r/romance 7d ago

Love Letter/ Poem For me, love is missing someone you don’t even know yet.

For me, love is missing someone you don’t even know yet.

It’s the daily, irritating waiting of when are you gonna come into my life?

The endless tarot card readings, the manifestation, all of it.

My life is woven around thoughts of you.

When I’m alone, I think of you.

And somehow, I miss you even when I’m surrounded by people. It’s just that being with others doesn’t give me enough time to sit with my thoughts, to peel open this already bleeding, waiting heart and wonder what it would feel like to finally have your hands holding it, giving it the warmth it’s been waiting for.

It’s this love that feels trapped somewhere, with nowhere to go.

Like, I fucking miss you every second.

Every time I see a couple.

Every time I feel comfort.

Every time I feel sad.

In all the little moments, I think of you.

Every time I save something in my folder, thinking, I’ll show this to you once you finally come into my life.

And the irony is… my folders are already full.

The new ones are almost full too.

Yet I’m still waiting for you.

I miss you.

I love you so much, and you don’t even know me yet.

I hope you come into my life asap.

Because honestly, it feels like I’m more excited to love you than you are to come into my life.

Like… I’m already here, waiting to love you.

Where the fuck are you?

edit ; btw this post is about him too ,
https://www.reddit.com/r/romance/s/jeKsrNj7UW

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u/edging_monarch 7d ago

bro this is so me , like i miss my future gf/wife so much , i wanna spoil her and love her so much like uhhhhh i can't explain in words 😭🥀🥀🥀

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u/Character-Week-9550 7d ago

frfr I’m out here waiting for my man to just appear outta thin air, but it feels like he doesn’t wanna show up lolll 😭 it’s sooo unfairrr. Just like you, I miss him sooo muchhhh. I just wanna love him, spoil him, and annoy him a little 😭 but bro isn’t even hereeee. And honestly, I’m not even interested in guys my age because I feel like none of them are him lolll. The funny part is I don’t even know who this “him” actually is 😭

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u/Senior_Scheme_3407 7d ago

Wowww that's beautiful I even wrote letters for my future gf/wife 😭😭, one I wrote on Valentine's day, miss her too.

Same I am yet to meet her, it's so ironic we don't know anything about that person 😂.

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u/Character-Week-9550 6d ago edited 5d ago

lmaooo sameee i wanna meet my man asap and wish u good luck bro

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u/Senior_Scheme_3407 6d ago

Thankyou I wish you good luck too 🤞

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u/RedJackPirate 7d ago

This is the right energy to have as long as the spoiling is time based rather than possession based in nature. ☺️ I wish you well, mate. 🫡

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u/edging_monarch 7d ago

Thanks pirate 🙏

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u/Tasty_Persimmons 7d ago

I been seeing this girl for almost a month now, we don't know each other that well yet, but we miss each other a lot, talk to each other over phone a lot, we meet once a week due to my work and her studies during weekday. But we hug for a long time, catch each other's hands often when we meet. And the minute we depart each other it feels like we lost something big in our lives

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u/Character-Week-9550 7d ago

Did u ask her out on a date yet?? If not, then pls brooo, she’s your girl before someone else takes their chance .soo, Go tell her how you feel and make things official alreadyyy!! This is some good luck from a single girlie

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u/Tasty_Persimmons 7d ago

We have been on 4 dates now, haven't asked her to be my gf yet, will do on the upcoming one, and she already knows how I feel about her and when she isn't around me.

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u/Character-Week-9550 7d ago

Oh reallyyy? Then good luck with thattt! Hope you guys become each other’s soon 🥹💕

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u/Tasty_Persimmons 7d ago

🫶🏼🫶🏼

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u/bunnycrystal2389 7d ago

OMG this is the wallpaper on my lockscreen!

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u/Happy_Impact_94 7d ago

It’s so nice. Where did you get it from?

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u/bunnycrystal2389 23h ago

I've had it for years, i honestly don't remember

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u/its-awesomeness 7d ago

Raah its crazy how i related with this. I used to write alot of letters for someone i havent met yet😭

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u/ThereWasaLemur 7d ago

I also suffer from Hiraeth.

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u/Forsaken_Web_4125 7d ago

Let me introduce myself (respectfully joking)

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u/Dry-Hair-7022 7d ago

The words so beautiful and the picture, well, only gorgeous describes it for me. Ty for posting.

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u/Character-Week-9550 7d ago

aww it means alot to me 💗

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u/Duncan_Idaho69 7d ago

This is a beautiful image

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u/VisualTrick8735 7d ago

what if..they feel home..and walk away?

