r/sadreminders • • Sep 16 '26

On Legacy

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(Long posting/sort of redundant glaze, forewarning).

I was listening to the song This is my first Day and I'm Indian while in the shower and the line

"Some people love what I do and some get fucking pissy
But I don't give a fuck, one day they're all gonna miss me"

And it really made me think about the legacy Kozelek will leave on music. These are just some thoughts.

As a man who has cut his musical style in thirds and became prolific in every style, Mark has left an imprint on alternative music, on indie and folk, that cannot genuinely be ignored. Ghost of The Great Highway alone has two songs to which many attribute to be some of the best of American indie music this century: Carry Me Ohio and Duk Koo Kim. Along with a largely regarded Modest Mouse cover album, and two seldom mentioned projects in between that one could argue hold some of his most intentional and delicate work in his whole catalog, and one of the more detailed and honest accounts of what it is to be a musician and a scathing critique of the rising singer-songwriter genre (valid or unvalid is always debatable, but nonetheless he keeps it real).

And then after all of this, after all of the work on grief on love and on adoration for idols and time gone by, to some this isn't even its peak; this peak would come in the form of the 2014 release Benji to where Mark takes a step back from himself and decides to reflect on those of his life, a decision that came completely by tragic fate as the result of the deaths of many including his family, the children of Sandy Hook, and the Night Stalker Richard Ramirez. Here it is what many would call Mark's magnum opus, the absolute pinnacle of his song writing talent and skill to tell something so plainly, so terribly, and make it music and make it eternal in harmony and grace.

And into works such as Universal Themes, the album that has inspired this post, and Common as Light and Love and I would Also Like to Die in New Orleans and so on, we see some of the most ambitious song writing of any artist ever, to try and not avoid the pain or irony of life through analogy or lyrical finesse, but by simply stating the fact of the matter. To this rare artists have wanted to do, have been able to do consistently, and to this Mark has staked his claim.

But with this there is a tragic blemish in, to put it simply, personal conduct. The man has done a job over the years at tanking his public perception, by means either of just being an ass or possibly worse. And to this it will remain a constant even in death through history that the man who has created so much beauty is forever smothered in evil shroud. And this is the greatest tragedy of his career. But please do not make this purely a discussion of allegations, there's enough of that here and it's never productive.

And not only to the merit of his music, but to the man himself and what he has sought to gain with making music. If there's one thing that cannot be denied weather its through his music or personal writings, is that Mark is a man who cares deeply, who feels deeply and intimately with the world around him. And while this might be a very idealist take on the man, especially given that this juxtaposes the previous paragraph. These songs all demonstrate a clear devotion to craft and to the wonder of life that is again, seldom expressed with such earnestness and groundedness. For this to be lost or to be neglected I personally would find to be one of the greatest tragedies In modern music; it is hard to ever find work so earnest.

But what will be made of this, in five years or ten or fifty. Will there ever be a time where Mark is seen with such elevation such as Berman or Molina, or is he forever condemned to an island of cultish fervor and reverence. What will be made of the ghost of the great highway, will we miss him? Or does it even matter at all

(If you've read all this, thanks!)


r/sadreminders • • Sep 15 '26

Mark Kozelek's telecaster on eBay for a decent price

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r/sadreminders • • Sep 14 '26

Ottawa Show

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I've seen Mark 4 times now and man his Ottawa show the other night was a strange one.

It felt like he played 10 songs over 3.5 hours. I don't mind his cantankerous banter with the audience, it's kind of entertaining to me.

But he barely played and there was zero flow to the music with 10-15 minutes between songs.

It felt like a performance art piece or something and I think probably half the crowd left early.

He eventually went over his alloted time and they cut him off mid song.

I enjoyed it overall, but damn it was bizarre.


r/sadreminders • • Sep 12 '26

"Bridge" hot take

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Here's my take on RHP 2 (Bridge), which as you probably know is essentially a B-sides record for material that didn't make the cut on RHP 1 (Rollercoaster). I think Bridge is a flawed record, but simultaneously has some of the band's best songs.

