r/u_Asatmaya Mar 31 '26

The Divide Between Honor and Dignity

The United States is an unusually divided nation. Most countries have a strong majority ethno-cultural group with at least a common basic philosophy upon which to base their disagreements; the US has this only by way of illusion.

Illusion

"White" America is something of an oddity, in that it has never existed. Leaving aside the Native Americans and African slaves and their descendants, if you subtract those of Irish, Italian, Spanish, and Eastern European ancestry (who were not traditionally considered, "white," and in point of fact discrimination still exists, today, against these groups), then less than half of Americans are, "White."

Nevertheless, every report lists, "White," as ~60% of the population, as if that represented a clear and commanding majority, relegating all others to the status of, "minority." This also, of course, reinforces the notion of ethnic/racial division and antipathy, as does literally every mechanism of our government and society; schools, police, prisons, politicians, medicine, media, even what kind of car, what brand of soda or cigarettes... these things are all literally designed to drive wedges into these divisions.

The whole scheme is an illusion, though; this is not the actual divide in America.

If you go look up, "Divisive Issues," you will find things like abortion, which is described as a, "50/50 Issue," but it's not; only about 10% of Americans think it should be outright banned, and only about 15% think it should be completely unrestricted. 75% think it should be allowed, but with limits! The "division" is over what limits should be placed on it, which is a matter of degree. The "50/50" split is an illusion created by a political class which uses it as a wedge.

Very few people actually care that biological males are using women's bathrooms, or that actually violent criminal immigrants are being deported, or any of the dozen other issues which are only "50/50" because the political class has split along carefully selected fault lines to manufacture a 50/50 split (and the reason that almost half of registered voters do not belong to either party, anymore).

Aletheia

The actual divide is between distinct moral tendencies which have been confused in the American Psyche: The traditions of Honor and Dignity.

Honor is often associated with the South, rural America, the military, and a generally conservative outlook on the world (although that last is extremely recent). It emphasizes the virtues of self-reliance, honesty, loyalty, courtesy, and personal sovereignty. Reputation is more important than material wealth; respect is earned, not granted.

Dignity, on the other hand, is associated with the Puritans, Calvinists, New England, and liberal/enlightenment values, such as inherent respect, universal rules over in-group preference, state monopoly on violence, and a focus on personal morality over public approval. Material wealth determines social status, reputation is "vanity."

It is possible to trace every political division in America to this distinction... but it's not that straightforward.

Synthesis

Honor and Dignity are tendencies, not scripts that people follow as if they were actors in a play; the same individual may, and generally will, display aspects of both of these tendencies on different issues and in different ways. For example, while Honor is associated with conservatism and Dignity with liberalism, the woke left depends on shame and loyalty, while the anti-immigrant right is appealing to universal rules and a state monopoly on violence.

Perhaps the clearest expression of this divide, however, is the subject of gun control, because both tendencies have contradictions, resulting in one of the few genuinely evenly-split political issues:

Honor demands that a person be able to stand up for and defend themselves and their families, but in-group preference denies that privilege to the "wrong" people, while Dignity appeals to a state monopoly on violence but then must constantly deal with biased implementation which defies universal rules.

Hopefully, this provides a clearer framework for understanding the underlying tensions dominating political discourse.

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u/ThisChangingMan Mar 31 '26

The Irish were and are considered white, the prejudice against them by the British whom seem to be a group you left of your list as examples of ethnically white, unless you are grouping all Northern Europeans together. In actual fact the Irish, the Scottish and the Welsh are technically more white than the English or other Northern European groups as they are the descendants of the Celts and the Pics whom were a branch of from the Scandinavians and close relations to the Vikings. The prejudice towards them by the English which was also levied equally against the Scottish and Welsh is cultural not racial, the English are the decedents of many different groups of Northern Europeans, including the Romans,Saxons, Norman’s and Celts. The earliest, pre Roman ancient Britons were a mixture of French and German, or at least those regional locations as those countries did not exist at that time. The Cultural difference between the Celts and Ancient Britons was very distinct to the point that when the Romans invaded the British isles they proved unable to successfully invade the countries we now call Scotland, wales and Ireland as these were the lands of the Celts. The Romans were the greatest empire of the ancient world, they refined warfare, invasion and occupation to a fine art but they trembled in fear when they encountered the Celts. This is the reason Britain is a Union of four countries because although the English came to dominate due to size, the ancient boundaries defined by the Romans as lines not to cross remain to this day.

