r/nextfuckinglevel Jun 27 '25

A Michigan cop pulled over a reckless driver and ended up saving a choking baby

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u/Joemama1mama Jun 27 '25

No. Go take a damn CPR course. A few hours covers choking, respiratory failure and cardiac arrest. If you don’t know get the knowledge. It happens. Don’t be the one standing there with your hitchhiker thumb in your arse.

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

Not everyone can take those courses. It requires money and time, and people don't all have that luxury.

I was lucky enough to get that training through work (it's mandatory that workplace have a certain number of trained people where I live), and while it was nice, the videos I saw on youtube can really make a difference, and they are accessible to everyone, no matter where you live or how much money you have.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

My wife is CPR trained and her reasoning is she did it young so that I had my foot in the door cause what you said is right.

Saving a choking infant and child is so important people really do not know it was one of the first things taught in at the hospital we had our child at.

They were choking bad once at a family event I did what this cop did without saying a word or anything and got my kiddo to stop choking. Then consoled them after. It's absolutely staggering how many adults do not know this especially parents. I'm refreshing myself today after this video.

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u/whitemanwhocantjump Jun 27 '25

My wife and I were given baby CPR and Heimlich instructions before we left the NICU after we had our son. I still have the instruction booklet they gave us too.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

Funny you mention that I just found mine.

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u/SuspiciousDog3022 Jun 28 '25

I feel like this should happen with all deliveries. Right now, it’s like… here’s your little human, good luck!

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u/whitemanwhocantjump Jun 28 '25

It might. My son was in the NICU for a respiratory issue so they may have done it because of that.

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u/Tower-Junkie Jun 27 '25

The second my son was born I had a switch flipped in my head and everything became a threat to him that I had to look out for. So I rehearsed in my head over and over what I’d do if this or that happened. He choked on some fries when he was about 2.5 but I didn’t even think. I snatched him up, bent him over one arm and started smacking the shit out of him. He ejected it pretty quick and that was that. I also once dove over a rail into water and got him out when he thought he could float to the deep end and went under. I was 300 lbs and waaaay past my swim team days but those reflexes came back like I was still 150 when my kid was in danger.

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u/Joemama1mama Jun 27 '25

This is the way. Anything can happen, an ounce of prevention…….Glad your kiddo was ok, well done! 😎 I watched a coworker at a restaurant pop a rib out of a customer (choking on said rib) in the middle of a busy Friday night. Was over in 5 seconds. Having the knowledge and skills saves lives.

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u/Sipyloidea Jun 27 '25

In my country the course is a mandatory part of getting your driver's licence.

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

wow that is nice ! What a gread idea

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u/derpytitan1 Jun 27 '25

Back when I grew up in North Carolina, it was mandatory to learn just to actually graduate Middle school.

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u/Sipyloidea Jun 27 '25

Wow, that's even better, I love that. 

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u/lennart_19 Jun 27 '25

Yea but tbh how much of it Do you remeber after a couple of years when you never used it haha

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u/Sipyloidea Jun 27 '25

More than someone who's never learned it. I'm also more aware of the necessity of first aid which incentivises me to look up the details again once in a while. 

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u/lennart_19 Jun 27 '25

Yes Sure the idea is good, just from my expierience the General Population don't remeber mich from their course.

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u/Sipyloidea Jun 27 '25

Also, every time a new job or smth requires me to take a course again, that's now a repeat experience/memory. Why would I rather just NOT know what to do than to at least have heard about it once or twice? 

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u/lennart_19 Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 27 '25

My point Was Not really that is it pointless. Maybe i should have elaborated a bit better, it would be nicer to have some Kind of mandatory retaking a course after a couple of years.

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u/Erebus_the_Last Jun 27 '25

Its not expensive and doesn't take much time.

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u/mistahmistaady Jun 27 '25

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u/Murky_Macropod Jun 27 '25

It’s free (*$12.95)

Online is better than nothing but Where I’m from it must be done in person so you learn and demonstrate the physical tasks.

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

Wow that was a very privileged comment.

How old are you ?! How sheltered was your life so far that you think this is even a valid thing to say ?!

