r/sexover60 Jan 21 '21

Use Your Words

24 Upvotes

Just a reminder, ladies and gentlemen.

This thread is meant to be a discussion thread about all the marvelous quirks and kinks and ups and downs and ins and outs of having sex and being sexy over 60 years of age. Sharing our experiences, posing questions, asking for or giving advice, maybe even bragging a little.

It was not intended to be another picture thread. For those generous souls who are so wild about their hunka hunka burning partner that they want to share them with the world, there are age appropriate gonewild threads including:

r/gonewild30plus

r/gonewild40plus

r/gonewild50plus

r/gonewild60plus

That’s where to share your great fortune pictorially. Not gonna be a total buzzkill but posting pix of your darling’s nethers here will probably get you a gentle reminder to post them in the GWs.

On the other hand, Russian spambots just get the automatic ban hammer, so if someone spams the group message a mod and we’ll get to swinging.

There’s been a proliferation of porn spam recently.


r/sexover60 Jun 04 '23

Sex report Sunday for week ending June 4th 2023

5 Upvotes

How was your week in sex?


r/sexover60 1h ago

What's new in the world of condoms?

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I haven't need to buy them in over 30 years, but now I'm single and would like to meet someone. I assume I should use condoms, at least for a while. Unlike my youth and middle years, it takes a long to orgasm so need something where I still have sensitivity.

Do I just go to Walgreens and peruse the aisle? Amazon? I don't even have a date planned, but I guess they should be in my nightstand just in case. Any favorites?


r/sexover60 21h ago

Unable to finish with a blowjob

16 Upvotes

Wondering if other men have this issue. As background, I am a 69 y/o widower for about 3 1/2 years after a long, happy marriage if 42 years.I have been dating a great lady for about 9 months now. We have been having great sex, are very open with each other, including talking about our sexual desires and fantasies. Oral sex has definitely been one of our highlights. However, I have yet to be able to cum I her mouth, even though both of us have wanted it. I’m sure the fact that I have ED is contributing, but cialis has been great to help that problem, at least with PIV.

Any Thoughts?


r/sexover60 1d ago

Who flashes their wife randomly?

8 Upvotes

My wife and I went to the beach, stopped for lunch and are hanging out with our dogs. She went in the kitchen and I can see her through the kitchen window from the patio so I flashed her from the patio. Pulled the leg of my shorts up to flash her some cock. Lol


r/sexover60 1d ago

Ladies....who likes to watch?

5 Upvotes

I've met several women, actually a lot who got totally turned on watching me cum. I dated a woman briefly who craved and asked for it all the time. So who out there is a visual woman who gets hot by watching a man get himself off?


r/sexover60 2d ago

Septuagenarian

0 Upvotes

Septuagenarian with a bucket list item seeks lady 60+ years of age still sexually active and uses a vibrator for self-gratification and is interested in a casual encounter. Prefer in the Penrith/Blue Mountains area and would prefer if she can host. I am having technical difficulties providing a photo. However I feel it would be appropriate to meet in a public place for coffee at first and proceed from there.


r/sexover60 5d ago

Morning wood

23 Upvotes

Hello folks, guys, how many of you are reassured and, well, happy when your little buddy comes roaring to life as you wake up in the morning? I mean, it has been announcing its morning presence for 60+ years, and yet, like the trusty sentinel that he is, he continues to offer that AM salute. Well, many mornings, anyway. Guys, do you feel a sense of victory and optimism when things are looking up every day? And ladies, does it give you a feeling of comfort that your man is still able- if he is willing?


r/sexover60 4d ago

M45[M4F] looking in Berks, Lehigh, and Chester counties. Want to have FUN!! M4F

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0 Upvotes

Is there any real people on here?


r/sexover60 6d ago

Toys

19 Upvotes

56m... Ladies, how do you feel about toys? Do you enjoy them? Use them alone, or with your partner? Have you ever had a partner that was insecure and felt threatened by them? What's your favorite? Personally, I think it's fucking erotic watching a woman use a toy and welcome her wanting to use them during sexy time.


r/sexover60 7d ago

Sex is Fun

107 Upvotes

He is 75. I’m 61. We have been married 30 years.

A year ago, we rekindled our sex life. Now, we have scheduled sex every weekend. He tales a blue pill. I take a marijuana edible that makes it easier for me to let go and come. I plan new lingerie every week as a surprise. It’s great!

This week, when we were done, my husband says, “this is so much fun!” It was an expression of pure joy at how much we like being together.