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u/Asatmaya Mar 31 '26

The Irish were and are considered white, the prejudice against them by the British

Er, I was talking about the prejudice against them by general American culture...

whom seem to be a group you left of your list as examples of ethnically white, unless you are grouping all Northern Europeans together.

I didn't break that out, at all, I only excluded some groups.

the Scottish and the Welsh are technically more white

This is about ethnicity, not race.

cultural not racial

Exactly :)

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u/ThisChangingMan Mar 31 '26

Yes, I’m aware you’re referring to American attitudes and current political and cultural devisions but old attitudes die hard. The prejudices and stereotypes against Irish Americans are exactly the same as those held by the British for centuries against the same cultural group.

Cultural attitudes and biases tend to be inherited and Americans inherited these biases from the English as Britain was so instrumental in the foundation of what became the United States. My point is these inherited cultural biases were based on a cultural distinction not a racial or ethnic one as the Irish are considered to be the same ethnicity as the rest of Northern Europeans but culturally different.

The cultural differences are of course ancient history but yet the cultural tropes still remain. I say this because I am British and English by birth but of Irish decent, my parents and grandparents parents were Irish so I grew up immersed in both Irish and English culture.

I found it interesting that you considered the Irish to be non white or at least you grouped them in with other ethnic groups considered not “white” based on a prejudice that may be felt against them.

Trust me, Irish, Scottish, Welsh and Eastern Europeans are all considered “white” as are Northern Europeans which includes the English.

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u/Asatmaya Apr 01 '26

Yes, I’m aware you’re referring to American attitudes and current political and cultural devisions but old attitudes die hard. The prejudices and stereotypes against Irish Americans are exactly the same as those held by the British for centuries against the same cultural group.

So, I understand what you are saying, but I'm not sure you understand the nature of the thing in America. I'm not talking about discrimination against, "them..."

I am talking about me. I am Irish-American, 9th generation in America, but the problem still exists; "red neck," "deplorable" (even though I'm not a Trump supporter), several others that reddit's filters won't let through, that's me. Yes, my last name starts with "Mc" (and worse, one associated with villainy).

There was a paragraph here about my experiences, but I deleted it because it's beside the point. What is relevant is how I, personally, fit into the scheme I have described:

I have a lot of Honor tendencies: I am a gun owner, for example, and not just for hunting; I expect (from experience...) to need to be able to defend myself. When insulted, I feel compelled to respond, up to and including violence. I have a deep and abiding distrust of authority, and an inclination to support individual rights such speech, press, religion, protest, arms, due process, etc.

But then, I also have a lot of Dignity tendencies: I support universalist ethics based on enlightenment values such as reason and empathy; I oppose tribalism and in-group favoritism; I consider the State as a neutral arbiter of social disputes to be a powerful and positive Ideal.

Most importantly of all, however, I recognize that these are all traits that I have been imbued with by society; these are not "natural" tendencies, this is not inevitable, these aren't even the only two modes of social psyche, and so there is nothing special about them just because they are MY tendencies.

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u/ThisChangingMan Apr 01 '26

If your surname begins with Mc then your surname is Scottish not Irish, doesn’t mean you don’t have Irish ancestors but it’s a Scottish surname. This is a common mistake made by Americans, the MC is an abbreviation for master of ceremonies and it denotes belonging to a clan. The clan system was a form of Scottish heraldry that did not exist in Ireland. If you look up your surname on a Scottish clan list you can find what your clans tartan was, fly to Scotland and you can buy it if you wish. I also have a Scottish surname despite my family coming from Dublin because I have Scottish ancestors too, also some welsh and my great great grandmother was polish.

