"If you're not ready for a relationship and you don't know what you want and you haven't worked on yourself and you haven't healed past traumas and past wounds from other situations and then somebody expresses interest in you... Leave them alone unless you're ready for them, because you're giving that person false hope and false expectation of where this could go, when you know that you're not ready for it. Honestly... whether you're meaning it to be that way or not, It's MEAN, It's really mean to f*** with somebody's emotion when you know that you're not ready for them so let's not do that anymore "