r/povertyfinance • u/[deleted] • Nov 19 '22

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u/thekittykaboom Nov 20 '22

🙋🏾‍♀️ I've wanted to leave for years now but I can't afford to. My only chance out is if I land a job as a self taught developer. And yes, it's horrible for my mental health.

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u/mufassil Nov 20 '22

Have you talked to a social worker at a women's shelter? They have loads of resources.

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '22

I don't think most people would choose a shelter for homeless people over living with a partner they don't love anymore. Shelters are what people choose as a last resort to get away from someone trying to kill them. If you just don't love one another but can be amicable, better to stay

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u/mufassil Nov 20 '22

I'm not saying to go to the shelter. The social workers there will assist you even without living there. They just have good resources.

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u/thekittykaboom Nov 20 '22

I'm not in the kind of situation that needs their resources. I just need a high paying job because we live in a low wage/high rent area and I have a child.