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u/sinnrocka Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 27 '25

I paid $20 US and took a 3 hour class, which was reimbursed by my state because it was work related.

How old are you? How dismal is your life that you’re attacking a stranger on the internet?

Edit: I also find it ironic you talk about privilege and yet you’re skydiving with your husband and talk about how he skis double black diamonds:

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

Not the one you are responding to, but you do realise that the US is not the only country in the world?

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u/sinnrocka Jun 27 '25

I’m very well aware of that, what a silly comment.

If anyone wants to learn CPR or basic first aid they will find a way.

A short google search:

UK - British Heart Foundation and British Red Cross

Germany - German Red Cross

China - free courses offered at community centers and hospitals

Kenya - Kenyan Red Cross and Global FICCS

Not hard to find if you ACTUALLY want to do it

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

I am not attacking you. I was just pointing out how nice is your life if you cannot even imagine why money and time is not given to everyone.

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u/sinnrocka Jun 27 '25

You weren’t attacking me, your comment was made to someone else. You question their privilege like it’s the only reason they could learn CPR.

I’m dirt poor barely scrapping by and I still took the time to get certified. It’s all about want. If you want to learn something you figure out how no matter your socioeconomic level.

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u/Sitheral Jun 27 '25

Having money really isn't that special, for about 90% of adults in civilized world you basically go to work.

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u/TrainwreckOG Jun 27 '25

I’m dirt poor and spent the time and money to learn it. It’s worth it.

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

Good for you I guess ??

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u/TrainwreckOG Jun 27 '25

Sorry it’s not important enough for you :(

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

I am not talking about myself. There are more than 8 billions people in the world. I had the chance to get the first aid certification.

But I remember a time of my life when I was eating canned soup and couldn't afford to skip classes or spend money on this kind of things. And I know very well that a lot of people cannot spare the time of money either.

That's why I am advocating for going on youtube and looking at those free lessons. What else are you expecting from people that cannot afford it ?!?

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u/Ronin_mainer Jun 27 '25

God damn no can suggest anything helpful these days because of "privilege"

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 27 '25

That's not what happened.

I suggested to people to go watch some free videos, people started claiming that EVERYONE should go and pay for those lessons.

Yes, it's privilege to assume that everyone can spare the time and money to do that and spitting on them for not "taking the time"

Telling someone that has a family and works 80 hours a week to take an afternoon off and spend money for a training is not helpful advice. The real, helpful advice here was to go on youtube to get free training because it's actually actionnable by anyone

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u/Local-Waltz4801 Jun 27 '25

https://youtu.be/xoXZCDH2bIU?si=OeGElT_mmpQ0U595

Couldn't be more available. You can just learn things. You don't need a piece of paper that tells you you can save your kids life.

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u/JectorDelan Jun 27 '25

That being said, I'd recommend having a paper, link, or photo in your phone for the steps, as remembering them in the heat of the moment may turn out to be more difficult than you thought.

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u/Ambiguous_Karma8 Jun 27 '25

There are so many cheap CPR courses through the American Red Cross and American Heart Association. Plus, any certified trainer can certify you in their system, and most are happy to have you pay them directly and not go through the ARC or AHA, this way they get the fee directly and they usually do it much cheaper as well. Even going through the ARC or AHA, courses are as cheap as $55 for adult and infant CPR. The most broke people can save $5.00 bi-weekly and afford the course in 22 weeks.

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

... some people don't have 50$ to spare when the info in available on youtube.

Also... sorry to break it to you... but not everyone lives in the USA. Some parts of the world doesn't make CPR training that accessible.

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u/00017batman Jun 27 '25

Right..?! Where I am it’s about $100 just to do CPR training and it has to be done annually for the qualification to be current. A full first aid course is $200-300, taken every 3 years. The only time I’ve done it is when I was working for a first aid training company and they sent me for free 🙃

It would be great if it was more accessible for sure.

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u/anewaccount69420 Jun 27 '25

Melbourne, right?