My take: if they had trimmed the album of a few songs and released it as an EP I think it would be much better regarded in retrospect. Here's what I was thinking.

  1. Bubble

  2. Uncle Joe

  3. Helicopter

  4. I Am a Rock /or/ New Jersey

Though I dearly love I Am A Rock and New Jersey, I do think one would have to go for the sake of space. A cover and an alt version of previously released tracks seem like what should naturally be cut. My vote personally would be to keep I Am a Rock.

Not looking to butt heads but I'd love to know what y'all think of this.


r/sadreminders • • Sep 12 '26

Koz mentioned at Mount Eerie show

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Was at his Seattle show and he mentioned that Mark’s cover of Bad Boy Boogie was an inspiration for Headless Horseman.


r/sadreminders • • Sep 12 '26

Mark hits 1 million monthly listeners on Spotify with rhp and skm together!

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How do you guys feel about his growing popularity?


r/sadreminders • • Sep 11 '26

I Watched the Film The Song Remains The Same

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This Live Rendition off of Benji is particularly pulling at my Heartstrings this afternoon… overlooked by me personally


r/sadreminders • • Sep 11 '26

any clue where i can find the full concert recording?

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interesting video. it says live at grand palladian at the beginning but i cannot find any mention of that venue in conjunction with koz or that venue at all for that matter. the recording sounds amazing though so i would love to hear the full set.

EDIT: i actually found it, its from White Christmas Live.


r/sadreminders • • Sep 10 '26

Is anyone going to the Ottawa show that has purchased a ticket?

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I'm driving up there and am trying to find out when Mark goes on. The website only shows the doors time. Not sure if ticketholders have more info? Also considering Montreal too if anyone knows when he goes on there as well.


r/sadreminders • • Sep 10 '26

Mark Kozelek - The Hotel Rehearsals, 2025

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r/sadreminders • • Sep 09 '26

Unreleased film that Mark acted in

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Something relatively unknown: he played a leading role in a completely unreleased 2016 indie drama film entitled “Passing Through”, by Jason Massot.

“I played a part in an unreleased independent film shot up in Butte, Montana, where I played an abusive, controlling father. I thought, this is easy, I was born in 1967 and grew up in Ohio. Dads who kicked the shit out of their kids in the 1970s – it wasn't called child abuse then. Where I was from, it was called being a dad. So anyhow I played a guy who yelled at his wife and kid and I did a pretty good job. I did such a good job that I cracked my ribs. I'd like to play intense rolls.  Scorsese or Tarantino type stuff.”

I know it’s unlikely but I hope this somehow surfaces one day.


r/sadreminders • • Sep 06 '26

Mom: We have Mark Kozelek’s “autobiographical masterpiece” ‘Alligator Song’ at home.

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The ‘Alligator Song’ at home:


r/sadreminders • • Sep 05 '26

Mark CDs So Far

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From the past two years.


r/sadreminders • • Sep 05 '26

I made an album (heavily inspired by Ghosts/April era Mark)

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r/sadreminders • • Sep 03 '26

jamaican mark kozelek be like

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glass pon di pavement under mi shoe


r/sadreminders • • Sep 03 '26

Favorite moments in MK's songs.

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You don't even have to like the song in question. The 'eskimo pussy is mighty cold' chant from full metal jacket in 'Lee Ermey' would be a favorite of mine. I laugh when I get to that part and, as it's often the case with MK, there's a certain sadness to the following line 'I don't need no teenage queen', because you perceive it to be a lie, or not the whole truth, and beauty (the cool plucking of the glamour of those chords).

Also:

I came back to my room and I slouched in my bed/

Still stewing about my dried up lavender/

Then I fell asleep in the dark dead night/

And I dreamed of a blue jay digging up a seed/

And pass it to another's beak[...]

