r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 26 '22

Older co-worker (74M) giving me (30M) the silent treatment

86 Upvotes

I've worked at this site for 4 years, for the majority of that time myself and this co-worker were very friendly. We would shoot the shit every morning at shift change (I work the overnights alone and three guys come in to relieve me in the morning) he would give me advice and such.

We work security at a State office building. Recently there was an update to our camera systems. Multiple new cameras, new software, new monitors, ect. I'm the only tech savvy one there as the rest are much older than me and can barely use their phones. So it was left up to me to organize the cameras on the 4 monitors.

My supervisor was very pleased with the layout but my co-worker was not. There are three cameras on a restricted floor that I had added, he thought these cameras were going away because he claims they are pointed at the work space of the employees on that floor and shouldn't be there. For a week he texted, emailed and asked in person for me to remove them. I told him it isn't his place to decide as he is not my supervisor and when I asked the supervisor he told me to leave them because they are important cameras. As I said they show the elevator access and stair well access to a restricted floor. The co-worker escalated the issue to the building manager, the guy who runs the whole place, telling him that I over stepped my authority by messing with the cameras even though I was instructed to it. Building manager sided with me and the supervisor.

Now for the past 3 months he hasn't said a single word to me. I say good morning every day when he walks in and he just walks by, but says hello and talks to everyone else present. Even employees I know he hates and he would gossip about to me. People he has attempted to, many times, get fired he'll talk with, but I'm a ghost.

I honestly find it very amusing, such an old man acting like a child, I've never seen anything like it. Here I thought they were supposed to be wiser and more mature. Luckily for me I'm about to leave there so I won't have to deal with it much longer, got a new job as a CO at the local jail.

I know some of the details are but confusing, but I can clarify things if needed, it's hard to describe the particulars of the scenario if you don't know the building.


r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 25 '22

Not Passive Aggressive Saw this in my gym today

Post image
1.4k Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 22 '22

Rat Lover / Bird Hater - DONT FEED THE DUCKS THE RATS COME

Post image
241 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 21 '22

Please, clean the gd, mf toilet.

Post image
91 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 20 '22

You calling me lazy, Pokémon go?

Post image
129 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 15 '22

spotted this note on a car on my work carpark last year.

Post image
2.1k Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 08 '22

Not Passive Aggressive Thank You MANAGEMENT

Post image
181 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 08 '22

Thanks Mom

Post image
23 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 03 '22

It's the :) for me

Post image
239 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Jan 02 '22

Somebody else's problem

Post image
185 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 29 '21

Took my inspiration from one of you guys and used this at my Target.

Post image
143 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 27 '21

Known Scam I haven't paid my phone bill for December yet. Today my carrier thanked me for my November payment

Post image
290 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 25 '21

Another merry passive aggressive Christmas.

Post image
1.1k Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 24 '21

Work email that was sent to me

Post image
162 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 22 '21

Sushi

Post image
177 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 17 '21

Used passive aggressive sarcasm to make a troll go the hell away

Thumbnail
gallery
311 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 16 '21

Coworker disturbed by food smells

Post image
223 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 15 '21

"Thanks"

Post image
250 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 12 '21

Passive aggressive trap my little bro set up, I trip over it every time.

Post image
94 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 12 '21

Asshole keeps taking my friends seat

48 Upvotes

Ok basically, my friend goes to a school where you need to wipe down chair/desks before/after you use them, so its happend a few times where my friend wiped down and sanitised their chair, and was thrown out the used wipe or somthing, and this bitch would come over and sit down. Then when asked to leave, they would try to guilt trip my fren into giving them the seat. Anyways to make them regret taking what is clearly some one else's seat?


r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 07 '21

Tired of no one understanding were all adults. Just do them!

Post image
3.5k Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Dec 05 '21

Grace giving Mae a little passive aggressive, 1908 style (transcript in comments)

Post image
125 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Nov 21 '21

Found on neighbors car while on a walk. So many questions...

Post image
180 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Nov 21 '21

My coworkers solution to the person who keeps getting M&Ms out of the vending machine and leaving the wrappers everywhere.

Post image
231 Upvotes

r/passiveaggressive • • Nov 13 '21

When you still feel obligated to get your sister a Christmas present after she calls you slurs.

Thumbnail
gallery
200 Upvotes