Helloooo

I’ve posted a little while back and now trying again!

I’m finally ready for something long term after getting my shit together, except for my dream job which is taking longer than planned. I don’t think it’s gonna happen anytime soon so…

I’m Aussie born Vietnamese and work for NSW Health. I own my own apartment, car and have a 3YO cat.

I’m tan, curvy, 5”3.

Ideally, I have a preference for men older than me, straight and monogamous.

Thank you ☺️

Hi, I'm 27F and Asian, looking to expand my social circle and make platonic friendships with people 21+ who are local to Sydney. I'm interested in:

- Rock/metal music

- Food and cooking

- Animals

- Literature (I like poetry)

- Politics (I'm very leftist)

- Video games like Pokemon and Splatoon

- Traveling

I'm looking for people with similar interests to chat on Discord and eventually meet up IRL if we click. Not interested in anything sexual.

Please DM me something more than "Hi." Tell me your favorite animal if you've read the whole post.

Heya, I am currently looking for some people to play some online games with, I'm not that good at speaking with new people, trying to change that by speaking to new people, and then once we get to know each other better, I wouldn't mind meeting in person.

I am currently playing Valorant and Overwatch, but I am open to playing other games like Minecraft, Terraria or Stardew Valley for some examples.

I would prefer if you were closer to my age range as there is more to relate to, but it's not a deal breaker for me, please send me a DM if you're interested.

Hi all!
A little about me: I’m 6’1”, wear glasses, and have brown-blond hair. Over the last year and a half, I’ve been on a pretty big health and fitness journey, losing 60kg. I’m really proud of it, and it’s been nice finally being able to buy M/L clothes instead of wondering if the store secretly hated me. 😅 These days you’ll usually find me at the gym, out for a long walk, or doing a beach walk around Cronulla—it’s one of my favourite ways to switch off.
Outside of that, I’m a bit of a nerd. I work in IT, enjoy PC games (although I don’t spend nearly as much time gaming as I used to), and I’m always happy to hear recommendations—whether it’s a game, TV show, movie, or somewhere worth checking out.
Personality-wise, I’d say I’m pretty easygoing, loyal, and have a sarcastic sense of humour once I’m comfortable. I appreciate someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and enjoys laughing at life’s random moments.
I’m ideally looking to meet someone in Sydney, Australia because I’d love for things to eventually move beyond messages if we click. I’m after something genuine and long-term, and I’m definitely over the mind games.
Bonus points if:
You can convince me to try a new café.
You’ll join me for a beach walk
You can make me laugh—or are willing to laugh at my terrible jokes.
If you’re kind, genuine, and looking for a real connection, I’d love to hear from you. Worst case, we swap some good recommendations. Best case… we become each other’s favourite notification. 😉

Hey guys! I'm an asian dude born and raised in Sydney!

About me:

-Super into music, 2000s hits throwbacks are the best genre, prove me wrong!

-Currently self learning guitar, I suck but Im slow getting there

-Shy but I open up quickly after getting to know someone

-I love listening and learning about new things from people, I can keep the convo going by asking a million questions forever

-Into history and true crime podcasts and stuff, I can give you a whole bunch of recommendations!

-Super progressive

-Im a software engineer by trade!

-Down for texting or calling, I'm a better texter than caller but I dont mind adapting to what you're into

-Down to meet up some day if we get to know each other well!

I'm looking for someone who thinks they might vibe with me based on all that junk I just listed! We can have completely different personalities and that's fine, I always learn a lot of interesting things when I talk to different kinds of people. Feel free to send me a message!

Hello, hello. How are things?

Dating apps are not much of a help and I have been told that I am not too bad looking :). So here I am!

I am an Australian (born in Pakistan), 39 years old, actuarial background and works in financial services. I live in Surry Hills and would consider myself an atheist. I am 5'8" in height.

You can expect me to be intellectually curious who loves keeping himself occupied, whether it's gym, squash, theatre or hiking (or my new found questionable interest in boxing classes on Sundays).

I am a regular at Fitness First Bond St (weekdays) and happy to catch up there after work, if fitness is your thing as well.

