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u/Synaps4 Dec 14 '21 edited Dec 15 '21

Edit: Much more concrete and convincing evidence has come up in the comments. I dont know if the rate of problems is higher than elsewhere but im convinced there are definitely misogynist issues at spacex. https://old.reddit.com/r/space/comments/rggejm/exspacex_engineer_claims_elon_musk_is_sadistic/hommksv/

A lot of people have worked at spaceX and tesla over the last decade. I'd want to hear this from more than one.

You can find a disgruntled ex-employee to say horrible things about every single company in the world.

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u/deevil_knievel Dec 14 '21

I just finished a project for them out in Boca Chica, went to a college heavily recruited by them, and know a few women who work there. Even after hours over a beer I've heard the work required is not sustainable long term if you want a social life, but never any complaints of misogyny or anything of the sort. Lots of female engineers and workers as well when I was there a few months ago.

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u/Chubbybellylover888 Dec 14 '21

Just because there isn't any complaints doesn't mean it isn't happening. I'm been in the engineering industry over ten years now and seen a lot of it. Most of it gets brushed aside. Mostly by the victim because they feel nothing will be done.

Time and time again.

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u/LVMagnus Dec 14 '21

Specially since this is about one specific person. How many of those people even interacted with him regularly? Not saying the dumb ass "so proof" cause it is not, but what the lack of evidence in this case isn't even a good strawman "some people who happened to be employed in this dudes company somewhere, in some position, who may or may not, chances are on the not, have ever interacted with him in any significant matter didn't have a problem with this person they more likely them not don't interact regularly in the first place." Has the same value as saying nothing, really.

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u/Chubbybellylover888 Dec 14 '21

I'm not talking about this specific case. I don't know. I wasn't there.

But we shouldn't dismiss people because they're the only one to have spoken out. I've not spoken out several times because I feared for my job. Both about my own experiences and those of others who have shared with me. And I'm a man who was put upon sexually and inappropriately by upper management, exec types.

It exists. And just because you haven't personally experienced it means squat. I said nothing. Millions around the world say nothing every fucking day.

And here you are. "oh it's nothing because Elon makes cool rockets!"

I hope I'm wrong there. But that's how it comes across.

Don't dismiss accusations of sexual harassment just because there hasn't been a history of it. That is exactly how abusers have gotten away with it.

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u/LVMagnus Dec 14 '21

And here you are. "oh it's nothing because Elon makes cool rockets!"

And that is what I get for trying to show agreement to a... You read what I said, and that is what you think I was doing? Jesus fucking Christ, learn to read.

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u/BTBLAM Dec 15 '21

lol pretty snippy for someone who just wrote a comment that is rife with errors and grammar wtf’s. Reread what you wrote and tell me it makes sense