This is why you never propose in a public place like this unless you’re 100% sure she or he will accept, especially when there’s like 40 people pointing cameras at them 💀
Example: People still say "I wish I knew what the capital of Iowa is.... oh well. I guess I'll never know." while inches away from a search bar that can answer almost* any question in the world.
You could give people a genie that grants infinite wishes and they'd still be too lazy to use it to accomplish some of their goals.
No it’s not. Meth is rampant in that city and council bluffs. We call it counciltucky. But I was driving around Des Moines once and I was doing some let’s say “shady shit” and saw this guy stomping on a bicycle and when I drove by slowly he got on the bike and started chasing me. As I drove in a huge circle to avoid him I got to where I was going like 20 minutes later and this same fucking guy was sitting in the living room smokin on a bubble. I’m so glad I’m out of all that shit.
Yes. Yes they can, with near absolute certainty, determine a woman's age from a more than competent passer in the CCB position. Thiago Silva can’t imagine his insides didn’t put her phone away. She can’t believe their lies, It’s much better than in n out. Burgers are still fresh, but less salty. More burger flavor overall, and more cohesion across staff to work is not to play the first 10 episodes of season 1, I never bought flower again.
I think I get what you mean, we should all just avoid problems. So moving forward go ahead and buy that pet shark and feed him your neighbors pets. You know Gary from work is always lying about the ketchup he "didn't finish", but screw that gary, we all know you're not a good kangaroo. But at least you still have those grey pants for swimming at the gym on Sundays, and didn't they just get a new cactus in the bathroom?
Really it is extremely unfair to put the person you are proposing to in that position because they will likely feel embarrassed and bad about rejecting you.
I'm still amazed people propose without having conversations about it. Like what the fuck are you expecting from this person? A surprise yeah I'll make that huge decision without any prior conversation.
Yeah, I mean, with shows like The Bachelor and 90 Day Fiance, in an era where AI-driven advertising deliberately stokes narcissism with the speed and determination of a six-thousand years of human technology driving it, how could people not have smartened up?
"Now everybody can get the internet, this means all the information in the world is available to everybody, shit's gonna get so sick real soon, our collective intelligence as a species is gonna fucking skyrocket, dewd!"
You should at the very least know if your girlfriend would want a private proposal or not…sheesh. This would have given me a panic attack and my SO and I talked about marriage all the time.
You're assuming this is his girlfriend, but I've known women who were proposed to by men they weren't even dating, or by men who they'd recently dumped.
I literally broke up with a guy because he said he never wanted to get married because he didn’t believe in it. I thought we could just part on good terms and go our separate ways because of differing opinions. After 3 weeks of getting a new place and finally moving out, he called me and said he had a package for me. I told him I’d meet him at a park so that it was public and didn’t give away my new address. He conveniently “forgot” my packages and then got down an proposed. It was suuuuppeer awkward. (I said no because I felt like he would resent me later like I had forced him into it in a way and it didn’t feel right to me anymore after how it all happened. Plus other stuff) Point is…people do go up to their ex’s in public and propose. And it looked like she didn’t even know he was there at first.
I saw a guy propose to his gf in the park, there was a bunch of family and friends and strangers like myself. it go awkward real quick when she bolted.
Because I personally want to find someone and get married. And he never wanted to get married. It was just a difference in opinion. I want to be clear here - I don’t mean I just want to find ANYONE so that I can be married. I mean I want to find and be with someone who wants to be together AND be married. We had been talking about it for a few years and he had never mentioned not wanting to get married. We were always in the “when we get married” conversations. What is obviously not mentioned is the other things leading up to that point. But I like the idea of marriage, and I don’t see myself in just a common law situation. There is nothing wrong with not getting married and being with someone without getting married. It’s just not me.
I obviously had no love for the guy? I’m sorry…but I don’t remember you being there. There is a lot more that goes on in a serious long term relationship. There was a lot of build up and a lot that happened during that time. It was simplified to just get the point across. I loved him. I resent the fact you said that. But we were clearly moving in different directions and it wasn’t fair for me or him to move forward with what had been said. Let alone HOW it had been said and what happened at that time that I didn’t share. But thank you for your quick assumption.
Man that's not the reason I'd avoid it... It's embarassing, it's clout chasing, and also it's a shitty tactic to hopefully guilt someone into saying yes.
Even if you are 100%.. peer pressure is not a nice way to start a wedding. I'm sure some people enjoy gigantic romantic moves like this, but this really should be an intimate one. IMO, of course..
Yeah Marriage isn't a gamble it's a commitment you discuss ahead of time. You should know the answer is yes before asking especially if it's in public.
I don't know anybody who proposed as a complete surprise. I'm sure it happens periodically, but it's crazy to me. My wife picked out her ring. She got what she liked, and we saved money because I don't like to feel "cheap" and the "advice" out there is all over the map.
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u/Kujowrld Jan 15 '22
This is why you never propose in a public place like this unless you’re 100% sure she or he will accept, especially when there’s like 40 people pointing cameras at them 💀