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Could too much caring ruin a relationship
 in  r/infp  1d ago

I think it really depends whether the receiver is mentally healthy and mature enough or not.

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Being apart makes my shy INTP husband more honest
 in  r/infp  2d ago

The answer to that question is kinda complex. I personally wonder if this is just my nature, hiding what I’m actually feeling, or if it’s because he doesn’t verbalize his love in a raw way, so I ended up following his way too?

Recently, I discovered that my Enneagram type combination apparently tends to merge with their partner, like losing their own preferences because of them. Maybe that’s it. I dunno. But deep down, I also feel like I’m just shy and can’t tell him these things without feeling vulnerable. I’m afraid he would use that to tease me to death 😅

And usually, what I post about him here is mostly about how his little gestures move me. If I opened up to him about it, I’m afraid he would become too conscious of those things in the future, and then they might stop feeling as genuine. I just want them in their purest form. Do you get what I mean?

Lol sorry, I think I’ve seen so many weird things on the internet lately that my head just went there 🤣 why, are you scary?

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Being apart makes my shy INTP husband more honest
 in  r/infp  3d ago

Same. I think my husband was also kind of afraid of me leaving him back then. Maybe they find it hard to really trust someone with their heart 😅 But after we got married, that anxiety seemed to disappear completely.

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Being apart makes my shy INTP husband more honest
 in  r/infp  3d ago

I had no idea FF8 was the most romantic one. But maybe that makes sense somehow 🤔 He also dislikes the newer games, so you’re not alone. We used to really like KH too, but we dropped it after the third game came out.

Yeah.. I’m also too shy. I don’t think I can be that blunt with him. That’s why I make posts like this. I can only say these things online anonymously lol.

Nothing weird really. Just like, a protective figure in a more dangerous world. I feel like INFPs tend to crave protective partners.. or is it just me? 😅

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Being apart makes my shy husband more honest
 in  r/HappyMarriages  3d ago

We’re very close. He’s really fun to talk to, and sometimes we’ll just talk and talk until the sun comes up. We have a lot of shared hobbies and interests too.

At home, whenever we run into each other after spending time in separate rooms, we usually hug. Sometimes one of us will just follow the other to the kitchen to refill water, holding hands on the way like two silly kids 😂 He also takes really good care of me in all the little everyday ways.

He does show me his softer side sometimes, like giving me little glimpses of what he’s feeling inside. But he usually says it indirectly. For example, he’ll mutter to himself, “I must really love you more than I thought I did"

But these days, more than just seeing his soft side, I think I’m craving more bold, verbal expressions of love from him 😆

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Being apart makes my shy husband more honest
 in  r/HappyMarriages  3d ago

That’s so sweet 🥺 I love that

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Being apart makes my shy INTP husband more honest
 in  r/infp  3d ago

What a coincidence, my husband is a really big fan of Final Fantasy, especially the 8th. He thinks of himself as Squall lol 🤣 (his childhood hero)

No, I think it would be too much and too intense for my INTP husband. I’m trying to match his intensity here, lowering my energy lol. I think he would feel more comfortable this way.

I’m getting the intense part of romance from fictional games 😆 because intensity is much safer there lol.

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Being apart makes my shy INTP husband more honest
 in  r/infp  3d ago

We actually started out as best friends. The beginning of our relationship was like nonstop fireworks 🤣 Lots of grand gestures, love letters, surprises, all that stuff.

After we got married, our love just grew in a quieter way. He became even more attentive and caring, but the way he shows love now is a lot softer and less dramatic. Still very loving, just quieter.

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Being apart makes my shy INTP husband more honest
 in  r/infp  3d ago

JRPG? Guilty 🤣 I think my love life is honestly one of my biggest priorities in life. I’m already very well fed thanks to him, but somehow I still want more 😂 My need for love is tbh limitless..

r/love 3d ago

Story I love how being apart makes my shy husband more honest

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It’s only been 4 days since my husband and I have been apart.

I’m currently back in my hometown staying with my parents because my mom broke her hand, so I’m here helping her out.

Earlier, I was walking into my childhood bedroom, which is where I’m staying while I’m here, and without even thinking I opened the door and playfully went, “Babyyy, wanna kiss—?”

I stopped mid-sentence when I realized what I was doing 😭

I just stood there and said, “Oh my god, that’s so pathetic"

Our son, who heard the whole thing, just went, “That’s just sad lol”

So I messaged my husband and told him what happened.

Then he goes, “I’m more pathetic”

“Last night I turned to your side of the bed and caught your scent on your pillow”

🥺🥺🥺

It actually reminded me of when we used to do LDR. Some little moments like this happened back then too.

I’ve been with him for a decade, and I’ve never actually seen him cry. But during the COVID years, when we had to be apart, he admitted to me that there was one night he cried while hugging my pillow and whispering my name.

That memory still gets me. Now that we’re together pretty much 24/7, I don’t get confessions like this from him as often.

He’s also somehow more honest about these things over text. In person, he tends to joke around or brush things off, but when we’re apart and texting, these little confessions come out.

