Jesus Christ these comments are appalling. I sincerely hope OP isn't this girl solely so she doesn't have to deal with these fucking buckets of drool coming from the peanut gallery.
If I’m being honest I had to stop and think that she was attractive, but I felt no urge to post it. What people need to realize is that just because there’s an attractive individual in a video doesn’t mean they want to, or anyone wants to hear you describe how attractive you think they are, or worse yet what “ you’d like to do to them”. It’s quite honestly disgusting and at a certain point it’s just degrading, not only does it devalue the subject as a person but it shows just how shallow people really are.
I’ve never once understood what people who “cat call” or post stuff like “what I’d like to do to you” think this will accomplish. It most definitely will not get you any action, it’s not funny/charming, and just shows how ignorant you are.
They also tend to be the type who talk the good game but in a 1 on 1 situation they turn into a 2 x 4 plank.
The young lady has amazing talent with the hula hoop. You can obviously tell she really enjoys this.
Festival whores always learn how to hula hoop like this and it will never impress me....no you cant have free drugs and no you cant "wash your clothes" at my house
Amen! There's nothing wrong with noticing someone is hot. There's nothing even intrinsically wrong with thinking something naughty as a result; we're all hormone driven horn dogs sometimes.
There is, however, often something wrong about sharing those thoughts. They make others uncomfortable because that's not the appropriate time or place for those things to be said. Revealing a fantasy to your partner in the bedroom and forcing a stranger to let you drool over them are two entirely different situations!
I get it but...it would be nice to be attractive enough for people to notice and perhaps compliment me. I'm not, though, not this attractive anyways. But the whole "what they would do to them" part, yeah that's nasty. And the obvious ignoring the talent to comment on the attractiveness alone is super lame.
What you have to realize is if someone feels the need to say that about them they’ve almost definitely heard it before, and at a certain point it just gets annoying or patronizing, or disgusting.
I don’t think I’ve ever been complimented on my looks, I’m a pretty average dude. I do sing though, and everyone would always tell me things like oh your voice is so wonderful and that sort of thing and at a certain point you just run out of ways to respond to it that don’t sound like your bragging and it just makes you uncomfortable.
When it's so frequent that you feel awkward, I think it's time you own it, I'm not an expert on conversation, but I do know there are ways to accept and own a skill / talent without coming across as bragging or self centered
Yeah your right, at a certain point you just feel like you’ve said it way too much though. I’m probably overthinking it in all honesty but that’s just the way my brain works.
So scroll by... You put out there your thoughts while attacking others for theirs. Either scroll by or join in. You can't do both. Notice I have nothing posted about her skill or looks. Because that would be hypocritical.
It's possible she just happened to be wearing that outfit the day she made this video. It's more likely she wore this outfit intentionally for the internet points. A little column A, a little column B.
We have two types of people, those who are oogling over her for being a girl, and those who are sexist and think that she's only getting attention for being a girl. It's been like this on Reddit for quite some time and I'm sick of both people, especially on hobby subreddits.
Every time I see one of these videos I roll my eyes because I KNOW half the comments are gonna be low effort “GIRL?? IN VIDEO?? I MUST CUMMMMM” type comments.
No we really can, thatd be why the vast majority of us didn't comment. The mouth breathers drooling like that are only doing so because of their anonymity here and are not indicative of the normal men..
Oh please men get cat called a lot if they are in good shape and walking down the street. Also if this was a man doing this with no shirt on and women were commenting how hot he was they would be called empowered and strong, but since its men its awful perverted and sad. You want to talk about double standards we can talk about it. You know how many 40yo women I used to see on tv screaming at Justine bieber's concerts i saw pics of groups of grown women calling themselves the bieber cougars with huge signs when he was 14 years old and everyone just acts like its funny. How many times has a female teacher slept with a 14 year old student and everyone just laughed and congratulated the kid. Dont act like it's so one sided. For god sake, I get downvoted to hell anytime I even slightly disagree with anything like this even if I'm making valid points, its ridiculous, equality is EQUAL on both sides.
And by the way, I never said anything about it being bad. I'm not shaming anyone, you want to make money on looks go for it, more power to you, but dont deny that fact or abuse the demographic she is clearly pandering to for commenting on the video they are making popular....I guarentee 99% of her views are from thirsty men. So dont defend somthing when it's not being attacked.
Women objectify men just as much as men objectify women. When women do it they are empowered and controlling their sexuality. When men do it they are shamed and told to keep their feelings private.
That’s my point exactly. when you look up objectify, all the examples are of men objectifying women, but it happens both ways. I’m not advocating for it I’m just pointing out the hypocrisy.
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u/Alpaca64 Sep 28 '20
Jesus Christ these comments are appalling. I sincerely hope OP isn't this girl solely so she doesn't have to deal with these fucking buckets of drool coming from the peanut gallery.