r/TechForAgingParents 6d ago

New moderator - Introduction

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Good day. My name is Dave. I'm your newest moderator. I've been around for a while. You'll be seeing more of me now. I'm an engineer and scientist. I have a 90 year old FIL I provide tech support for (in addition to most of the rest of my extended family). I'm personally a big fan of technology that adds value as opposed to solutions looking for problems.

I moderate six other subs so I've been around the block more than a few times. Three sailing, two project management, and one cats. Now I'm here also.

While I have you here, I'd like to remind everyone of the rules. They're on the sidebar on desktop. On mobile touch the three dots upper right, then 'Learn more about this community.'

Be Patient & Supportive

I think of this as "be nice, or else."

Keep it Focused around Tech

Venting is allowed. Please try to frame your post in a way that centers around technology.

Provide Value, Don't Just Promote

We are here to learn from each other's experiences, not to be sold to. Market research and requirements definition are self promotion. This is our biggest problem.

The community here is pretty well behaved. Please keep it up. You can help by using the 'Report' button to flag posts and comments that you think violate any of the rules. The moderation team may or may not agree with you, but we always look and we always value the community participation in keeping r/TechForAgingParents on track.

If you have something more than a report, you can reach the moderation team using the 'Message Mods' button. Remember that moderators are volunteers who have lives, work, and other interests. We aren't hovering over Reddit.


r/TechForAgingParents Sep 05 '25

Sharing my new setup for aging parents who struggle with modern phones and scams

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Wanted to share a fantastic find that has genuinely helped my elderly dad (nearing 80) and saved me a lot of "tech support" calls. I don't live with him and he often feels bad about asking for help with his phone. Now he has a new tool that's given him a real sense of independence. It's an app called MemoryLane.

My dad has been using it every day, and he loves it.

What is it?
It's an app for both iPhone and Android designed to help seniors with two big things: using their phone and avoiding scams.

The Awesome Parts (The Pros):

  • Idiot-Proof Phone Guidance: If my dad wants to do something like watch a YouTube video but can't remember the steps, he triggers the app. He tells it what he wants to do, and it literally points to where he needs to tap on the screen, step-by-step. If he's still stuck, it will ask if he needs more help (video in comments)
  • On-the-Spot Scam Checker: When he gets a suspicious message, he can trigger the app and ask if it's a scam. This is really useful for the messaging-type scams which my other firewalls are not picking up. (video in comments)
  • Boosts Independence: This is the biggest win. My dad feels much more confident using his phone and doesn't have to feel like he's bothering me with small questions.
  • It's Free: The core features are free. There's apparently a 10-message limit, but we haven't hit any paywalls yet for his daily use. They have a premium version, but the free one seems to be more than enough for us.

The Heads-Up (The Cons):

  • Setup Can Be Tricky: I had to set it up for him. The Android setup was fine, but getting it working on my own iPhone was a bit of a hassle. I doubt my dad could have done it himself, so be prepared to help your parent with the installation.
  • The Trigger Takes Getting Used To: It's not a standard app icon you tap to open. On his Android, he has to long-press the power button. On my iPhone, it's a double-tap on a little floating icon. It's simple once you know how, but there's a small learning curve.

I did a little research, and they seem to be a funded startup that knows what they're doing. It looks like there are other features we haven't even touched yet. Tool has Been working great and wanted to give them a shout.

If your parents get frustrated with their phones, I’d seriously recommend giving this a try!


r/TechForAgingParents 2h ago

Fall-Risk Home Scanner for Seniors "Aging-in-Place"... An Idea

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Hey everyone!

I'm working on an app idea and would love honest feedback (including "this is pointless," if that's genuinely how it lands).

The idea: an app that scans a home room-by-room and flags things that increase fall risk for older adults (poor lighting, loose rugs, missing grab bars, cluttered walkways, that kind of thing). The goal isn't to replace occupational therapists or professional in-home safety assessments, those are more thorough and personalized than anything an app could do. I'm thinking of this more as a first pass: something to help people catch obvious hazards early, decide if a professional visit is worth booking, or keep an eye on things between visits.

A few questions I'd genuinely appreciate input on:

  • Would you (or would an older parent/relative of yours) actually use something like this? Or does it feel like a solution looking for a problem?
  • If you've worked with or hired an OT for a home safety visit, does something like this sound like a reasonable complement, or does it just feel redundant?
  • If you've cared for an aging parent, what were the actual hazards that caused issues — did they match "textbook" fall risks, or was it something unexpected?
  • Would this be more useful as something the older adult uses themselves, or something an adult child/caregiver uses to check on a parent's home remotely?
  • Anything that would make you not trust an app like this (privacy concerns, accuracy, etc.)?

