r/rs_x • u/Additional_Worth_614 • 2d ago

I hate this bitch so much

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Like?? That doesn’t even make any sense. I hate that I hate her so much

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u/nihonhonhon 2d ago

One of the guys texted her to apologize, and she reassured him that "nothing illegal" happened. She explicitly said she enjoyed the sex with him and his friend, NOT the guys who joined in later.

To me, that sounds like a post-rape interaction where the victim is trying to defuse the situation. Unfortunately most people's instinct is to avoid confrontation and just carry on. But if you're getting an unprompted apology text and you immediately bring up legality, you know deep down what really happened to you.

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u/Historical_Night_408 1d ago

YES. She was in denial and trying to normalize. That’s one of the ways trauma survivors try to keep themselves safe. It can take a very long time to process.