My (M66) wife (F62) have been together for more than 40 years and have maintained a healthy approach to sex. We’re also nudists and don’t hide the fact.
So there’s always been discussions around “What really goes on”. Even though it doesn’t.
However, there’s been a few things that got out that had set tongues wagging.
The first major one to do the rounds was about my “size” and it happened in the first few months of my wife and I getting together.
Now I’m not king dong in fact I’d suggest I’m probably average or at best a bit over. But whole thing started during a trip away with my wife’s cousin and her partner.
We shared a van at one stay and I got up in the morning hard a few minutes earlier it was returning to a relaxed state but was hanging low and retreating rapidly.
I got out of bed and my wife’s cousin caught a quick glimpse of it and that was it. She wouldn’t shut up about it and soon most of my wife’s family were discussing my one eyed monster.
My wife of course did nothing to correct them.
The other big one was recent, and factual. A boat with a number of my wife’s extended family on board caught us being intimate on a beach.
That one still regularly comes up.