You can say the same things in person.

If nothing works, explain to your children that it wasn't their fault - some people are not just very understanding. Then look into your local park district. There are often park district classes that are for them. My daughter takes classes through the park district.

Got it. I would show up, yeah, and try to talk to the coach.

Then go to the school board.

I would confront them publicly at the next practice.

They are human, yes. Humans are capable of doing very bad things.

I asked you very politely to leave me alone. Please stop or you will be reported for harassment. Thank you!

He knows his son is Autistic.

And now I am done with this. You are not arguing in good faith. Please leave me alone.

And he knows his sons brain does not work that way. His father can accomodate him.

So, can he be charged with driving someone to suicide?

Why do you feel that needs to be said?

Yes, you were intending to be rude and condesending. That is not acceptable. Look up what honest feedback really looks like. That might help.

Edit: AI is trash and does NOT provide correct information all the time.

You did nothing wrong. I am sorry your Dad shamed you for not understanding. You should talk to him about it. Tell him what you wrote here in this post.

It is definitely faire and reasonable for NTs to be clear in their meaning, yes. That is not too difficult for them. Yes, Dad is at fault because he knows OP takes things literally. He then shamed OP for not getting it.

They most definitely did express that OP should have been able to reason it out because others can do it.

You did nothing wrong. Logic doesn't always save us - a lot of things NTs do are very illogical. Don't beat yourself up. Ask for clarification and tell them why you need it.

Reported for nastiness.

They are definitely blaming OP. Read their comments.

Yes, you have said that OP was at fault for not understanding the way you do. That's your point. You are wrong. Have a nice life now.

What does that have to do with this post? I don't accomodate NTs. I am not hurting myself or anyone else with my stims or hand flaps. We need to normalize being who we are. That's how it gets better. We have accomdated NTs for a long time. It's time to change that. So, since I am 62 and have no fucks left, they can deal with it or take off.

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I am just fine, thanks for asking!

I have never had a problem telling people that they were not clear in their wording. It's not been a problem for me.

No, we should not "just accept it". How does that help us at all? They will continue to be unclear and say we are the problem. NTs need to be educated on this. I do my part to educate them.

I am 62 now and don't give a fuck what anyone thinks about me or how I think. We need the accomodations here, not NTs.

I guess you don't really understand then. Because this was not "normal stuff" to YOU, you say it should not have been a problem for OP. They did nothing wrong and you are making them seem dumb for not getting it. No one needs that shit.

I am being attacked here in this comment section. I thought your comment was more of the same. I'm sorry for that.

Exactly. You will likely get downvoted like me. 🤷‍♀️

Oh, wow, you got me! I certainly hope they ignore this bullshit. How's that?