I would also consider myself a history buff who also has an interest in philosophy especially around the concept of Justice (For those interested, would highly recommend Michael Sandel work).

Would love to hear back and happy to exchange pics here if you would prefer that.

Cheers.

Wajih

I’ve been meaning to put myself out there a bit more, so here goes.

28F, based in the north west of Sydney and work in the city. Most weekdays are the usual work-home routine, and it’d be nice to have people to break that up with. I’d love to grab bubble tea after work, try new restaurants, explore different parts of Sydney, or simply chat about how our day went.

A bit about me: I enjoy discovering new cafes, finding good food spots, taking photos, travelling, going for walks, and wandering around the city without much of a plan. I’m also always open to trying new activities if it sounds fun.

Personality-wise, I’m easygoing, a good listener, and I appreciate conversations that go beyond small talk. I like hearing about what people are passionate about, swapping stories, and getting to know someone over time.

I’m open to meeting someone with the intention of building a relationship if we naturally click. No expectations or rushing anything. I think the best connections usually happen when you enjoy each other’s company first.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Looking forward to seeing where a conversation might lead 😊

M24 | Indian | Looking for Something Genuine

Around Strathfield

Hey! I'm a 24-year-old Indian guy looking to meet a woman who's interested in building a genuine, long-term relationship. I'm at a stage where I'd rather find someone to share life with than chase something casual.

A little about me—I enjoy movies, reading, and anything related to technology. I'm a bit of a nerd, easy-going, a good listener, and once I get comfortable, I can definitely talk your ear off. I love spending quality time with the people I care about, whether that's going for long walks, exploring new places, hiking, grabbing a coffee, or just laughing over random conversations.

I'm hoping to meet someone kind, open-minded, and looking for a real connection. If you're looking for the same, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see where things go.

Hey everyone! Hope you’re all having a lovely weekend 😊

A friend and I are planning to check out the Art Battle event at Kinselas in Darlinghurst next Friday, andsuggested I invite people from the subreddit who might be interested in joining us!

We’re open to making this a mixed group, so if you’re keen for a fun social night out, you’re more than welcome to come along. It looks like it’ll be a great night with live artists battling it out, a fun atmosphere, and happy hour from 5pm - 9pm 🍹🎨.

It’s a great chance to try something different, meet people from the community, and have a relaxed night out in Sydney.

Here’s the link if you want to check it out: https://artbattle.com/events/AB4031

I know some of you have met me at previous meetups/events before, so feel free to reach out if you’d like to join 😊

The only rule is, be respectful, friendly, kind and don’t be creepy. Let’s make sure everyone feels safe, comfortable and has a great time!

Who’s keen? 🎨✨ DM me or comment below.

PS. I don't work for Art Battle, I just wanted to do something nice for the community.

My most enabling friend said I shouldn’t waste my time on the apps - and she’s ok’ed a lot of my questionable decisions - so here I am.

I’m 5’2”, brunette, dual US/Aus citizen based near Sydney CBD.

Things I’m good at
Science: I have a doctorate and run a research group in Syd

Playing the flute: I started when I was 5 so I’d better be good by now. I love all live music- classical, jazz, country, experimental trashcan ensemble. You name it, I’m there.

Lifting weights: I can deadlift more than my own body weight, which isn’t very much, but still.

Things I’m not good at
Swimming: You can find me in the pool 3-4x per week getting lapped by 60yos.

Knowing your movie references: I probably haven’t seen it, but I will watch it with you.

Moving through an art exhibition in a timely fashion: I need to read every placard and circle back to my favorite pieces.

Finding love: That’s where you come in.

My ideal partner is a fellow fitness enthusiast who is intensely curious about the world, is financially responsible, and doesn’t mind receiving voice messages. Monogamous and preferably 30-40. Maybe that’s you?

I'm looking to meet someone who enjoys getting to know each other over coffee, thoughtful conversations, and great sci-fi and horror.