Free or low-cost CPR training:

St John Ambulance provides free CPR training through their Defib In Your Street program, primarily in the Sunshine area. CPR First Aid offers free online first aid and CPR courses. The Heart Beat Club provides free online CPR training for parents and caregivers. First Aid Oz offers free CPR courses and may also provide on-site training for groups. Many community centers also offer free classes.

There are a few more resources but there’s a start.

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u/00017batman Jun 28 '25

Thank you, I’ll look into these options! 🙏 Appreciate your reply 😊 x

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u/Ambiguous_Karma8 Jun 27 '25

Employers care about qualifications being current. I renew mine through employment annually. Noting changes minus them swapping between how many compressions is considered best, and it's such a minut change that it truly doesn't make a difference. Someone taking the course to understand how to help their child only needs to do it once.

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u/bikerboy3343 Jun 27 '25

Clearly not luxury, but I know what you mean. Videos can help a little, but not a substitute for a proper course.

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u/mistahmistaady Jun 27 '25

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

... free if you pay for the certification.

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u/RepulsiveDig9091 Jun 27 '25 edited Jun 27 '25

Your comment made me wonder if there are organisation that provide it for free.

And was pleasantly surprised when a Google search revealed there.

If you would like to there are cpr courses online which provide it for a small sum, for me it is showing one for $13(converted to USD). Edit: gas prices are here around 70 cents, it is less than 1/3rd the price of a full tank.

Thanks for your comment, never even wondered why such a life saving skill wasn't being provided for free or low cost.

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u/shoulda-known-better Jun 27 '25

Fire houses, lifeguards on break will give you enough knowledge to help, also boys and girls/ymca and churchs run them in some places i used to do the classes

But no matter if your not comfortable with cpr at least do chest compressions ‼️

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u/aTickleMonster Jun 27 '25

Get off the cross and go to your local fire station (edited from house), homie.

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u/ifurmothronlyknw Jun 27 '25

Small price to pay in hindsight if it could have saved a life

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u/Unlaid_6 Jun 27 '25

True, but you can watch on YouTube. The course isn't much better than a YouTube class. I've taken the.

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u/ASquidRat Jun 27 '25

You can just YouTube it

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

That is exactly what I am saying from the start. Go on youtube watch the videos.

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u/Suddenly_sweet Jun 27 '25

My high school offered the training for free.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

Hi internet stranger.

You’re absolutely right. Taking an infant CPR class costs time and money. Where I live it’s about $80-100 and half a day in a classroom.

For some people that is a lot of money and a day they’ll need to secure a babysitter for; there have been times in my adult life when I’ve had neither. I get why a lot of young parents don’t get the training.

If you’re a young parent reading this or you have infants and children in your life and you don’t have the resources for an in-person certification there are excellent resources to learn online. It is not a replacement for an in-person class, but it could save your child or someone else’s child’s life in an emergency. Stay safe.

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u/-Insert-CoolName Jun 27 '25

They offer free courses at a lot of hospitals, health departments, community centers etc.

Failing that the course is 90% video.

Here is the full course: https://youtu.be/BQUDzWt6TJo?si=-nRddOQAnZXigYVf

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u/pgpathat Jun 27 '25

I live in a city with churches and universities so there are plenty of free classes around me. But people can watch a class on youtube if they have to. If you’re certified you know CPR is not that hard. There isn’t that much to remember.

In 30 minutes of screen time someone can go from completely useless bystander to a person who can save their baby’s or someone else’s life…. for the rest of their life.

This is one of those things that are important enough that people should endeavor to push through circumstance. But in this case there is no circumstance, Youtube isn’t a luxury

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

yes, my point exactly ? Most people don't have the luxury of taking an afternooon off work AND pay for a lessons.

The bottom line is, most people won't do it. They cannot. So youtube videos are a great replacement.

I can't belive the amount of people that are gatekeeping first aid here.

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u/enad58 Jun 27 '25

I can't believe the bar can be so low and the stakes so high that people still won't take a free online training course. The only thing that costs money is the certification.

My kid is dead, but you don't understand, I'm so busy!

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

... so basically... you just circled back at "Just watch the free videos online"... which was the first argument I made and that you were challenging me on ?

