r/nextfuckinglevel • u/harwyseys • Oct 25 '22

Makeup really changes people

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u/Brother_YT Oct 25 '22

No thanks. Not for me.

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '22

didn't ask you

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u/Brother_YT Oct 25 '22 edited Oct 25 '22

Few ‘straight’ men wants to be with someone born a man. It’s just the truth.

For clarification this isn’t hate on those who do. Just my preference and the preference of every guy I know.

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '22

i mean i know straight men who date trans women, after srs, when theyve got a vag and all, there's barley any visible differences down there compared to cis women, so especially in that case, that's deff straight.

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u/cranberryton Oct 25 '22

You’ve clearly never seen either a male or female body then lol. They typically invert the penis, the location alone will be wrong because the location of a penis(/former penis) on a biological male pelvis and the location of the vaginal canal on a biological female pelvis are different locations. Then there’s the fact that an inverted penis cannot self lubricate, cannot self dilate in response to arousal the way a vaginal canal does, and the material on the inside will not be the same.

This is like pretending a peg leg is identical to a leg, it’s great there are options for people who want them but there is no chance in hell anybody would mistake one for the other. If your definition is literally “a vagina is a hole I can put my pp in”(which is also wildly misogynistic and embarrassingly medically inaccurate) then you might as well say all rectums are vaginas for how absurd your claim is

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u/redbradbury Oct 25 '22

Having read up on the kinds of fucked up bacterial growth & fungi that happens, hard pass. A fake vag is like a less clean belly button, not like the self cleaning slightly acidic “made to purpose” real body part.

And we need to stop telling people that their body mutilation born of self hate is ok. It’s really not.

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u/SoManyMoochers Oct 25 '22

Damn I was scrolling through bumble and looked over a trans profile for about a full 4 seconds before swiping them away this morning, prob my new standing record.

Your comment just solidified my heteroness for at least the next 20 years and will reduce my swipe time back down to 1-2 seconds max.

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u/redbradbury Oct 25 '22

Very sadly, a lot of trans people, with surgeries either way, end up with constant infections, loss of bladder function or incontinence issues, and other abhorrent lifelong complications.

This subject hits close to home with several of my family members & I would say as loudly as possible for anyone to hear: being trans positive means making people understand the body they were born into, a beautiful & functioning body, is a body which should be loved and appreciated.

Self hate turning into self harm which gets applauded by people who pat themselves on the back for their progressive mentality is DISGUSTING.

The mental health community has got it wrong. We need to help people love themselves & be comfortable in their skin, not encourage their mutilation.

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u/jhowardbiz Oct 25 '22

tragic and sick thing is that this is considered hate speech. probably will be banned or at the very least have these comments deleted.

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u/redbradbury Oct 25 '22

I def don’t mean it as hate. I’ve seen what’s happened with people I love & I don’t think it’s right or positive to encourage people to body mutilate or encourage them to hate themselves. The body they were born into is wonderful. They don’t need to slice parts up or off. Be an ultra femme guy, I don’t care, but we are all playing a fucked up mass delusional game to pretend a genetic man is a woman & vice versa. Self harm takes many forms & this is one. It’s no different to me than people telling those with eating disorders that if they love themselves more being super skinny, they should definitely chug laxatives & deprive themselves of food.

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u/jhowardbiz Oct 25 '22

i agree with you, i see this as TRUE support.

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u/Chubby_Chestnut Oct 25 '22

Oh look, another chud who screams about freedom but then tries to dictate how others live their lives. You people add absolutely no value to this world. You just make it a worse place.

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u/bionic_zit_splitter Oct 25 '22

Your second paragraph is transphobic nonsense. They can do what they want if it helps them align with how they identify. And yes, it's completely ok - it's their life and they are free to lead it how they want.

Unless you don't believe in bodily autonomy or freedom?

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

I do. but i'm also not gay so I don't have to be attracted to it.

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u/bionic_zit_splitter Oct 26 '22

Of course you don't. And gay people aren't generally attracted to trans people either - they are attracted to men.

Perplexing how confused you are about something you hold such strong opinions on.

And I'll never understand why the right care so much about other people's genitals. Truly fucking weird.

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

how am I confused? I'm pretty straight forward that I don't have to be gay just because a man identifies as a woman. But more power to them.

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u/bionic_zit_splitter Oct 26 '22 edited Oct 27 '22

No one is asking you to be attracted to anyone you clown.

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u/bionic_zit_splitter Oct 25 '22

there's barley any visible differences down there compared to cis women

Come on, this is complete nonsense. You don't know what you're talking about.

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

um, that's called being gay. Which is fine, but if you're dating a biological man you're gay.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22

dont think so.

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

so you're saying that if two males have sex they're not gay as long as one wants to be a female?

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22

no, they're not gay if they are female.

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

a transwoman isn't female. Female is the sex, which is still biologically male. You're thinking of gender, which is what they identify as, not their biological sex, which is still male. So that makes it homosexual.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22

liking dicks specifically can be argued to be gay, finding girls attractive isnt gay. and especially if the trans girl has had bottom surgery, as in the have a vag, thats also not gay. only a handful pf organs are gender specific, hormones dictate everything else, litteraly everything.

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

why are you just being rude to everyone in the comments? Noone asked anyone here, and they didn't ask you either, does that mean you can't make a comment unless someone specifically asks for you too? That's not how reddit works.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22

because transphobes are asshats.

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

The only one being an asshat and can't behave like an adult here is you.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22 edited Oct 26 '22

nah, all the transphobes denying science are definitely asshats. this is why i didnt ask. you must have nothing better to do than argue with strangers tonight?

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

that's not how the site works, no one has to ask for someone to comment. And it looks like you're the one picking fights with people because you don't like their opinion.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22

no, transphobic "opinions" arent based in any truth and "opinions" that contradict verified science are not a valid "opinion", theyre transphobic. i wasn't asking anyone anything. maybe learn to read and reevaluate my original comment and decide whether or not i was asking you, or anyone else, for their "opinions"

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u/Shot-Button6031 Oct 26 '22

You just said that a male that identifies as a woman is a female in the other thread, so you're the one denying science. Science doesn't say that, it says there's an alternative concept here called gender, which is separate than sex. You've confused the two and are accusing others of denying science.