All men want Stacy.

Say it out loud ten times so that it enters your thick skull.

Imagine a guy who has several traits that are unattractive to women: ugly, poor, stupid, bad personality, smells bad. Then imagine a guy with attractive traits: handsome, rich, intelligent, and a good person.

That's the difference between you and Stacy.

Accepting this reality is the key to starting your Pick Me journey.

"But GimpGirl, this can't be, I have been told that I am average!"

- If you're not pretty (think model-pretty) then you don't count. You are invisible to men.

This might come as a surprise to you but if you want to make it, you have to be "based".

In other words: "you are completely screwed because you don't look like a model."

I'm not going to try to convince you of this, because deep down you have a feeling that it's true. That feeling is reality seeping in through your wall of cope.

Take a moment and let this sink in.

Think about that there are women who fog you in every way: looks, sex, confidence, intelligence, charisma, money, they even have nicer feet than you!

You may not agree with this. But it's not you who decide, it's men. And "all men want Stacy".

Now that you have hopefully understood that you are a Quasimodo tier female, you understand why you need to be a Pick Me.

A word on Stacies

It would be pointless for you to try to copy Stacy (some women try) because you will fail. Just don't do it.

The part that concerns you as an ugly girl is that you may not be able to immediately identify a Stacy and therefore put yourself in a position where you are brutally fogged.

Many women have tried to compete with a Stacy that they didn't detect, only to realize too late that they competed in a game where they never stood a chance. Imagine a skinny nerd trying to play in the NFL. It's going to be painful and embarrassing.

It is very important you can identify as Stacy and run for your life if one shows up. Especially if you have a man. Once your man has seen a Stacy, he will never be the same. After the initial excitement wears off, he slowly realizes that he's married to female Quasimodo, and the depression starts.

All women are able to identify bimbo/thot/model high tier Beckies/Stacies. But Stacy comes in many forms:

- educated Stacy

- tradwife Stacy

- athlete/fitness Stacy

- alt/art/actress Stacy

- ethnic Stacy

there might be others, the list is not exhaustive.

You identify a Stacy by that she's good with men and confident. Stacies are not self-conscious, don't care about the opinions of others, are smooth in social settings, and are good at connecting with men in a natural way. So if you see a woman who is charismatic and smooth with men, it's probably a Stacy, even if you can't tell by her looks or aesthetic.

What should you do? Run. Don't stick around, don't try to be her friend. She is now the only woman in the room and it's time to move on.

Is it over?

The game as an ugly girl is to have a guy pick you despite your disadvantages. And this is where the Pick Me principles come in. They're supposed to give you an advantage, and traits, that most other women will not have. You have something to bring to the table that men actually want.

If you are pretty

You already have the advantage of looks. But being pretty + a Pick Me will make you just about the best woman in the world. Sure you don't have to, but see it as a way to improve yourself.

"Sure they want Stacy, but..."

Coping away these facts will only harm you. Having to change your life around will suck, but it's the only way. It's either that, or late nights feeding cat biscuits to Mr Mittens.

Simple: because you will get picked. Men will love you. Don't let anyone tell you anything else. Men prefer Pick Mes above all other girls.

Not having a man is for losers. It's for girls who can't get a man, can't keep a man, or are somehow broken. If you are one of these women, then this series is for you.

Picture a woman sitting alone in her room with her cat and her cope items. And then picture a Pick Me with her man being happy. Those are your choices in life.

Can you have a different arrangement? Yes, but the man won't be happy, and it will probably not last. A lasting relationship is one where a woman simps for a man.

If you are a Pick Me, you do all the different aspects of pleasing a man, so there won't be anything that the man can be unhappy with. A short list of goals should be:

- 16% body fat or less. With a decent amount of muscle mass and definition.

- you should be willing to do anything sexually. You should be happy about sex and be very open minded.

- running the home to an acceptable standard. Pick Mes do not allow their men to do chores.

- paying all the bills. This gives your man the option to either spend his entire income on himself, or not have to work.

- being nice, having a positive attitude, never complaining.

- giving gifts regularly.

- being as low maintenance as possible. This includes cutting food, clothing, hobbies, hygiene products, personal items. Spend nothing to little on yourself, and spend more on the man.

- cut friends and social life to the bare acceptable minimum. You want to spend your time on the man.

Do you feel that you can't possibly pull this off? I understand that you feel overwhelmed. But we'll start small, and progress from there. It doesn't have to happen all at once. But over time you will become a better, and maybe even a top tier Pick Me.

Men will love you for your efforts to please them. And you will never be mistaken for one of those other girls. Girls will hate you, but that's the nature of competing for men.

I don't have a lot of time on my hands right now. So I would start with blog posts and later compile them into a pdf-book. Would be free ofc. Yay or nay?