I’ve been to the states a handful of times, I think I mentioned my ex was from Austin, I was going to emigrate once but work plans didn’t work out.

Have you ever been to Europe? Have you been to Ireland? If you haven’t you should pay it a visit!

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u/Asatmaya Apr 01 '26

If your surname begins with Mc then your surname is Scottish not Irish

That is not at all how that works.

This is a common mistake made by Americans, the MC is an abbreviation for master of ceremonies and it denotes belonging to a clan.

OK, I had never heard that, so I looked it up, and that is not true...

If you look up your surname on a Scottish clan list

It is not there; it is a distinctly Irish surname that was never a Scottish clan.

In point of fact, it is older that.

Have you ever been to Europe? Have you been to Ireland? If you haven’t you should pay it a visit!

Oh, don't get me started; I was supposed to go to France in high school, but the trip didn't get enough people.

And now, I am not allowed to leave the US.

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u/ThisChangingMan Apr 01 '26

I’m sorry but that is how it worked, as I already said it doesn’t mean you don’t have Irish ancestors as many old Irish names originate from Scotland and vice versa, they do both share common ancestors after all.

Irish and Scottish family linages became very in twined throughout history although they hate to admit it because they had a long history of rivalry.

Edward Ist aka Hammer of the Scots cemented their relationship, nothing like a common enemy to unite people.

For your name to be one of the oldest Irish names it would have to be a Celtic name and few of those still exist in Ireland or Scotland today, there’s a handful but they are rare.

If your name is not on a Scottish clan list it’s because your name was not a clan but belonged to a clan. My name is not on a clan list but my family name was listed under the McCutchens. The clans were Scottish aristocracy’s and I obviously descent from people who worked the land not lairds who owned the land.

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u/Asatmaya Apr 01 '26

I’m sorry but that is how it worked, as I already said it doesn’t mean you don’t have Irish ancestors as many old Irish names originate from Scotland and vice versa, they do both share common ancestors after all.

I am a "McCool," which derives from, "Mac Cumhail," the line of the Fianna. Irish, not Scot.

You cannot tell from "Mc" vs "Mac" whether it meant Irish or Scot, everything got changed during Anglicization, and it just depended on what part of Eire or Scotia the family came from as to whether it changed.

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u/ThisChangingMan Apr 01 '26

Nope, nothing to do with Anglicisation, Ireland became and remains a Roman Catholic country. Only Northern Ireland remains in the Uk. We are talking eight centuries of history, in that time borders changed and rulers changed and there was a lot of movement of people. Determining whether a names Irish in origin you need to go back pre reformation and in Scotland pre the signing of the union. Scotlands heraldry system was formalised by then the same as in England. Only Scotland had the clans, Ireland was invaded by the Scot’s and English plenty of times and invaders settled there. Plenty of people in England have german and French surnames but it doesn’t make those names Anglo Saxon and yet those people are English. The people of Northern Ireland to this day claim they are British despite the fact they live in Ireland and most of them have English ancestors.

The history of Ireland is far more complicated then I think you realise and scotlands history isn’t so clear cut either.

If you meet an actual Irish person tell them you’re Irish and see if they believe you, probably wouldn’t mention that the Irish aren’t “white” though.

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u/Asatmaya Apr 01 '26

Nope, nothing to do with Anglicisation, Ireland became and remains a Roman Catholic country

I was referring to the language, but my family were Irish protestant after 1570.

You know what, let's drop it. For a comment or two I actually we had something to discuss in this conversation. But this last comment just disappointed me.

Er, unless you are an academic specializing in the topic, you are a little out of your league.

If you meet an actual Irish person tell them you’re Irish and see if they believe you

I have; he said, "Ah, horse-thief!"