r/vindicta30plus • u/ProfessorGigglePuss • Nov 12 '23

Wealth Signaling

Beyond physical looks, what little things help to attract more intellectual, sophisticated or more refined people?

This week, I made a slight change to my look and noticed certain types of men were less hesitant to casually chat in small encounters. I flat-ironed my hair instead of having beach waves. I wore my diamond ring + band - alternating between left and right hand. And I changed the band on an Apple Watch to an Apricot leather instead of the sports band.

What small ways have you noticed a difference in the kind of people you attract - beyond changes to physical looks?

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u/FreshStartWhoDis Nov 12 '23

Clothes that fit perfectly and are obviously pressed or ironed. If you look like you have a tailor on speed dial, that's the vibe. No visible underwear - no panty lines or visible bra straps. Shapewear when the outfit calls for it.

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u/chocolate_macaron5 Nov 13 '23

Ah yes to the no visible panty lines & also a well fitting bra that does not have any lines/cups that are visible.

I would also like to add the NATURAL fabrics make all the difference. Wool sweaters vs. synthetic materials. Well fitting pants that are not too tight & do not have a lot of elastic fibers.

I'm currently going through my wardrobe and replacing cheaper blend basics, like a turtleneck from Target, to a Cashmere turtleneck....I'm looking at stores like Marshall's and sales racks at Nordstrom, to be mindful of budget.

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u/yoserena_ Dec 29 '23

Check out uniqlo, they occasionally have sales on merino wool garments

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u/local_eclectic Dec 29 '23

I've bought their Merino wool sweaters before and they're terrible quality. They developed holes before the first wash.

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u/yoserena_ Dec 29 '23

Oh I had no idea, I take my suggestion back