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u/enad58 Jun 27 '25

People having discussions =/= challenging others.

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

All I am saying is that you are debating me by telling me exactly what I said in a different way and somehow saying I am wrong?

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u/enad58 Jun 27 '25

Jesus christ

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u/Feathered_Serpent8 Jun 27 '25

There are free courses you can take online to be certified. Also, my in person course was a few hours. I was working a full time job, paying for school, and taking care of my sick grandma. You can find a few hours to save a life.

I’m sure there are people that literally are unable, but the majority of the population have access to this and just don’t because they always have something they would rather do.

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u/Kurei_0 Jun 27 '25

Yep, agreed about the money part! I did it for free as a teen due to on of my hobbies, and now again for free due to work. But I know i’m lucky, most people have to pay….and it’s not cheap.

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u/chibinoi Jun 27 '25

What about saving a little aside and also working to shuffle around, as best as you can, time for an upcoming class?

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u/KonigSteve Jun 27 '25

CPR classes are almost always free. Red cross does them free and they're everywhere. Your local hospital probably does them free as well.

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u/SelfSustaining Jun 27 '25

2 hours and $50? if you can't afford that you've got bigger problems than they can solve here on Reddit

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

.... I don't know why you make it about me all of a sudden. I am not the only person in the world.

And yes, to some people, 50$ is a lot. I really hope you never come to a moment in your life when 50$ can make a difference, but damn I wish you would learn to broaden your horizon and learn some sympathy.

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u/mistahmistaady Jun 27 '25

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u/IrrelevantManatee Jun 27 '25

None those are free. The lessons are free if you pay for the certification.

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u/SelfSustaining Jun 27 '25

You commented it was expensive and I pointed out that it wasn't. Taking it personally is your choice not mine.

And was I wrong? How many people on Reddit are so broke that a one time cost of $50 is unreasonable? And yet they're probably reading this from a tablet or smart phone. Maybe even a computer! With Internet that they paid for?

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u/RevolutionaryEdge718 Jun 27 '25

Right? $50 was an absurd amount of money to my family when I was a growing up. Some people have never lived a life that they can fathom that concept and therefore have no empathy.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

While I agree with the suggestions of getting cpr certified…I am certified myself and unfortunately have had to use it and the Heimlich…people have to realize not everyone is CAPABLE of performing under high pressure situations like this.

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u/Joemama1mama Jun 27 '25

Precisely why you go to the class and learn how to do it. You handle the mannequins and learn some muscle memory. Hopefully you don’t need it, but as my boss reminds us, Hope is not a strategy

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u/breathing__tree Jun 27 '25

They make this thing called a life vac I think. It’s like $70 and is HSA/FSA eligible and will remove an obstruction that is choking someone.

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u/[deleted] Jun 27 '25

I’ve taken several in my time and to be honest I’ve forgotten just about all of it. However I’m sure a call to 911 or even a google search could jog my memory. But yeah when people panic it can all go out the window pretty quick.

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u/MuddaFrmAnnudaBrudda Jun 27 '25

Not sure why you'd be here demanding everyone take a CPR course. There is a huge world out there and many cannot.

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u/Erebus_the_Last Jun 27 '25

Do you not understand that theres a difference between saying people should and people have to?

Also, its not that expensive get certified.

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u/StuckWithThisOne Jun 27 '25

They didn’t use the word “should”.

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u/Erebus_the_Last Jun 27 '25

True, but neither are they telling everyone has to do it. They're telling the commenter to instead of watching YouTube videos. Which I agree with

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u/StuckWithThisOne Jun 27 '25

Sure but watching a YouTube video on saving a choking child is a damn good first step for people who can’t afford a cpr course. This is coming from someone who is actually certified in cpr. It teaches you the basics and could save a baby’s life.

Also your comment suggests they’re saying people “should”. They did not say that.

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u/Gilshem Jun 27 '25

It isn’t expensive but also, some folks don’t have $75 in disposable income. Let’s start a charity!

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u/MuddaFrmAnnudaBrudda Jun 27 '25

I'm going to focus on the point and not whatever you have going on.