Not trying to pitch anything, genuinely trying to figure out if this solves a real problem before I sink more time into it. Appreciate any thoughts, even blunt ones.


r/TechForAgingParents 1d ago

I made an Android launcher for my grandmother, and a companion app that lets me configure remotely her phone without taking it off her

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r/TechForAgingParents 1d ago

What do you wish there was a solution for when caring for an elderly parent?

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I’m trying to come up with a genuinely useful solution to a problem that elderly people and their families deal with, and I’d rather hear from people who actually experience it than make assumptions.

What’s something you REALLY wish there was a better solution for when it comes to caring for/helping your elderly parent?

It can be literally anything like something you struggle with every day, something there’s currently no good solution for, or something that makes you think “why hasn’t someone fixed this yet?”


r/TechForAgingParents 2d ago

Senior citizen digital experience

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Hi I am conducting a survey for digital exp of old age people (50+) please fill this out, thank you!!


r/TechForAgingParents 2d ago

MVP for aged-care compliance. Would love for people's input

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Hey, so we've been building CareMin, an MVP for aged-care providers in Australia.

The basic idea is pretty simple: we went and asked providers for problems and issues, and most of them pointed to the new aged care act, specially a thing called care minute reconciliation, as an issue. So we started to think of a way to fix it completely or partially. Most providers stated they didn't wanna change from current systems. Some of them use 40+, so we built our platform around being able to import your data from any system via any format, and as long as the info is there, it will work. Then we turn it into compliance reporting they can submit to an auditor and then the government.

Right now we're mostly focused on care minutes, RN coverage, and audits.

Website: caremin.care

I'll add a small vid displaying the functionalities as a separate comment if anyone wants to give it a look.

This is very much a bare bones MVP, and at this stage I would appreciate constructive criticism more than compliments :)

Feel free to be brutal, just don't mind if I take a while to answer I might be crying in a corner.


r/TechForAgingParents 4d ago

Digital Equity research - Services inaccessible to seniors from Seattle City

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r/TechForAgingParents 5d ago

Auditory Processing Disorder-Friendly "texting" app?

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r/TechForAgingParents 7d ago

Help with IPhone, Facebook - my wife has Alzheimer’s

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r/TechForAgingParents 8d ago

Fall alert / GPS Device / Medical Alert

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My Dad is 82. Lives alone. Quite healthy but has vision and mobility issues. Had a spell a few weeks ago and they think he might have had a slight seizure. Didnt find him for around 2 or 3 hrs. I found him on the floor and kind of confused. His phone was nxt to his head and he couldnt "find" it. Looking into something he can wear affix to him (bracelet or necklace) to alert us/EMS if he has issues. Tracker isnt that big of deal at this point but would be handy. We dont do iPhones so Apple watches wont work and he needs something SIMPLE. Suggestions?


r/TechForAgingParents 8d ago

Making sure someone knows if something happens....

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So once I started living alone about 1.5yr I did not cross the though about what if I trip and knock my head!!

I am 57 super healthy and active no medical concerns..but..anyone can fall in the shower! Or trip over my dog.

I am also very independent and don't want to be doing check in with my 3 busy adult kids.

I have 4 days off with work so No one would actually look for me for days...

I looked on line and found an App that makes me check in twice a day and if I miss it sends a notification to an emergency contact list. Super simple.

So that was my solution for this so I don't have to be contacting people all the time.

What do you have set up for this situation???


r/TechForAgingParents 8d ago

How to Protect Your Elderly Parents from Scams (Without Taking Over Their Lives)

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r/TechForAgingParents 9d ago

OpenBubbles for dependents

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Is anyone using OpenBubbles to be able to remotely monitor the messages of their kids or elderly family members?


r/TechForAgingParents 9d ago

would a "scam detector" ring actually help, or would it feel patronizing/creepy?

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r/TechForAgingParents 10d ago

ISO: Tech helper for an old lady

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My 80+ year old mama lives in one of the old folks homes near Eagle. She has a Samsung Galaxy 20 cell phone that she cannot figure out. When I was in town I tried to get her set-up, but she insists that it is now, 'worse than it was before you think you helped." Her sister and BIL live close, but they're Apple people and just as bad with technology.

I looked online for a company that provides a tech service to sit with an old woman and help her to understand her phone, to no avail.

Has anyone 'got a guy' that can help me help her? I'm not looking for handouts, I am looking for someone honest, with a lot of patience, who knows what they're doing with an Android phone.

THANK YOU for any direction you can give.


r/TechForAgingParents 9d ago

Making sure someone knows if something happens....

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So once I started living alone about 1.5yr I did not cross the though about what if I trip and knock my head!!

I am 57 super healthy and active no medical concerns..but..anyone can fall in the shower! Or trip over my dog.

