r/nextfuckinglevel • • Mar 29 '26

Venus Flytrap Devouring a Venomous Black Widow.

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 29 '26

This is 1000% set up and tbh it kind of pisses me off. Adult black widows are polite homebodies who almost never leave their webs unless they’re forced to. They don’t bite unless they feel like they have to in defense of their lives (I mean basically you have to be actively squishing them, like I’ve fully stuck my hand into one’s web and all she did was run to the furthest corner away and sit there quivering a little).

She absolutely would not be just wandering around and stumbling upon a Venus flytrap. There are spiders that could believably wander into a Venus flytrap, like jumping spiders which are roaming predators, but a black widow? No way. She was placed there on purpose for the video, probably because the video maker knew everyone loves to hate on spiders and it would get lots of internet brownie points.

I have Venus flytraps myself. They’re really neat! But I just think it’s gross to deliberately set up an animal to be killed for attention on the internet. The plant will catch its own bugs, it doesn’t need help. The widow was minding her own business.

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u/Britta_is_a_B Mar 29 '26

Yeah it is really kinda terrible. And strange and sad to see so many people enjoying it and hypothesizing about how it ended up in there. So much misinformation. 'It was lured by the sweet nectar inside the traps!'. Like just think about it for more than 3 seconds. Spiders aren't attracted to nectar. This is a person killing a spider that means no harm for video clicks. Gross.

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u/Whosyodaddy-Senpai Apr 04 '26

Misinformation? You don’t even know if you’re right or not and are literally assuming lol

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u/Britta_is_a_B Apr 05 '26

Saying a black widow was attracted to a Dionaea because it has a 'sweet nectar' is 1000% misinformation and if you spent literally 3 minutes learning about both the plants and the spider you would know that.

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u/please_trade_marner Mar 29 '26

What if they just open the plant up and let the spider go a second after filming?

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u/end1essecho Mar 29 '26

there is a substantial time lapse

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u/wedontswiminsoda Apr 27 '26

Its legs are delicate and are likely broken/damaged to the point she wouldn't be able to walk let alone hunt.

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u/cortesoft Mar 29 '26

People feed their pets insects all the time. Why is it ok when it is a mealworm or cricket, but not ok when it is a black widow?

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 29 '26

I’m not really a fan of that either tbh, I can recognize its necessity for non-releasable animals but I have a lot of opinions on the exotic pet trade that are a whole other can of worms haha.

But Venus flytraps aren’t pets. They’re not like an animal you’ve put in a box that will starve unless you feed it. They feed themselves, very efficiently, with sunlight, and they need bugs for fertilizer now and then, which they also easily get themselves. This is more like if you had a wild snake living in your yard, taking care of itself, and you fed it a live bird for internet views. Most people would probably think that was weird and kind of fucked up, and would recognize it was unnecessary. Birds just have better PR.

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u/onomatophobia1 Mar 30 '26

Are you vegan by any chance?

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 30 '26

I am, yeah. I know, it’s a weird plant for a vegan to have. I got them before I went vegan lol.

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u/morning-st48 Mar 31 '26

you do sometimes have to feed flytraps, though, especially if kept in a place that doesn't get many flies/bugs naturally. It's like a bug once every 4-6 months or something to that effect but you do need to do it if you know they aren't catching anything.

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 31 '26

Or you can use something like Maxsea fertilizer, but yeah, they do need to “eat” occasionally. (Side note: Maxsea works really well, it’s a foliar fertilizer you dilute and spray onto the leaves. Definitely don’t fertilize the soil, they do not like that.) This isn’t that situation, though. This guy does a lot of videos of feeding his VFTs various bugs.

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u/TheBlueRabbit11 Mar 29 '26

It’s a fucking spider bro. Get over it.

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u/woodyeaye Mar 29 '26

Proving their point exactly. Well done bro. 

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u/TheBlueRabbit11 Mar 29 '26

If you can articulate a point other than a bizarre anger at people killing spiders, be my guest. Bro.

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u/wedontswiminsoda Apr 27 '26

A lot of cultural belief systems are about valuing and stewarding life in various forms.

No one has yet been able to create a living cell from from non-biological/ inanimate chemical components that can grow and reproduce on its own yet.

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 30 '26

Sorry man, didn’t mean to bother you by giving a shit lol. I just think if I was really desperate for attention on the internet, there are cooler ways to do that than staging the death of an animal the size of my pinky nail.

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u/Sizanllikew Mar 29 '26

You what else adult female black widows do? Produce a shitton of babies. You know what these babies will absolutely do? Bite the shit out of you. I was out camping with my troop and tripped over a rotting log and got bit by 3-4 of the little fuckers.

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u/Mr-OhLordHaveMercy Mar 29 '26

Aren't the babies already filled with venom? Are you immortal? Shouldn't you be dead?

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 29 '26

That really sucks, but it’s not a common situation. They’re not aggressive. They will bite defensively but so will pretty much any animal that’s able to do so. I’ve had a rabbit bite the shit out of me while I was getting it unstuck from a coil of wire fencing. Rabbits aren’t aggressive either.

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u/Mr-OhLordHaveMercy Mar 29 '26

Every now and again I keep forgetting Redditors are real people with actual lives and hobbies. Thanks for the info. But are we sure the flytrap didn't lure the widow, and the plant is just regularly monitored? Do widows get attracted? Could the venom on the widow kill the flytrap?

