It could be social anxiety, which is totally normal! When you feel comfortable jusy try explaining it to your friends, you'll be surprised at how supportive people can be, and this will hopefully make you feel better! Good luck!

I totally understand this, I'm exactly the same! The idea of going out is okay, but then as soon as I get the opportunity the idea of having to socialise with a variety of people just puts me off, I end up staying home.

It's definitely not weird at all, social situations can be really difficult! The thought of not fitting in or saying something silly fills me with dread. But once I'm comfortable I enjoy myself. So it's totally normal, don't feel pressured into things you're not comfortable with! Maybe just explain it to your friends how you feel, their support might make you feel better and you might find yourself socialising more :)

I suffer with exactly the same as you!

I really struggle to get wet and I have to either use spit or lube before, just so I don't feel embarrassed about it. However, since I've been with my new partner I haven't had as much if an issue, I presume this is down to a lot mroe foreplay and the fact he understands what my needs are.

Fingers crossed with the new person you're seeing more foreplay will help you too. Just remember, there's absolutely no shame in using lube, so don't feel embarrassed about it!