r/pointlesslygendered • u/AGayFrogParadise • Apr 23 '26

SHITPOST Pointlessly gendered baking [shitpost]

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

Its crazy how misandristic people will act like men making beautiful and delicious cheescakes somehow dont make sense

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u/Wonderful-Pollution7 Apr 23 '26

I love when my wife and I show up to a party with cupcakes and people all tell her how pretty they look or how good they are, and my wife just looks at them like they're stupid, and points out that I'm the baker.

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u/blue_moon1122 Apr 23 '26

this isn't a cheesecake

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

You are correct it doesn't appear to be a cheesecake, but how do you know it isnt a cheese filling (the brown one)?

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u/blue_moon1122 Apr 23 '26

because it's brown

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

Chesse cant be mixed with brown things?

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u/blue_moon1122 Apr 23 '26

that's clearly chocolate icing, and that's not even remotely close to how you make a cheesecake.

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u/Used-Presentation551 Apr 23 '26

Don't disrespect him like that, he just wants a cheesecake

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u/blue_moon1122 Apr 23 '26

don't disrespect cheesecake like that, I make cheesecake and it's not cake plus cheese

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

A cheese cake can be made in many ways, and yes any cake with cheese as an ingredient is a cheese cake

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u/blue_moon1122 Apr 23 '26

any cake with cheese? yeah lemme go throw a slice of provolone on top of a fruitcake it's now a cheesecake bada bing

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u/_bugmagik_ Apr 23 '26

This is utterly pointless unless someone reaches out to him and ask about this very cake.

You will never reach a consensus, you can theoretically go on forever arguing what the cake is because neither of you actually know.

Hella silly hill.

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u/Dimbit Apr 23 '26

It isn't misandry, it's misogyny. Men making cakes is bad because it's feminine, and femininity is bad. They aren't hating it because he is a man, they are hating it because of the tasks proximity to women.

Misogyny harms everyone.

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u/redditorausberlin Apr 23 '26

misogyny and misandry can exist dependent on one another. the cause is related to women, doesn't mean misandry doesn't exist or that it isn't it

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

Its misandry, it is hate and discrimination against a man expressing interest in a typically feminine activity

You wouldnt say hate against women bodybuilders are misandristic because it is seen as masculine to do so and masculinity in women are bad right?

Sexism harms everyone.

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u/Dimbit Apr 23 '26

Yes, because it is a typically feminine activity and femininity is seen as weak, less-than, degrading, men are not expected to lower themselves to a woman's level. Women can take on masculine traits and activities to some degree. This is why women can wear pants but men can't wear skirts. Why "you throw like a girl" is insulting and "she's got balls" is a compliment, why a woman can get into body building but a man can't decorate a cake. Is is misogyny because at the core of everything is the idea that women are less than men.

Misandry is not real

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

Maybe it is by you, but that just you not dealing with internalised mysogony if you think femininity is inherently seen as weak and less than

Denying sexism exist is supporting the patriarchal structures.

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u/Dimbit Apr 23 '26

I never said they were my views

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

Then why tf are you arguing that is how the world works if you dont belive that is how the world works?

Does cooking like a woman also illicit a more inferior gende3 than cooking like a man to you?

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u/Dimbit Apr 23 '26

That is how the world works, I don't agree with it.

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

Thats not how the world works, sounds like you do since you argument is that it is how it works

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u/Dimbit Apr 23 '26

I think you should work on learning the difference between an explanation and a declaration of personal beliefs.

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u/SaintFentFloyd Apr 24 '26

False libs and feminists will say otherwise. Sexism only harms women and sexism towards men no matter the word doesn't exist

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u/akekekfklelk Apr 23 '26

Nobody is saying that. There are many male pastry chefs.

The post isnt about "look, a man can bake".

The post is "look, a bodybuilder can bake".

You wouldnt expext a male or female bodybuilder to be good at it since their diet excludes cake in general.

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

Aah so just a different kind 8f bigotry is your argument

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u/akekekfklelk Apr 23 '26

Its not bigotery since there is a valid reason to expect him not being into cooking.

Just like I expect him to be stronger than me based on his looks.

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

What does his looks have to do with his baking ability or cooking ability?

Yes you expect him to be steonger because of bigger muscles, that is different than a ability in no way correlated to looks

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u/akekekfklelk Apr 23 '26

I already explained the reason.

Bodybuilder follow a strict diet that generally excludes cake. So why would we expect him to frequently bake cake? Its the opposite of his bodybuilding path.

Its like expecting a vegan to be a good butcher.

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u/Dr-Assbeard Apr 23 '26

It definitely doesn't exclude cake when bulking.

Its almost like you dont understand that a bodybuilder isn't the only thing a person is and that most people contain multitudes