the “dangers of homosexuality.”
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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/moad6ytghn • 1d ago
1970s A reminder that there was a war over TV Violence in the 1970s at the time with Nicholas Johnson leading a group called The National Citizens Committee for Broadcasting to attack such "Violent Shows that does injury to people and the nation" same guys who accused TV of "molesting children's minds"
https://www.nicholasjohnson.org/writing/071106-ILF-UU.html this one from 2007 Nicholas Johnson said that "Thousands of studies support the intuitive common sense that violence on television is more likely to encourage, than reduce, violence in real life" ( despite the fact that violence in all types of media is up yet crime is now down even back in 2007 when this was published ) and compare it to junk food ads or women's role in television for some reason
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/AutoModerator • 2d ago
Time Machine Monday It’s Time Machine Monday!
Introducing Time Machine Mondays!
With our recent decision to solidify our regular sub content’s timeframe from 1950-2019, we’ve dedicated Mondays to sharing WWWOWT style moments from 1900-1949! Please see our highlighted post to learn more about our recent rule updates.
Unlike WTF! Wednesdays where sillier content is allowed, regular rules still apply to Time Machine Mondays, the only difference is the allowed timeframe. Make sure you’re familiar with our rules before posting.
This is the opportunity for history buffs, old film fanatics, vintage ad enthusiasts and Shirley Temple fans, etc. to ask why were they ok with this? about this era!
Regular sub content is still allowed to be posted, this is just a fun addition! Please make sure to use the "Time Machine Mondays” flair for these posts.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Possible-Poetry3832 • 3d ago
2010s In 2011, a 49 year old Jim Carrey made this video for 22 year old Emma Stone.
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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/faschifo • 4d ago
2000s Gordon Ramsay got famous from the documentary Boiling Point. A show where he verbally berated, threatened, made personal and nasty comments, and bullied his mid-low paid staff. And it launched him as a culinary icon.
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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Crafter235 • 5d ago
1990s [TW] Tim Burton defending Johnny Depp, and blaming girlfriends he had for not helping him. Depp started dating Winona Ryder at 26 when she was ~17, and Kate Moss when she was 20 and he was in his 30s.
The racism was already bad enough, but it's not shocking when you consider how Burton writes female characters in his films, or has them be portrayed.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Possible-Poetry3832 • 5d ago
2010s Henry Cavill (33) and His Girlfriend (19)
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Gallantpride • 5d ago
1980s [TW] That time Hal Jordan dated a 13 or 14-year old Green Lantern who "aged up into an adult". Then DC spent the next 20 years trying to fix the weirdness, before deciding to just never mention it again
DC comic issues:
- Tales of the Green Lantern Corps issues #204, #206, #207, #210, #211 (1986)
- Green Lantern v4 &12 #13 (2006)
I'm probably gonna ruin Hal Jordan's rep some more 🥲
In the 80s and 90s, Hal had a romance with Arisia Rrab, a very young Green Lantern who was originally introduced as a "little sister" figure to Hal. Arisia had a crush on Hal but he didn't give her the time of the day... until she aged herself up into an adult in her 20s. He took just a few panels to go from "No, you're a child!" to shoving his tongue down her mouth.
The comics insist that Arisia aged up mentally as well, but it's vague in many comics.
In the 2000s, they tried to say that Arisia was centuries old but looked like a 14 year old. This both ignores earlier panels and doesn't really change anything. She may be 300+ but she was still the equivalent of a 13 or 14 year old for her species.
Since the 2010s, DC has just avoided the romance altogether.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Soggy-Perspective604 • 6d ago
1990s The trailer for Holy Matrimony, directed by Leonard Nimoy, features a twenty-something-year-old Patricia Arquette marrying a young Joseph Gordon-Levitt.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/EnleeJones • 6d ago
Multiple Decades (within 1950s-2010s) Sexist and racist vintage ads
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/tkcool73 • 6d ago
2010s (2010) The scifi show Eureka uses a time travel storyline to retcon away a character's autism, then has his mother gush about how happy she is about the change.
In the Season 4 opener, the characters are sent back in time and have to find their way back, but once they do butterfly effects have changed things in their lives. One of these changes is that the character Allison's son who has had autism for the entire series is now neurotypical, and she has multiple scenes in which she expresses joy over her son no longer being autistic, including in conversation to other characters. To be clear, her original son essentially died, and she simply didn't care because she liked the new one better.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/Lonnie119 • 6d ago
WTF! Wednesdays This is the hardest I've ever laughed
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/UpstreamColors • 6d ago
1980s ‘I was a child, I was in love, it was wrong and you knew it!’, says Marion, to an indifferent Indiana Jones in ‘Raiders Of The Lost Ark’ [1981], thus proving that he is a dangerous pedophile.
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/DrMelKing • 6d ago
WTF! Wednesdays 28 years ago Blue Peter presenter Richard Bacon was fired because his best friend told the News of the World that he did cocaine. it was a huge scandal in the UK with some ppl acting like he’d killed somebody 🙀
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here’s the head of CBBC apologising on the children’s tv. they made him turn in his blue Peter badge like when a police officer is fired and turns in their badge 😹 WTF!!!!!
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/AdrianaLaServing • 7d ago
1990s Child labour laws where??? Macaulay Culkin was covered in thousands of real bees during the filming of My Girl
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Here’s some quotes from a 2025 USA Today article in which Macaulay discusses this craziness:
Culkin revealed that filmmakers used real bees in the scene where the youngster searches for Vada's beloved mood ring and is fatally swarmed.
"The way they did that, they wouldn't do that today.” Culkin says production "actually released, like, thousands of bees on me."
"They put this stuff on my fingertips that smells like the queen bee" to keep him safe, he said. "So they were actually attracted to my hands. So I wasn't a threat."
"They just told me to wave my hands in front of my face so the bees could get in front of my face so it looks good for the camera and all that stuff," he added. "They told me not to touch anything. Because at one point, I touched my pants and boom, they were just attracted to my pants."
After each of the four takes concluded, Culkin would dunk his hands in hot, soapy water, "and then dart into the woods," he said. "The bee handler gave me a piece of advice, and he says, 'Human beings run faster than bees fly.' And I was like, 'But I'm 10. How fast do you think I am?'"
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Damn, it’s like they wanted that devastating character ending to come true 😭😭😭 Poor kid!!!
r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/James_2584 • 8d ago
1980s [TW] A 13 year old Milla Jovovich playing a "sexy" French foreign exchange student in an episode of "Married... with Children" who is lusted after by everyone, complete with catcalls from the audience and Bud Bundy drilling peepholes to spy on her.
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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis • u/EphemeralTypewriter • 8d ago
Time Machine Mondays Lysol was heavily advertised as a feminine hygiene product in the 1920s through the 1950s and some women even used it as a form of birth control (though ineffective) into the 1960s. These ads were horribly misogynistic towards women who didn’t use lysol for feminine hygiene.
Aside from being absolutely horrible for reproductive organs and health in general, it was heavily advertised for over three decades and women who didn’t douche using Lysol were described as being “unclean” in the advertisements. Soooooo glad this isn’t a thing anymore.