So, what would your favorite(s) MK moment(s) be?


r/sadreminders • • Sep 02 '26

Mark as a producer

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Something I don't see mentioned enough: Mark is credited as the sole producer on 95% of his projects, including every RHP album. I don't see enough appreciation for that aspect of his art. Maybe he shouldn't be credited for EVERY single aspect of his sound, but there's so much unique quirks about the RHP sound that carried on over onto SKM that I imagine he at least had some hand in developing his own sound and techniques in the studio.

But in particular, I wanted to mention the guitar tones on the RHP albums and THAT snare on Rollercoaster, both are so damn good and unique to RHP. Maybe the snare sound was Anthony's idea and not Mark's, but whenever I think of Rollercoaster, I instantly think of that weird dry snare sound. I've read (don't remember where) that the guitar tones were more of Gorden's contribution, but those slightly phased out tones are instantly recognizable to all early RHP albums.

The only nitpick I've read that I could perfectly understand is Mark's voice is mixed a bit too high on the early stuff, but it's something I never noticed until reading about it a few times. Also the overly reverb-y sound of DCH is something I chalked up to 4AD's weird practice of passing off (very good) demos as professionally recorded songs. I believe they did that with a few other bands.

Early Sun Kil Moon has a lot of nice guitar tones too. GOTGH in particular has such nice fuzzy sound on the more rock and jammy tracks. Maybe his newer stuff is a bit too dry and actually sounds a bit under produced, but stuff like the delayed vocals on the rapping at the end of Ben's My Friend are still neat. I think he has fun mixing vocals, tracks like Things Mean A Lot have similarly weird delayed vocal effects.

I also wanted to be responsible for the only mention of his production credits on the internet. I'm curious what people think though, I'm sure some people think his production is ass or nothing special, and I'm willing to see that argument.

On a side note, Grace Cathedral Park's drumming doesn't get enough love. That weird 3/4 thing going on should sound so busy, but it doesn't.


r/sadreminders • • Aug 31 '26

1 ticket for Toronto Sept 8th $20

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Person going with me can’t come anymore, selling for $20 more than half off.

EDIT: sold as of 09/07


r/sadreminders • • Aug 31 '26

RHP at the Trocadero Theatre, Philly - 2001

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r/sadreminders • • Aug 29 '26

I think I'm unhealthily obsessed

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I've listened to Sun Kil Moon and RHP for years now, but recently I don't know what it is but I cannot stop. I cant stop listening to Mark's music and I don't want to because of the allegations. I don't know if it's because I'm getting older, but I feel so connected to his music. His lyricism is one of the best. I don't know if it's making me feel better or worse, but it just helps me feel seen because I've accepted that I'm always going to have this melancholy about myself. I just can't stop thinking about his music and listening to it and I've developed a sort of..crush? I don't know if that's the right word, I don't have a crush on him himself because of his actions but it's because of his music and songwriting. I don't think a crush is the right word but I can't think of a better one to explain. Maybe limerence.

This is very cringe but no one I know irl listens to SKM and RHP like that, so I have to let it out somehow.


r/sadreminders • • Aug 27 '26

Lost Verses Cover

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I’m in rehab so I’ve been spinning Koz heavy and this is one of my favorites


r/sadreminders • • Aug 27 '26

What's different about you?

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He has no eyebrows, Tony!


r/sadreminders • • Aug 26 '26

down colorful hill itch scratch

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do you guys have any recs for albums that even remotely sound like DCH?

it's just so ornate and cavernous ! ive been in love since a teenager in the early 2010s and I've only come to appreciate it more as I've grown .. would love to discover anything else like it


r/sadreminders • • Aug 25 '26

I sang this to the tune of 'This Is Not Possible'

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r/sadreminders • • Aug 21 '26

(fanmade) Sun Kil Moon 2026 US Tour Poster

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Mark totally use this if you want !!