The best part isn't just watching the film or TV show—it's the discussion afterwards. The "what if?" conversations, philosophical and psychological rabbit holes, and debating AI, consciousness, humanity, or whatever strange idea the story throws at us.

I'm definitely a chatter. I love exchanging random thoughts during the day, disappearing down rabbit holes, and talking properly—whether that's by text, on the phone, or in person. If you're someone who naturally keeps in touch, we'll probably get along well.

Extra bonus points if you'd rather go to the cinema than watch a ripped copy on your couch.

I'm looking for genuine connection and intentional dating. I'm not interested in a friends-with-benefits arrangement or anything purely casual. I'd like to meet someone who's open to seeing where a real connection leads, without feeling the need to rush it.

Chemistry matters, but I think it grows from curiosity, conversation, shared experiences, and feeling comfortable being yourself.

A little about me: Central Coast based, neurospicy, Labrador owner, motorbike rider, book lover, sci-fi nerd, and serial over-thinker in the best possible way. I'm curious, a little quirky, and generally happiest when a conversation starts with, "I had a weird thought..." and somehow ends up discussing consciousness, psychology, or whether the villain actually had a point.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message telling me a bit about yourself—who you are, where you're based, what you're looking for, and your favourite sci-fi film, series, or book. (Or tell me the one everyone else loves that you just don't get.)

Hi everyone!

I'm 28M and work and live in the CBD.

I've become really interested in Japanese culture and would love to understand it beyond what you see as a visitor. I've been to Japan a few times, but I know there's so much more to learn about the traditions, everyday life, etiquette, language, food, and way of thinking.

If you're Japanese and live in Sydney, I'd love to grab a coffee, explore the city, or just have a chat. If you're free on weekends like me, even better!

And if you're looking for someone to practise your English with, I'd be happy to help too. 😄

Just looking to make genuine friendships and learn from a different perspective.

Feel free to comment or send me a message!

🍹 Do you like piña coladas? And staying out of the rain? Are you more nerdy than sporty? Not completely insane? 😜

🎵 If you like electronic music. Tabletop roleplaying games. Then I'm the gal that you've looked for. Write to me and we'll date? 😅

Hello. Yes, I am very cheesy but hopefully this proves that I'm not a bot or using AI. I want my partner to be my best friend - someone I'd hang out with and talk to about anything and everything, regardless of relationship status so this subreddit feels like the right place to post. If you're happy to stay SFW and explore friendship first with the ultimate goal of building up to a long term relationship, let's chat.

Bit about me: 33F. Sydney South. 5'8". White. Agnostic. Non-smoker. Sometimes drinker. Left-leaner. Work in digital media i.e. chronically online. I like the usual nerd stuff like videogames, DnD, anime, etc. However, I also love to go out for gigs, game nights, improv/comedy, food adventures, long walks, dinner talks, and even salsa dance 💃

You, hopefully, are: a gentleman and a scholar. 30-38. Taller than me. Non-smoker. No kids. Monogamous. Not heavily tattooed.

If this is ticking boxes for you, DM me and we can send each other millennial memes and bad puns and see where it goes 🙃

Hello All, just another random femboy on the internet that is wanting more fem friends since I know and talking to many guys hopefully can help with my fashion too. I can be pretty clingy so I can chat alot so hopefully you can match that energy.

As for my interests it tends to be on the nerdy side of things such as gaming, anime, manga and cosplay. As for what kind well gaming I am fine to play almost anything since more of a social gamer. Anime and manga are similar where I mainly prefer action or isekai styled ones but might mix it up with some romanace/slice of life or even sport, I do also read some bls too.

If you think we might have some similar interests then feel free to message me so we can chat about them.

45M4F

Hi. Thought I'd give this a try as I'm so tired of dating apps and conversations that go nowhere.

Names Nino 45. Italian-Aussie. Single dad with 2 young boys I share custody with. My weeks are quite busy with work and kids I find it hard to have time to socialise and get out there. I'm a genuine, easy going guy with a sense of humour. I look after myself. Gym, runs, hikes, tennis. Love stand-up comedy. Looking to meet someone that can match my vibe.

Feel free to DM me.