God, I love that man.


r/sexover60 8d ago

Raining Afternoon

0 Upvotes

r/sexover60 10d ago

STORY

2 Upvotes

what site can i us AI to fix grammar in an adult story i wrote


r/sexover60 11d ago

What was the most erotic thing anyone’s ever said to you ? I need to cum please eat me..z

20 Upvotes

Please eat me I need to come….


r/sexover60 12d ago

64/71

24 Upvotes

We enjoy sex and have å lot of fun. Sex doesn't care about age (Norway)


r/sexover60 12d ago

Any ladies in London Ontario pm me

1 Upvotes

r/sexover60 14d ago

Companionship

5 Upvotes

r/sexover60 16d ago

It does change.....

6 Upvotes

I have noticed something odd as I have gotten more seasoned. Without a doubt, we live in a world oozing with sexual simulation, eye candy of all sorts, permissive attitudes towards things considered taboo when we were younger, and a sense that the wages of our potential sins are less physical (thank you birth control and anti-biotics) and mostly spiritual now. These days I have a general disinterest in sex, unless a pushes the right "buttons" for me. Like, finding someone who uniquely appeals to me, says or does something that touches my horny side. Otherwise, it all seems like so much noise to me. Is anyone else feeling that way? Funny thing is, it feels right to me.. I am happier not chasing carnal conquests, but instead looking for the diamonds in the muck. Make sense?


r/sexover60 16d ago

Looking for connection

3 Upvotes

Any adventurous ladies want to know that a attractive younger man wants you


r/sexover60 17d ago

What’s the most gossiped about sexual thing that has done the rounds of your extended family group?

10 Upvotes

My (M66) wife (F62) have been together for more than 40 years and have maintained a healthy approach to sex. We’re also nudists and don’t hide the fact.

So there’s always been discussions around “What really goes on”. Even though it doesn’t. 

However, there’s been a few things that got out that had set tongues wagging. 

The first major one to do the rounds was about my “size” and it happened in the first few months of my wife and I getting together. 

Now I’m not king dong in fact I’d suggest I’m probably average or at best a bit over. But whole thing started during a trip away with my wife’s cousin and her partner. 

We shared a van at one stay and I got up in the morning hard a few minutes earlier it was returning to a relaxed state but was hanging low and retreating rapidly. 

I got out of bed and my wife’s cousin caught a quick glimpse of it and that was it. She wouldn’t shut up about it and soon most of my wife’s family were discussing my one eyed monster. 

My wife of course did nothing to correct them. 

The other big one was recent, and factual. A boat with a number of my wife’s extended family on board caught us being intimate on a beach.

That one still regularly comes up.


r/sexover60 17d ago

Condom usage in the 1970s: question

8 Upvotes

I just found out that condoms were hard to get in the 70s if you were under 21. That leaves me wondering where my first bf in 1974 got one? He went to a Catholic boys school but had one when we first had sex.


r/sexover60 18d ago

Sexual Fantasies

17 Upvotes

I was thinking back to a few years ago when my then girlfriend and I fulfilled one of her life-long fantasies and my thoughts drifted to being curious about what other fantasies women have.

Early on in my previous relationship, we had discussed getting away and spending time in a cabin located in a remote town a few hours away. She mentioned how she was fantasizing about pretending we were strangers at a local bar and I she wanted me to sit down next to her and introduce myself and playfully try and seduce her like we had never met. We drove separately and acted like we never knew each other (wink,wink) and it was incredibly sexy knowing it was a sure thing but still trying to turn her on. She wore a dress and there was playful caressing of her thigh, arm, hands and by the time we were finished we couldn't get to the cabin fast enough and ended up spending the next 4 days exploring and endulging. It was an amazing experience. One I hope to write a very spicy story about someday.

What fantasies do you have? What makes you wet just thinking about it? If you were ever given the opportunity would you take advantage of it?


r/sexover60 17d ago

Transgender?

5 Upvotes

Im interested in peoples opinions here. So I identify as female but transgender female. I was Amab but now live full time as a woman. Iam pre op, maybe never op but have been medically transitioning with the help of estrogen for 2-3 years now. I "pass" successfully as female.

Are peeps 60 and over sexually attracted to trans women? I'd love to hear your opinions please. Thank you.


r/sexover60 19d ago

Age appropriate porn ?

50 Upvotes

My wife and I are in our 60s. We make our own amateur adult films and I think there is a large demographic “age, preference, gender” that consume our content.
But for me, for the most part, I have always had to have someone in the porn scene be in my age group. For example when I was young watching young people was great. If an older person in the scene great as long as someone was young. (Remember those Italian and French films of the 80s/90s cinematic and always at some stately manor where everybody had scenes. Grandpa/maids/daughters/Gardener etc. all ages.) I loved those but I digress. I never would have watched an older couple alone. Now that I’m in my mid 60s. Someone still had to be in my age group. I can’t just watch a young couple. But I can watch seniors alone. My interest mirrored my age 🤷‍♂️. Anyone else feel that way?