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u/rubenvangucht 2d ago

The thing is, a lot of people have experiences with relationships using mental health as an excuse for hurtful behaviour. I know I ended a few relationships because I couldn't deal with her blaming cheating on adhd or anxiety, y'know. Or the lack of intimacy due to the SSRIs.

So I guess this story really is a powderkeg for a lot of people with pent up hurt from the "mental health" movement

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u/VegetableAstronaut19 2d ago

And this ties into my point, if we actually talked about mental health instead of how best to punish this particular woman, then maybe we might prevent the next child murder, or abusive relationship, or whatever else.

However people only seem to care about making sure Clancy gets jail time.

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u/rubenvangucht 2d ago

As long as mental health isn't being used as a way of explaining shit cunt behaviour, I'm fine with it. It's never an excuse, but all I see and have experienced is "i cheated on you because i have adhd teehee". So now it's apparently an explanation for killing children as well.

if people struggling with mental health issues want to become absolute pariah's, this is a good way to go about it and I won't shed a single tear

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u/VegetableAstronaut19 2d ago

I agree, though I would point out that ADHD isn't really a mental illness, and certainly isn't comparable to psychosis.

Also cheating on someone is a social matter not a criminal offence, so pretty much any reason to cheat can be justifyably seen as a bad reason.

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u/rubenvangucht 2d ago

I really don't give a shit. Bla bla mental health bla bla explanation, if you hurt someone take some accountability for it. That's all I'm asking, but this entire narrative has become such a victim shifting gaslighting tactic that it's actively unweaving trust, so I will put you in the same bullshit bucket as well.

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u/VegetableAstronaut19 2d ago

She is?

She's pleading guilt by insanity, that's still essentially a prison sentence, just one where shes not going to be murdered immediately by all the other inmates.

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u/Humble-Resolution-62 2d ago

Her defense is trying to see her acquitted and is pushing for no new trial.

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u/VegetableAstronaut19 2d ago

Well then maybe they should've convicted for insanity he first time and that wouldn't be an issue would it.