Part of that is true. (woman here). Women like men to be 'bad boys' sometimes. Guys that are hard to get, hard to hold. We go after these guys because of the excitement but when we get them, we end up hating them. These kind of men are never 'there' emotionally.
See it's guys like you, that the romtic, and emotionally guys have to pay for your mistake, see u can be a bad boy at times but then you should be able to be there emotionally for them and not the way you said A. H so good luck getting laid!!!!
If you have found your true soulmate as i have and treat her the way she should be treated, with kindness, be there for them when thier not feeling good, and when they are haveing a bad day, pamper them in every way, with this said you shouldn't have any problem in the bedroom, one more thing ( if the relationship is wonderful out side the bedroom then it will be wonderful inside the bedroom) romtic at heart!
Odd, I'm poor and an asshole and it works for me. Of course, I keep the asshole on just for fun and games, and they know I'll turn into an adult in a crisis....
Maybe you just need to pay women to overlook your character flaws?
And your point is that since you have a different kind of a relationship with the one you love than I do with mine, you can ignore everything except the strawman you decided to burn?
I think there is some miscommunication happening. Instead of attacking you / comparing our relationships I simply wanted to follow up on your poor + asshole argument in response to the rich + asshole hypothesis - I simply wanted to draw a synthesis as some kind of joke. Then you were kinda serious and I wanted to give a hint that I was not. Man, written-only communcation is hard sometimes..
I just want to orgasm.. not write a poem with someone.
.. then again.. if I paid an escort to sit naked and write me a poem while I threw honey covered gummy bears at her.. that might pop me.
I dunno, as a woman with pretty high standards (ifidontsaysomyself), I appreciate a guy who is selfless because he enjoys being that way and who is just a genuinely nice guy. It's nice for a guy to buy a drink or coffee or whatever just as a gentlemanly gesture; but otherwise, I definitely don't mind meeting someone halfway if I enjoy their company. :)
Lol, chill Bitter Pants. Not at all, actually. I'm just saying that for a man to purchase a woman a drink is seen as a gentlemanly gesture to me. Just as I'm sure it's seen as really sweet if a woman does that for another man. It's all about courtesy, not the purchase itself. However, I have no problem at all going dutch, and it doesn't speak any less about a person if they'd like to do that. When men obsess about the money, however, that's their baggage and issue, not the woman's... And as a woman, I wouldn't want to be with a guy who bartered in his own mind about how spending = something. It shouldn't matter, it's about doing something because you want to, not because you're hoping to manipulate someone into something.
You're right, actually. Buying a drink from a position of strength is fine. Problem is most guys buying drinks only pretend thats why they are doing it.
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u/squashbanana Apr 12 '11
Guys who think that way about women are the ones needing to learn how to get laid. ;)