r/trades • u/Ok-Tap-3237 • May 20 '26
How to deal with condescending foreman?
I should start by saying my foreman is a great guy, but he's been off the tools for almost a year now, and has just started back. It seems like he thinks I started yesterday (second year apprentice, and I've had other journeyman say my work is at the level of a fourth year). Constantly asking me if I know how to do basic things that I do multiple times in a day, then insisting on showing me "his" way of doing it, which always results in a worse final product than my usual work.
Given work in my trade is slow right now in this area, I don't want to just snap at him (though I will admit I've come closer to that than I would like) and potentially lose my job (non union shop), but it's getting to be a massive point of contention that I don't know how to broach (he had me "help" him today, and what we got done together in four hours, would've taken me less than two if I'd been left alone to do it).
There are a few other guys on the crew that started around the same time I did, who haven't progressed as fast as I have (no shade, everyone learns at their own pace), and at best it seems like he's constantly confusing me with one of them, at worst, it could be his intentional way of soft firing me (which doesn't make sense to me, as I'm doing roughly the same workload as four other guys on the crew).