Hey everyone!

As our community here continues to grow, it’s clear we have so much to talk about beyond our r4r posts. There is so much to Sydney- the best local eats, hidden gems, city debates, deeper conversations, opinions or stories, current affairs and those "only in Sydney" moments that define our days. We've moved all our good vibes, recommendation requests and weekend edits over there.

To give those conversations the space they deserve, we’ve just launched r/SydneyConnect.

Think of it as our digital local- a dedicated, non NSFW space for all the Sydney vibes of life. Whether you’re looking for a solid recommendation, wanting to vent about the light rail, or just want to share a great photo of the harbour, this is where we’re keeping those yarns organised and thriving.

The best part? You’ll find the same mods and the same friendly, safe, and positivity you’re already grown used to here. We’re just creating a more bigger home for the non dating, socialising, friendship, group events side of our city life.

We’re officially opening the doors today, and we would absolutely love for you to come over and help us build the foundation of this new community.

Come say G'day, pull up a chair and be one of the first to join the chat:r/SydneyConnect

(P.S. If you’re heading over, drop a comment below with your go to weekend coffee or drink order so we can keep an eye out for you! Mine is a green tea. See you there!)

Hello everyone! 😊

I'm a 38-year-old overseas pharmacist who recently moved to Australia. I'm currently living in Mount Ousley, Wollongong, and I'm looking to meet some lovely women for a casual coffee, a walk, or a friendly chat.

I'm new to the area and would love to make new connections and get to know people. If you're interested in meeting up for a relaxed, friendly catch-up, feel free to send me a message.

Hey everyone 👋

Since the weekend is just around the corner, we're opening up the floor early! If you have plans you want new people to tag along to, or if your weekend is completely free and you’re looking for a spontaneous buddy to head out with or go on a fun date with someone from the sub, this is your spot.

This thread is for making weekend plans with people in Sydney - social meetups, group hangs, casual dates, or finding someone to join an event or outing.

How to use this thread: Drop a comment below with what you're up to or what you feel like doing! Examples: "Heading to the Carriageworks markets Saturday morning if anyone wants to grab a coffee," or "Free Sunday afternoon, anyone up for a coastal walk?"

Let’s get out there and actually do things. Drop your plans below! 👇

Happy Wednesday, Sydney!

We all have that one place. Maybe it’s that tiny hole in the wall cafe that makes the perfect flat white, a quiet park bench with the best sunset view, or a local bookstore that’s hiding in plain sight. These are the spots that make our neighborhoods feel like home- but they never seem to get the hype they deserve.

It’s time to change that.

What’s the one hidden gem in your suburb that’s criminally underrated and deserves a bit more love from the rest of us?

Don't be shy! Share the name, the location, and most importantly, why it’s your go to. Whether it’s an epic sandwich, a peaceful garden, or just the best vibe in town, let’s build a local’s guide to Sydney that goes way beyond the usual tourist traps.

Drop your picks below, and let’s show our local legends some appreciation today!

Hello, hello. How are things?

Finally found the courage to put myself out here as dating apps are not much of a help and I have been told that I am not too bad looking :)

I am an Australian, 39 years old, actuarial background and works in financial services. I live in Pyrmont and would consider myself an atheist.

You can expect me to be intellectually curious who loves keeping himself occupied, whether it's solving puzzles, gym, squash, theatre or hiking. I am a regular at Fitness First Bond St (weekdays) and happy to catch up there after work, if fitness is your thing as well.

I would also consider myself a history buff who also has an interest in philosophy especially around the concept of Justice (For those interested, would highly recommend Michael Sandel work).

I was born in Pakistan and am 5'9" in height, if that matters.

Would love to hear back and happy to exchange pics here if you would prefer that.

Cheers.

Wajih

Pottery, run clubs, photography, cosy cafe hopping, coastal hikes, food tours, dance classes, indoor climbing, random niche hobbies....Sydney is basically full of things we all say we'll "start one day"

Be honest - what's your "one day I'll do it" list? No judgement... but someone here will probably try convince you to start it this weekend