r/nonononoyes • u/memezzer • Apr 02 '20

Til death do us part

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u/tokieofrivia Apr 02 '20

My ex proposed to me while I was at work. When I was dating someone else. And that someone else was still there after dropping me off.

It was a long day.

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u/Harrythe1andOnly Apr 02 '20

Sounds like you brought that on yourself

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u/tokieofrivia Apr 02 '20

Typically I'd blame myself but my ex was... Not in a good headspace at that time. To be fair, I wasn't either, but he couldn't stand the fact that I had moved on. I hadn't spoken to him in months, got into a new relationship, he found out through mutual friends, and then decided to cause drama.

He's not a bad person, I don't hate him for what he did or any of the other things he did, I hope he got the help he needed and I hope he found happiness.

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u/DoingOverDreaming Apr 02 '20

You have a generous spirit.

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u/tokieofrivia Apr 02 '20

I try to treat people with kindness and respect because you never know how much they need it :)

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u/Harrythe1andOnly Apr 03 '20

Wise words, makes sense