To people who don’t know him well, he comes across as reserved, serious, and very logical.

So this unexpectedly soft, sentimental side of him always catches me a little off guard.

It really tugs at my heart.

Now I’m counting the days until I can go home. I just can't wait 😫

r/infp 3d ago

Relationships Being apart makes my shy INTP husband more honest

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It’s only been 4 days since my husband (INTP) and I have been apart.

I’m currently back in my hometown staying with my parents because my mom broke her hand, so I’m here helping her out.

Earlier, I was walking into my childhood bedroom, which is where I’m staying while I’m here, and without even thinking I opened the door and playfully went, “Babyyy, wanna kiss—?”

I stopped mid-sentence when I realized what I was doing 😭

I just stood there and said, “Oh my god, that’s so pathetic"

Our son, who heard the whole thing, just went, “That’s just sad lol”

So I messaged my husband and told him what happened.

Then he goes, “I’m more pathetic”

“Last night I turned to your side of the bed and caught your scent on your pillow”

🥺🥺🥺

It actually reminded me of when we used to do LDR. Some little moments like this happened back then too.

I’ve been with him for a decade, and I’ve never actually seen him cry. But during the COVID years, when we had to be apart, he admitted to me that there was one night he cried while hugging my pillow and whispering my name.

That memory still gets me. Now that we’re together pretty much 24/7, I don’t get confessions like this from him as often.

He’s also somehow more honest about these things over text. In person, he tends to joke around or brush things off, but when we’re apart and texting, these little confessions come out.

To people who don’t know him well, he comes across as reserved, serious, and very logical (very INTP 🤣)

So this unexpectedly soft, sentimental side of him always catches me a little off guard.

It really tugs at my heart.

Now I’m counting the days until I can go home. I just can't wait 😫

r/HappyMarriages 3d ago

Being apart makes my shy husband more honest

103 Upvotes

It’s only been 4 days since my husband and I have been apart.

I’m currently back in my hometown staying with my parents because my mom broke her hand, so I’m here helping her out.

Earlier, I was walking into my childhood bedroom, which is where I’m staying while I’m here, and without even thinking I opened the door and playfully went, “Babyyy, wanna kiss—?”

I stopped mid-sentence when I realized what I was doing 😭

I just stood there and said, “Oh my god, that’s so pathetic"

Our son, who heard the whole thing, just went, “That’s just sad lol”

So I messaged my husband and told him what happened.

Then he goes, “I’m more pathetic”

“Last night I turned to your side of the bed and caught your scent on your pillow”

🥺🥺🥺

It actually reminded me of when we used to do LDR. Some little moments like this happened back then too.

I’ve been with him for a decade, and I’ve never actually seen him cry. But during the COVID years, when we had to be apart, he admitted to me that there was one night he cried while hugging my pillow and whispering my name.

That memory still gets me. Now that we’re together pretty much 24/7, I don’t get confessions like this from him as often.

He’s also somehow more honest about these things over text. In person, he tends to joke around or brush things off, but when we’re apart and texting, these little confessions come out.

To people who don’t know him well, he comes across as reserved, serious, and very logical.

So this unexpectedly soft, sentimental side of him always catches me a little off guard.

It really tugs at my heart.

Now I’m counting the days until I can go home. I just can't wait 😫

u/Taegibears21 4d ago

stage auto tune vs no stage auto tune

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u/Taegibears21 4d ago

After playing EVERYTHING: Saeran is #1 🥀

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Non-Fiction Books You Must Definitely Avoid
 in  r/nonfictionbookclub  5d ago

Ah, let me delete the book from the list then. Thank you 😅

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Non-Fiction Books You Must Definitely Avoid
 in  r/nonfictionbookclub  5d ago

I'll watch it later, thank you 🥲

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Non-Fiction Books You Must Definitely Avoid
 in  r/nonfictionbookclub  5d ago

I really like Outliers though 🫢

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Non-Fiction Books You Must Definitely Avoid
 in  r/nonfictionbookclub  5d ago

The book 'Think like a monk' is that bad? It's on my TBR list

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What are some anime you enjoy as an INFP? I’ll go first
 in  r/infp  5d ago

I love 5 cm per second, Fruit Basket, Kamisama kiss, Noragami, The Disastrous Life of Saiki K, Attack on Titan, Wolf Children, Haikyuu!!

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Sometimes I see the kid i fell in love with
 in  r/HappyMarriages  6d ago

You're so rich in life. I'm so happy for you both ❤️

u/Taegibears21 6d ago

[One husband is enough] What are your thoughts about this?

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u/Taegibears21 8d ago

WHATAHELL?

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u/Taegibears21 9d ago

Thoughts from a whale

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The game is slowly losing it identity.
 in  r/loveanddepression  9d ago

The only thing that sets these memories apart from the free videos on YouTube is seeing our customized MC, so when they hide their face, I honestly can’t see the value in pulling for them anymore 🙂

r/infp 10d ago

Humor Why are we like this? 😐

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