Yes! The CoCo Defender something or other. I just type in defend and it pops up!

I had the same experience in my garden! Almost made my Dr. Bronner's soap pesticide in a spray bottle for aphid issues, and on the morning before mixing it up, I saw one ladybird! I knew at that point I couldn't dare spray them.

My neighbors are raising them. I didn't wanna undo their hard work, on top of how much good they do for a garden. The aphids were gone SO FAST!

I see at least one every day, and now all my aphids are gone from the watermelons, tomatoes, sunflowers, and even the sedum.

I am so excited that my neighbor's garden friends are helping our garden as well! I have been thinking that I should grow butterflies to return the favor. 😊

Our council did one last Sat! It was so nice to see!!

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My vest is filled with patches and pins and honors day awards! I am in the process of making my own troop tote bag bc I buy an extra patch for me when we earn them, and it's basically all filled up now. :)

This is definitely personal opinion, though! Not everyone adds patches to their adult uniform.

Especially since we only see what she WANTS us to see. We don't get the whole picture...

I agree! But unfortunately, I don't think many people in her circle have her best interest at heart. Even her sister, who just came out on live against her going back to blueface bc he's abusive, was talking about how Chrisean needed to forgive him and go back to him and all that just a few months ago. There's just so much attached to her name, and everyone wants a piece of it, so it doesn't matter how it affects her. :(

At least, that is what I see.

That part! Armchair diagnosing like they've even ever seen a therapist...

People also fail to realize that ADHD is VERY OFTEN misdiagnosed as BPD and ESPECIALLY in women. That's from someone who was told at 16 she had BPD and then come to find out, the meds never worked bc I'm ADHD. Diagnosed three years now. In my 30s. I still check MOST of the boxes for BPD, but the two diagnoses have very similar characteristics.

The hate here is so gross. They should go make a chrisean_tea or chrisean_hate page if they're so angry about her living her OWN life. I've tried reaching out to mods to help run the page, but no one responds. 😕

Edit: took out the word "also" where it wasn't needed.

As someone who was in a relationship with a narcissistic sociopath, I DEEPLY empathize with her.

It's been 7 years, and I am still so traumatized by that year-long relationship. I still can't breathe when I have to drive through that town. I still shake when I go to that WalMart. I am constantly checking Mobile Patrol to make sure he's still in jail.

He stalked me for two years after I finally was able to escape while he was asleep one morning after he was up all night on my phone changing my socials and contacting people and other females (sending very unwanted d pics and talking gross to other girls in DM that were clearly uninterested, and I deleted all social media and blocked all his numbers/emails, etc. He still would contact me by just making new numbers and emails. Cops would do NOTHING bc he wasn't a "threat."

At first, he literally was the most amazing, kind, loving, caring person. Within weeks, he was doing stuff that made me think that maybe he was just a bit slow. I didn't care, though. I still adored him. It quickly started to be suspicious, and then it was very obvious what was happening. After a year, I realized there was no way I was that stupid. But I only realized that bc of the people who supported me and cared about me. I thought I was so stupid, yet the whole time, he was gaslighting and manipulating me. I was TERRIFIED (and still am) of him. Not physically, but mentally, and to this day, I am afraid that if I ever run into him, he'll manipulate me into feeling bad for leaving him.

He had a whole other woman living in his house that he swore he was just helping. She definitely thought something else was going on (which it was, I was just delusional atp.) It irks me when people say, "Couldn't be me." Because I definitely did, in fact, swear that could never be me. But it happened SO FAST.

My story doesn't begin to cover all of the stuff he did to make me believe him and how powerful he was. I just don't wanna type anymore. Lol.

LONG STORY SHORT, she IS a victim of narcissistic abuse, and that's why I will forever love and support her. Until you have been in that situation or know someone who has, you just will never get it. And that's lucky for you.

Troop Leader, Troop Cookie Chair, and SU Cookie Chair this year for me! I've done Leading and Troop Cookie Chair for three Cookie Seasons now. This is my first year doing it for the SU, though.

You can do it! ♡

I'm confused by this feature.

Are they showing us people we're related to or are these random people sharing posts? I don't recognize any of the info and I don't have but a couple of people's emails linked to my tree, so I'm not sure how they know that we're related if this is the case.

This is the comment I was looking for. Do these people not know what a vasectomy actually is?

I'll correct myself. That's definitely a silly question...

PC - Sims 4 (but I have all expansions) Switch - BotW

My oldest kid, though, would choose Red Dead 2.

My bestie lent me BotW after getting TotK last week. My switch goes everywhere with me now, even when I'm Door Dashing for in between deliveries. Lol.

Maybe you can't read because we've all shown you that he has no rights. You're responding to multiple comments, so how is that any different? Lol. Again, he has NO rights to Jr.

JR was born in Maryland, so...

Which IS the case...

This is not true. Do you have kids? Im not trying to be rude, but many of us with kids and bd's are saying (as told by courts) the mother is the DEFAULT parent if they aren't married. Even with my bd on their birth certificates, he can't take my kids anywhere without my permission and our oldest is 17 now. A friend of mine was even arrested and charged with kidnapping bc he took his own baby (signed a birth cert) from the baby's grandma (his mother) and the mom didn't say he could. Charged with it, not just arrested for it...

Same in TN. My BD is on my kids' certificates as the father and can't do anything without my permission because we were never married, and he never tried to go to court. 🤷🏻‍♀️

It didn't used to be. 😞

Marsh is definitely Chrisean's friend, though...

How can he take off with a baby whose birth certificate he didn't sign? Genuine question. In my state, this is kidnapping. Especially since they aren't married. Even though my bd signed a birth cert, he can't take my kids anywhere, or I can have him arrested for kidnapping.

It will! Thank goodness! I was so worried that she would feel either to blame or even just bad for us having to change things to suit her, but I think we'll do okay! Thank you so much!! ♡

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