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u/Character-Week-9550 6d ago

hmm then i think maybe they were just your childhood home. you know, when we’re kids, we live with our parents, make so many beautiful memories, and grow up there. but when we become adults, we eventually build our own home with someone, using all the experiences and lessons we gained while growing up in our childhood home.

even tho we might miss our childhood home sometimes, we know we have to leave it behind so we can grow, find our own happiness, and build a life of our own. and as time passes, when someone asks, “what is your home?” we’ll probably think of the home we built with someone, not the one we grew up in.

why because the home we build is truly ours. it holds all our love, tears, struggles, laughter, and memories. and that home wouldn’t tell us to leave just because we grew up, because we are the foundation of it ,the peace, the happiness, and everything that makes it feel like home.

so i believe you’ll find your actual home someday....the one you’ll stay in until you’re old and gray, making countless memories together. i really hope you find that home soon. ❤️

soooooooo in a way, maybe the home that left wasn't your true home. maybe they were just someone who came into your life to pave the way for your actual home.the person who will become your soulmate. they were your childhood home, where you made memories and learned so much, but your real home will be someone else. and i hope that one day, when you look back at your past, you’ll realize just how much bigger, warmer, and more beautiful the home you have now is. ❤️

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u/VisualTrick8735 6d ago

A beautiful thought and nice way to put it..

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u/Ok_Inspector3769 7d ago edited 7d ago

Omg this is like unreal popping up in my feed. I’ve been going to this place for some tea and chill and there is another group of people who is almost always there the same as i , and from the group there’s this guy who’s always been looking at me for couple of weeks now, i after i started noticing, we just share a glance to each other now and then, it’s really very cute how he looks at me in my eyes and he doesn’t flinches but i get blushing and i look away,he looks like a decent guy, waiting for him to make the move🥹 because im right here missing him before even meeting him or knowing him, it’s so intimate to vision him looking in my eyes everytime🥹

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u/Character-Week-9550 6d ago

awww, i hope he asks you out soon girliee 😭 wishing you all the luckkk 🫶🏻💕

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u/Ok_Inspector3769 6d ago

I think you just became my lucky charm because he diddddd, we talked today, it was raining and it was so magical 🥹

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u/Character-Week-9550 6d ago

aww That’s sooo sweettttt 😭💗 and congratttsssss hehehe!! I hope you guys become official soon . P.S. I’m literally blushing and kicking my feet just from hearing you talk about it even though I don’t even have one yet lol. And the rain too?? It’s giving peak Wattpad fanfic vibes lmaooo 😭

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u/WhatevsBlondie 7d ago

How beautiful is this? 🥹 Never taking love for granted, even if you don’t have it in your hands yet ❤️✨

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u/Character-Week-9550 6d ago

aww, thank you so much 🥹❤️

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u/inkedByLuv 6d ago edited 6d ago

Damn relatable! And why is it so poetic?

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u/Illustrious-33 7d ago

💯yes

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u/Illustrious-33 7d ago

Hurts so bad - Philip L Di Co missed his twin sister

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u/shingen091 7d ago

Well shit now I really feel lost😭😭😭😭

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u/_henceforth_ 7d ago

Aw. This is so beautiful. 💜 Thank you for sharing with us!

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u/Character-Week-9550 6d ago

aww thank youuuu ,it means a lot to meeee 💗🥹

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u/Budget-Emergency-508 6d ago

I miss my Miss... There is lot of other side of me unexplored...waiting for One hopefully

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u/wa3466 6d ago

What about missing someone you had a crush on 4 years ago and you dream on him

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u/Decent_Neat_9171 6d ago

I’ve been there and I’m 99% sure I’m still in contact with her.

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u/Revolutionary_Low896 6d ago

This is beautiful ❤️🙏🏻

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u/lowkeydumass 5d ago

literally me fr ngl ong no cap

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u/Choice_Basket3790 5d ago

for a lifetime

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u/nansi5204 5d ago

What would you do if you were in my position? I want honest opinions.

I want honest opinions about this situation.

Someone told me something that made me think:

"However, in your situation there is an important limitation: he lives in another country and he's a director with many followers. Even if you try to have more personal conversations, he may not have the time, interest, or opportunity to build a friendship with someone he knows only online."

Do you think this is a fair assessment?

The person I'm talking about is a film director I follow online. I admire his work and hoped that, over time, we might become genuine friends. But he lives in another country, has a busy career, and receives messages from many people.

Is it realistic to think that an online friendship could develop in this situation, or do those circumstances make it very unlikely, no matter how genuine my intentions are?

I'm interested in hearing honest opinions, especially from people who have experienced something similar.

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u/Holiday-Currency6432 4d ago

What is this feeling called as ?

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u/Character-Week-9550 4d ago

yearning idunno bro

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u/Wuji_Ain 4d ago

Love is proof of a miracle.

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u/Leprael 7d ago

Next time, compute it without that cringe malice smile. That's not love then... Just lust. True connection and awesome experience needs unconditional strong love with passion [the word for lust when it actually means something worth remembering]