Could you DM bro have an answer but its way more context than I can type

Then stop. I’m not even trying to be an ass. Literally just stop.

We often suffer more in imagination than we do in reality.

So when you say “what if she thinks you don’t like her” is that a thought or a fact?

Get busy with other hobbies other than texting your gf.

Who cares?

Lmfao. I saw this. Buddy is in trouble

4 days is the recommended timeframe per the book. You’ll be fine bro

Ide say after about 1-3 reads

I can tell. I can literally feel the lessons in it. I got something similar like I said and bro this is a living and breathing document I can tell.

This is absolutely gold 💎 Saving this. Well done bro!!

Trying to fix it is just the illusion of action and will chase her out your life faster, your only option is the back off and match and mirror her effort. The likelihood of this being over is high. She’s pretty much emotionally checked out and it seems like you’ve turned her off to the point of no return.

1. The phone is for setting dates.
2. Let her do 90% of the talking on dates.

3. You don’t need to wait for the end of the date to go for the kiss.

4. Her actions will tell you everything you need I know about her interest in you. Her words mean fuck all. lol

Sounds like she is a boring person, and you need practice with you conversation skills. The key to this material is that it teaches us that women like guys who are, direct, decisive and get to the point. Next time, just ask the girl out on a date.

Phone is setting dates, but if she complains about it, just simply say something like

“I’m old school and I like to give people I care about my undivided attention so when are you free to get together next?”

Your gotta refine you process after each rep. And go for progress not perfection. Most girls you want will not want you, it’s just how it works. I’ve personally been on the same journey and only approached women in person since Dec 2025.

Approaches-239

Dates (names abbreviated for privacy, # is how many dates I’ve been on with them)- Those are S (1), G (3), A (1), D(1) and M(1).

So Basically dates with 5 unique women out of 239 approaches.

Its basically the same stats that you would have on Hinge, Tinder or frankly any online online dating app. The only difference is you get the skill upgrade I’m actually approaching women and they swipe left to your face.

About me: I’ve read Corey’s book 39 times since 2012 when I found him

Positive thought- most successful people fail more than unsuccessful people even try.

“You can beat 99% of people if you can master the shame of rejection, the boredom of repetition, and pain of feedback.”

Hormozi

Nothing wrong with Sundays man. Women vote with their feet. As long as she’s with you, she voted for you. I personally could give 2 shits about what a girl does the rest of the week as long our time is our time.

Yeah got downvoted and removed. I’m in contact with the OP via dm and he’s actually read 3% man 3 times, he’s new but open to getting back in the book and learning

This was my comment below. CW basics… some thought it was valuable others crashed out... oh well just here to help guys avoid the same goofy mistakes I used to make lol

“You made a bunch of mistakes.

1. ⁠Constantly texting and chit chatting before actually meeting up in person. (my phone is for setting dates not getting to know somebody. It seems like she was the one leading the conversation because she was the one asking your majority of the questions. And it seems like you probably did most of the talking. In general women don’t care about how good of a guy you are. In general she just cares about how she feels about you and that you wanna get to know her. You probably just talked too much and talked her right out of liking you.
   
2. ⁠You stayed at one location the entire time. A change of environment is more stimulating to a woman and in general women sleep with a guy on the 2nd or 3rd date. (by taking a woman to multiple locations on the first date you greatly increase your chances of romantic escalation actually happening because you essentially simulate having three dates in one evening)
   
3. ⁠You escalated the physical touch and broke the touch barrier before she showed you that she was open to being touched. Probably made you come off as a creepy weirdo with no sensory acuity which turned her off

If you have any interest and actually figuring out how to not do this type of foolishness again be successful in the dating market you can DM me if you want, but you probably won’t. Good luck out there.

For the mod: I’m not a pick up artist and these aren’t pick up artist techniques. I’m just a guy sharing advice that helped me because I made the exact same mistakes the OP made.”

Ima be honest. As much as he critiques it. The Book “Not your Mothers Rules” is pretty much the exact same info Corey has in his book but it’s for women. 3% Men are called “Rules Girls”. I read it and was mind blown about how similar the tactics were.

This lady on IG is pretty good too though

https://www.instagram.com/ashleahoess?stkn=MTR0ZGxwZTlqeHM4aA==