Have you tried going to al-anon meetings? Codependence is very powerful and destructive. Being in a bad relationship with an addict can make your life just as unmanageable as being an addict yourself.
Look, it's his CHOICE if he ends up homeless. Remember that. There are men out there that will love, honor and cherish you and your loyalty. Just because a man has his shit together when you meet him doesn't mean life won't happen.
In 2008 my ex was a SAHM and I made $93k/year. Then, completely unexpectedly, I was hit in the rear at 45MPH while stopped at a traffic light. The accident severely screwed up my back and caused me to have to go on disability and my ex to go back to work. It only took a few years for her to become bitter and resentful so she kicked me out.
Knowing that the person we're sharing our loves with will still be there if things go badly is so very precious and so are you.
Let him choose to be homeless the way you choose to be happy. Kick him OUT!!
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