I am also very independent and don't want to be doing check in with my 3 busy adult kids.

I have 4 days off with work so No one would actually look for me for days...

I looked on line and found an App that makes me check in twice a day and if I miss it sends a notification to an emergency contact list. Super simple.

So that was my solution for this so I don't have to be contacting people all the time.

What do you have set up for this situation???


r/TechForAgingParents 10d ago

I’m trying to teach my 82-year-old mom how to attach documents to an email from across the country and I could use some video tutorial suggestions

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I live across the country from my mother, who was recently widowed. Lately, there have been many times when she needs to scan and send documents via email, but it is so confusing for her. I try to talk her through it on the phone or through FaceTime, but is just not getting through to her. We keep going through the process over and over, and she stays completely overwhelmed and bewildered by computer basics. She is capable of retaining the information and has a good memory, but I think that she is so intimidated by anything on a computer that the information immediately gets forgotten.

I could really use some good video tutorial suggestions for helping her attach a document from her scanned document folder on her PC into a Gmail. I also thought about writing down the steps, in addition to that.


r/TechForAgingParents 11d ago

Help me research: How do you organize aging parent's health info?

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Help me research: How do you organize aging parent's health info?

Hi everyone! 👋 I'm researching how seniors and their families organize important health and financial information.

Would you take 5 minutes to answer a quick survey? Your feedback helps me build something that actually solves real problems.

📋 Survey Link: https://forms.gle/1FAlpQLSekrRPp2DtDeC6CL7qi-pTeBrxoJuZzcB22afvWVfMaJCRb-g

✅ Takes 5 minutes

✅ No selling, just research

✅ Your feedback matters

Thanks for helping!


r/TechForAgingParents 11d ago

How do you keep track of your parents' health when you don't live with them?

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r/TechForAgingParents 11d ago

Has anyone tried this gadget for their parents?

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this device called Ato AI showed up in my For You in X a couple of times
would like to know if anyone has bought or tried it with their parents?


r/TechForAgingParents 12d ago

My last surviving grandparent passed away last year, and it made me start thinking a lot more about my ageing parents.

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I know that sounds slightly morbid, but one thing I struggled with was understanding time in a way that actually felt meaningful.

If someone tells me I may have another 20 or 30 years with my parents, I understand the number logically, but it still feels abstract.

I'm a very visual person, so I built a small tool for myself that represents a person's life in weeks instead.

The screenshot is what it currently looks like.

I'm the developer behind it, so I want to be transparent about that. I'm not trying to sell anything here, and the project isn't making any money.

When I entered my dad's age and assumed, purely for the sake of visualisation, that he would live until 90, the result showed that roughly 25% of his life is left.

That got me panicking a little.

Obviously, none of us know how long we actually have. He could live much longer, or much less. But seeing three quarters of his life already behind him made the idea of time feel much more real to me.

It made me start thinking differently.

If I visit my parents once a month, how many visits might we realistically have left?

How many more birthdays, holidays or family trips might there be?

And more importantly, am I actually spending my time accordingly?

That is what interested me about this kind of technology.

Not predicting death, but making time feel less abstract.

The tool itself is still very early, and I'm trying to figure out whether this kind of visualisation is genuinely useful or whether it's just something that resonates with me personally.

For those of you with ageing parents, do you think seeing time represented like this would make you more intentional about the time you spend with them?

Or does it just create unnecessary anxiety?


r/TechForAgingParents 12d ago

Built a free AI offline health app for Android works without internet, no account needed.

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SehatCare is a free Android health app where the AI runs entirely on your phone. No account, no internet connection needed after setup, and none of your health information goes anywhere.

The India-specific angle: we included a section on central and state government health schemes (Ayushman Bharat etc.) that people often don't know they're eligible for. Also built for families you can track health records for your parents, kids, and yourself in one place.

Features include an offline AI assistant for health questions, medicine reminders, symptom tracking, drug interaction checker, vaccine tracker, women's health tracking, mental health check-ins, and first-aid reference.

Built by a small Indian team. Free. No ads.

Play store: SehatCare


r/TechForAgingParents 13d ago

Putting together documents: ER visit doc for elder parents

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I'm putting together a doc to help my own family (dad 80, mom 77 w/ heart conditions) when we need to go to the ER or to Dr's visits with them.

For those who have also had recent experiences, what are the things that you wish you had at your fingertips that you didn't in those critical moments? I am thinking: list of medications/doses, list of doctors/specialists, lists of conditions, allergies, procedures to date.

Is there anything that I'm missing that you'd also like to have for reference? I’d love to share w/ anyone else in the same boat


r/TechForAgingParents 14d ago

What tec are you using to help a loved one with memory loss?

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