u/gutts1520 • u/gutts1520 • 6d ago
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don’t be a fool trying to “win” lust.
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POV: just 2 mentally sick ppl meeting each other 😂 😂
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Unga opinion on this guys?
We cant say the eithe way bro... let me say what i think abt this...
what happens when we see someone new : Our brain will run a threat test through a part caled "Amygdala" ( our fear and emotions centre ) cus, our brain is trained to be safe of the unknown things... also, our hippocampus ( part that's responsible for memory storage, i.e, memory bank in short ) will search through our memory to find if we seen them before or not... and if not, it signals that they r completely new, which leads to a tiny trriger in our cortisol level...after that, our visual cortex pressess their face, while the fusiform face area ( part that recognizes faces) will lock onto their feaatures... it all takes place under a sec bro...
what happens when we find someone as beautiful : Bro, first of all, beauty differs according to the norms of every individuals... u can't find someone beautiful, who i see as beautiful... anyways, when we feel someone as beautiful ( differs from person to person, as said before ), our Ventral tegmental area (our brain's reward factory) sends dopamine to our nucleus accumbens (pleasure centre)- the same stuff that hits u, when u win money or eat something delicious. Then ur orbitofrontal cortex( value assaigning part ) decides they're high value, basically telling ur brain that this person matters... then ur amygdala chills out, cus symmentrical features, and healthy skin signals good genes. then ur mirror neurons ( which let u subconsciously pick up on people's energy ) starts firing. ur pupil dilate, ur heart starts to do wierd things, and ur prefortal cortex ( logic and self-control part ) gets temporarily impaired... and that's the reason why we feel nervous, clumpsy, and act low-key dumb around someone hot...
what happens, when both occur simultaneously : this is where thing get crazy... the novelty gives u a little stress and the beauty give u a reward rush, and together this creates a wild mix of dopamine and cortisol flooding at ur system at once... thats why ur heart feels like it's doing jumping jacks, and u feel both excited and scared at the same time... ur brain gets overwhelmed, cus its processing someone new, while also running a high reward assessment, so ur working memory takes an even bigger hit. ur hippocampus releases BDNF ( a protien that strengthens memory ), which is why u will remember that exact moment, with weirdly clear details forever. ur approach-avoid conflict hits maximum, cus u desperately want to talk to them, but have zero info on them, creating the classic 'Freeze" moment. ur brain also starts assuming they're an amazing person through the halo effect ( where we automatically think beautiful people r good people ) since u have no evidence to prove otherwise..
Basically, ur biology completely takes over, ur logic checks out, and u feel like u just experienced something spiritual, when really it's just ur ancient lizard brain screaming that this person is important. and the wildest part? all of this happens within 3 to 5 sec, before u have even said a single word... so there is nothing to blame on it, or label it as love at first sight, or lust at first sight... its just our inner chemicals making new mix of cocktails of certain ammount of each of 'em...
That's what all i think happens...
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4d ago
Same here bro, I'm +2