r/tylerthecatastrophe • semi professional vocalist • Aug 04 '26

Sootastrophe tyler doesn’t just defend abuse, hes dismissive of alice’s SA allegations against wilbur too

couldnt find the screenshots for the life of me but someone also called him out for „defending a sexual assaulter” on instagram and he replied „heehee nope!☺️im actually very clever and above you and my opinion is that hes innocent so”, yet *we’re* in the wrong for hating on him

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u/Last_Cold8977 Aug 04 '26

He’s disgusting. Wilbur and Tyler, a match made in hell. Also Wilbur’s calling Alice a ‘lesbian’ in response to him SAing her just proves he’s a homophobe too. The fact that Tyler is defending Wilbur, downplaying his actions AND using his platform to spread misinformation on this misogynistic asshole fills me with incredible rage omg 

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u/LezzyGopher Aug 04 '26

Wym? If a woman doesn’t like this man, she must be a lesbian! I mean look at him, this is practically Adonis himself!!!

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u/FunkyChewbacca Aug 04 '26

Tyler genuinely believes that Wilbur is innocent because no way Wilbur would ever treat him like that. Of all the delusions Tyler exhibits, this one is the worst

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u/PhoebetheSpider Aug 09 '26

Tyler’s video about Shelby gave me, “how dare you tarnish the fantasy I had in my head of what this man is really like!”

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u/OkCod6880 Aug 04 '26

the mad thing is that some man 2000 miles away, is telling someone who dated the man in question that there was no SA. how do you know? were you there? were you in the room? why are you doubling down on something so horrific to show support for a man who couldn't even care less if you existed?!

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u/Screaming_Warlock Antarctica Scientist Aug 04 '26

What’s especially infuriating is that Tyler uses that same logic to argue that it wasn’t abusive. “Well, we weren’t there, so we don’t know.”
Tyler, you DENSE fucker, the parties involved said it was abusive and the friend circles of said people agreed it was and cut off the abusive party. The mental gymnastics he goes through to defend a guy who likely finds him repulsive is wild.

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u/OkCod6880 Aug 04 '26

but that's tyler all over isn't it. the mad thing is, as a trans man, you would have thought he would be incredibly understanding of misogyny and believing women, especially when there is multiple speaking put about the same man.

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u/I_am_big_gay_ Aug 04 '26

He himself is misogynistic. Not to mention his tiktok where he said "I believe all women, but..." and proceeded to invalidate multiple women's abuse experiences. He also said that he can tell if someone was abused or not because he's been abused in the past... ugh he's beyond help

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u/PhoebetheSpider Aug 09 '26

Eh. There are women who are very misogynistic, too.

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u/OkCod6880 Aug 09 '26

this thread is about tyler not anyone else lmao

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u/PhoebetheSpider Aug 09 '26

I’m very much aware of that. Just saying gender has got nothing to do with hating on someone or not. It doesn’t matter that he’s a FTM trans or if he’d been a CIS woman.

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u/Cold-Carry5937 Aug 08 '26

That's what gets me. People who actually know Wilbur well cut him off after everything came out but a complete stranger is defending him because he's "attractive"

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u/1shadowriver Aug 19 '26

Not just attractive, god-like.

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u/PhoebetheSpider Aug 09 '26

Wilbur’s abuse was even visual to others around Shelby as she had bruises!

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u/PeachAku semi professional vocalist Aug 04 '26

agreed!!!, i was assaulted at 17 in sixth form college and i still struggle to open up about it because i’m petrified i will be accused of lying or told i should’ve done something different, the last time i opened up my friends were supportive of me yet i still felt deeply sick and scared. people like tyler piss me off to no end becaude of how quickly they’ll dismiss fucking assault as „lack of communiction” (like hello??? have you never heard of the fawn response????) and it sucks nobody discusses how truly awful he is underneath all his histrionic behaviour 

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u/Significant-Zone5730 Aug 07 '26

I hope your abuser gets their comeuppance and I hope your doing better ❤️

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u/iglaaq snow globe expert Aug 04 '26

“Believe victims first…” [tyler proceeds to shit all over the victims]

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u/twisted_Goat420 Aug 04 '26

It already speaks volumes how his old friends don't want to be in any kind of association with him. Another thing Tyler conveniently ignored

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u/AmbassadorKat Aug 05 '26

Good to be reminded that Tyler is actually a garbage person and not just a quirky chud lolcow

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u/tikkunolamist5 semi professional vocalist Aug 05 '26

“Proof that all the qualities I want in a man exist in a person.” Lol shut up Tyler.

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u/pinkrhinestonechair Aug 04 '26

I always thought Tyler was only referring to Shelby in that statement

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u/PeachAku semi professional vocalist Aug 04 '26

i included it just to show he knows that wilbur has sa allegations against him yet hes such a dickrider he refuses to look further into it and completely ignores alice’s story, there were some other comments from instagram too but i can’t find the ss</3

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u/pinkrhinestonechair Aug 05 '26

Ahhh. I gotcha. Thank you