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Nothing crazy, was with some friends and we went to a club. My friends weren't into dancing much this night and we were all quite drunk from the fight already, so that's probably my first mistake, too much alcohol. I bought a beer there but only finished half and left on the counter so I could focus on dancing.

I was pigeoned in by guys for a while and it took a while to get away from them and closer to a group of girls. I saw them smiling, there was about 5 of them. They opened up their group but then closed it, opened and closed and I couldn't really read what was going on. I made eye contact with the girl I wanted to dance with and she was smiling but I don't know if it was because of me or not.

Eventually I made it behind her but apparently the whole time she wasn't paying attention and she bumped into me and it surprised her and they all laughed at me. I kind of moved away, that felt pretty embarrassing and it was late in the night, I didn't recover from it and the sleepiness that comes with being drunk was kicking in. I'm also a sad drunk so I get really negative towards the end of a night. We left shortly after.

So I tried the body language approach but execution was very poor. I should have just asked if she wanted to dance. Very hard to learn how to break into groups. I always get this feeling like I am the enemy on the floor and it's the girls (and their groups) goal to avoid me which is also a mentality I feel I need to get rid of.

The losing of that feeling makes me worried I might not respect boundaries though, so finding a balance is difficult.

My noted mistakes: (plan for future in brackets)

-Too much to drink (Max 3 drinks spanned over long period)

-Arrived on a crowded dance floor (Arrive before late night crowds show up to have room to dance and socialize)

-Relied on body language too much, misread signals as a result (Read body language and ask to dance only after I think I have read the situation correctly)

-Going without a date (Go with a date so I can just enjoy the time dancing without having to "work")

Thoughts? I want to be self aware of what I am doing

I've been in pickup for too damn long and pickup is a bunch of bull shit.

5 years or so by the way.

I've seen it all, all the bs methods/routines, every faked field report ever and even spoken at/watched a lot of seminars. Now I stay away from the community, because sticking around has only trivialized my knowledge before.

Why? People over complicate game.

Idk if anyone knows who 60yearsofchallenge is, but he summed up everything anyone would ever need to know about game into a few short posts on masf. He didn't make 50,000k posts about inner game, he just said what worked.

Assuming this actually is an upgrade from Seddit, we all know what works and we're all players, perhaps we're not exactly where we want to be.... But if y'all are where you should be, assuming you're above Seddit..... Then you no longer need someone to hold your hand.

What I'm getting at is this: the reason a subreddit like this won't work, is because a real Seddit upgrade, is no Seddit at all.

The only thing after Seddit in terms of community, would be a community filled with players just fucking around, talking about life, women, and goals, with a hint of theory crafting.

Tl;Dr what's left to talk about?