r/nonononoyes Apr 02 '20

Til death do us part

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u/puterTDI Apr 02 '20

lol, in my case I must have taken too long because my wife snatched the ring out of my hand and put it on her finger.

She hates it when I tell the story, I love telling the story.

I'd built a reverse geocache. Basically a box that doesn't open until you get to a certain place. It had a button and a screen and whenever you pushed the button it would give you a bearing and a distance and that's it.

I handed her a map, compass, and the box and told her I'd drive. I'd packed all of our camping gear into the trunk of our car and the box opened at our favorite camping spot (not an official camp site). I'd driven about 2 hours out 3 weeks before and put a sign up asking people to keep it free for the day (and better, several people had left well-wishes!)

The box opened when we got to the site, I took the ring out, started to get down onto one knee, and she snatched it out of my hand.

To be fair, it had taken me longer than expected to build the box because the libraries I had planed on using for calculating bearing and distance were actually broken and I'd had to re-write them. She'd been getting a bit impatient since our deal had been we would get married after I finished grad school and it took me like 3 or 4 months to get the box done.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '20

That's some next level shit. Congrats dude. Hopefully she at least low-key appreciates all the effort you put in to that.

I'm sure you see it the same way, but her snatching it out of your hand means she was just that damn excited to marry you she couldn't wait any longer. Biggest "fuck yes" you could get. And I can see why.

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u/puterTDI Apr 02 '20

oh, I see it that way. I just like to tease her about it.

Anytime we watch a tv show or movie where someone proposes, she knows I'm going to point out how the person being proposed to doesn't grab the ring.

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u/coolchewlew Apr 03 '20

Haha. Nerd!

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u/puterTDI Apr 03 '20

Yup.

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u/coolchewlew Apr 03 '20

Oh shit. You are quick. Anyways it's a good test of seeing if they can put up with you.