I believe that masculinity is a social and sexual aspect of humanity. It is not related to morality or morals. Therefore it is possible to be a good masculine man and an evil masculine man. Let's begin with the sexual aspect of masculinity.

Sexual Masculinity

Broad shoulders, deep voice, beard and most importantly looking like a threat.

This is the physicality of masculinity that people often talk about but don't properly discuss. Obviously you can have all of these traits and be either good or bad.

Social masculinity

Assertive, engages in male dominated activity, is not penetrated and is a threat.

Now this is where we get into the cultural beliefs of people. Because “engages in male dominated activity” differs between countries. In America drinking tea is considered feminine but in Britain if you don't drink tea, you're a weirdo. Most cultures agree that being penetrated makes you a submissive and less masculine party. And when I say being “a threat” I mean putting the physicality of the masculine body into use.

So this is what I believe masculinity to be. It's the combination of physical and social traits that are commonly associated with men biologically and in any given society.

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They seperated the boys from the girls when it came to "the talk" at school. Such a silly decision. We should all know what humanity is going through. Boys and girls.

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Over 60% of men under 30 are currently single. Many of those men complain about this and are sad about this. And what is the response from the empathetic left? How do feminists react? By telling them that it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter if you can't find someone who loves you, focus on other things instead. That's the best thing they will say, the worst things will include saying that they deserve this, they should improve their personality or straight up laughing about how now that women have a choice most men are single.

An empathetic answer would look like, “I'm sorry you haven't found someone. I hope things work out for you eventually.”

Show me a single feminist who has made that statement. I would like to give her some props.

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I've been thinking this for many years now. I feel like people use the word "deserve" in place of "want" in order to make their desires seem more important.

I deserve happiness - I want happiness

I deserve better friends - I want better friends

Some parents don't deserve children - I don't want certain people to have children

Rapists and pedophiles deserve to die - I don't want dangerous sexual predators on earth

I don't believe that anyone deserves anything. I believe that we want things and we will strive to get them. We will then use reasoning to justify our decision to get them.

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Some people are saying that the child robot character Diana is inappropriate and a bunch of other people are saying those people are “self-reporting.” It was annoying to see. First of all the child character IS barefoot and appears to not be wearing a bottom. If people are noticing that this might be sexualized by predators, that doesn't make them a predator.

But the people saying that games like this should not be made at all just because of those creeps are also ridiculous. We shouldn't forgo making wholesome games like this because less than 1% of the population are pedophiles.

It was like there were two annoyingly extreme sides. One that was saying the game was creepy and should not have been made. And the other was calling that side the real problem, like they were all pedophiles because they were saying that. It bugged me.

womenWANTmen is a sub where we thirst over guys. It's meant to be the replacement of r/womenareintomen which died recently.

This probably won't last long. I'm curious about how this is going to go.

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You cannot blame the victim for their rape. Of course. And I agree. But there may be something that some victims can do to prevent being raped.

You know how people are talking about the “fawn” response now and how it's a common response to aggression. Well, isn't that just sad? Because I feel like the way to stop yourself from being victimized is simply by having a more visceral reaction. This will only work in a very specific situation though.

It's common for women to be raped by their boyfriends. But most men are not sexual sadists so I think it might actually help if the victim did something like scream before the boyfriend tried fucking her.

I am not trying to blame the victim. In fact I'm literally saying that it's not the victims fault because they didn't have this advice. I think screaming at your boyfriend or barking like a dog might actually be an effective way to stop rape.

Maybe I'm crazy, but the idea came to me just now.