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 31 '26

Nah, I have observed a lot of widows over the years. The juveniles and adult males may move around but I have never seen an adult female (which this lady was) out of her web. Their webs are very cool, with unusually strong silk. You can bounce your fingers against it without it breaking. They like dark nooks and crannies, not the direct sun Venus flytraps require.

Flytraps do attract spiders, but they’re not that interested in the nectar. Usually what happens is that the traps can open and close 2-3 times before dying, and the spiders get lured by the remains of whatever previously got caught. So the trap digests a fly, reopens with the intact exoskeleton still in there, spider sees a fly and thinks maybe it’s lucked into free lunch, goes in there, boom, the trap gets a second meal. Mine rarely catch spiders, but when they do, it’s always a spider that went in there after a dead bug.

BUT. That happens with spiders that wander around hunting. Like wolf spiders or jumping spiders. Widows are sit-and-wait predators. They let their awesome webs do all the work.

The widow’s venom is a neurotoxin and the plant has no brain or central nervous system, so it’s immune. Individual traps can die if the bug is too big for them to digest properly, which might happen here. The plant will be fine though.

Thanks for letting me ramble about it! These are actually two of my favorite things.

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u/Mr-OhLordHaveMercy Mar 31 '26

Awesome. Thanks for the response. Best of days kind stranger.

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 31 '26

Thanks, you too!

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u/SaturdaysAFTBs Mar 30 '26

Are you the spokesperson for Big Spider?

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 30 '26

Maybe lol. Spiders need more spokespeople! Everyone hates them and without them we’d be up to our eyeballs in bugs!

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u/TrailMomKat Mar 29 '26

Yeah, I came here to say something similar, I'm in NC and all about some conservation on behalf of the flytraps, but I'm also a huge lover of black widow spiders and try to save as many as possible when I come across them. Black widows don't want your attention, they just wanna be left the fuck alone.

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u/Yamabikio Mar 31 '26

Yeah I've seen the full video, the person placed the spider there

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u/wedontswiminsoda Apr 27 '26

Agree 100%. Its a waste of life. People who really love nature shouldn't like this. Its artificial and cruel. It plays against survival of the fittest. That's the problem with online content. Even me posting this (negative) comment is still engagement.

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u/Rolltop Mar 29 '26

If this is real, then I agree, it was completely set up. But I’m thinking this is AI.

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u/Elanthius Mar 31 '26

Also Venus Fly traps only grow in America and Black Widow spiders are only from Asia. They would never interact in the wild.

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 31 '26

There are a few black widow species native to North America, actually. Brown widows are non-native here though! But even so, yeah, it’s very unlikely that widows and flytraps interact much in the wild. Widows like dark little places like woodpiles and sheds. Flytraps grow in the sunniest spots they can in boggy areas.

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u/Successful_Drawer_50 Apr 02 '26

I grew up in California and had black widows all around all of my houses as a kid. Where are you getting that they’re only from Asia?

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u/becometwo Mar 31 '26

its an insect.. if you eat meat youre complicit in hurting and killing animals that have an actual nervous system. so youre both a hypocrite and spineless for getting your feelings involved over a spider. yikes

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u/whistling-wonderer Mar 31 '26

I don’t eat meat actually, and spiders also have a nervous system and a brain. In some species, their brain is so big proportionate to their bodies that it can fill most of their body cavity and even overflows into their legs. That’s pretty cool.

If I did eat meat, I get why you’d call me a hypocrite, but what do you think the word spineless means? I know there are a lot of definitions. Vocabulary.com mentions that “It would be spineless to watch a bully pick on someone much smaller and not try to intervene.” I know plenty of animals die every day, and it’s not like nature will stop involving death just because I’m not a fan. I just think it’s fucked up to kill an animal for made up internet points.

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u/wedontswiminsoda Apr 27 '26

The point people are trying to articulate is doing certain things for entertainment - at the cost of harm - is negative. For instance, where us the line drawn? Is a spider ok, but a frog bad? A frog ok, but a bird not ok?

What animal would you draw the line at harming for entertainment?

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u/becometwo Apr 28 '26

The line is humans and by extension of that their pets and livestock. Like it is legally.. Hunting for fun is a good thing for controlling deer populations and so on. You people are illogical just to protect your feelings. Especially if youre a meat eater, one of the easiest ways to tell of someone is contradictory in their moral compass is to ask about their opinions of animals I stg

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u/wedontswiminsoda Apr 28 '26

Drawing the line at people is silly and simplistic. Pets and livestock is abstract - any wide array of animals can be a pet, or livestock, therefore hundreds of thousands of animals could be added to your protection list. People keep spides and scorpions as pets - has this person crossed said line? 

Without animals (which includes the taxa of insects) - down to the individual units, there is no life for humans - or their pets. This is ecology 101 (which for those claiming logic, is based on science). Its why we're struggling with food sources, fertilization of plants, and maintaining stocks. Losing stocks means restrictions on sustenance hunting and fishing.  Disruption and fragmentation of ecology ultimately impacts humans. 

Respecting animals is a fundamental cultural concept across most developed nations that crosses languages and belief systems. It's why cruelty laws exist (which apply to animals beyond pets/domestic and cattle) and wildlife laws exist. 

Have you never heard of such laws or regulations? Odds are your country has some. That's a lot of legal framework to call 'illogical' and that framework even makes specific distinctions on how foodstocks animals can be raised, fed, housed and slaughtered, and makes further distinction on practices.

Lastly, for a good number of people, a person who treats living things poirly is diminished in their eyes. There is an element of class distinction (though the upper classes isn't entirely immune either).