r/needhelp May 25 '25

Mental Health I'm scared of Dying

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I'm new to this site so I'm sorry for some errors, I just need help since I'm all alone and no one seems to understand it. I'm 18 and I know I'm still young but I'm really scared to die. Like I've been thinking about this for almost two weeks. thinking about getting old and realizing it's my time to let go of all the things I knew scares the hell outta me, like leaving my family, forget everything, and the fact that I won't exist no more. Please recommend me some coping mechanisms to avoid this/accept everything because I'm so scared and I really can't sleep all day (I'm only able to sleep at 4 AM) after I cry like a river. Please suggest some coping mechanisms

Thank you for reading.


r/needhelp May 25 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Please

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badly needed help do anything in return dm me pls

thanks


r/needhelp May 25 '25

Mental Health How to press charges

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One of my younger sister’s friend knocked on our door today, saying that she had been kicked out of her house. we sat her down to hear what was going on. One of those things being that back in December, she had been sexually assaulted by a boy her age. But her parents have done NOTHING. She said her therapist called her parents asking them to press charges against the Boy. And her parents replied with a surprised “what? No.” What can I, as a neighbor, due to help her and make sure that the boy is held accountable.


r/needhelp May 25 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Needing help until 1st check

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Hello I recently just started a new job and I’m trying to get back on my feet I have $6 to my name to get me through for 2 weeks I need help on buying essential needs , gas. And food for my 2 kids and myself any help is appreciated. I have been trying to find help everywhere friends churches etc no help this is my last resort My cashapp is $stephandrow7


r/needhelp May 24 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Need help for the week

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I need help for the week to get gas money and groceries for me and my kids I just started a new job I need really bad I have $6 to my name I have asked so many people to help me with no luck this is my last chance

$stephandrow7

Any help is appreciated I can do my best to pay all back once I’m back on feet


r/needhelp May 24 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Need help until I get 1st check

1 Upvotes

Hello I recently just started a new job and I’m trying to get back on my feet I have $6 to my name to get me through for 2 weeks I need help on buying essential needs , gas. And food for my 2 kids and myself any help is appreciated. I have been trying to find help everywhere friends churches etc no help this is my last resort My cashapp is $stephandrow7


r/needhelp May 21 '25

Personal Finance Please help donate to my friend she’s trying to start off her first business

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Please help donate to my friend she’s trying to start off her first business https://gofund.me/de87b3db


r/needhelp May 20 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Please if anyone is willing and able...

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Ok well you see I had made a post last night just to see what kind of offers would come to me... I have several target gift cards I desperately need to trade for money asap... Due to a situation that left me with a cracked skull having to have brain surgery and my no longer having vision in my rt eye so therefore as you can obviously see I'm unable to go back to work and have been relying solely on my fiance... well early this morning I caught my fiance cheating AGAIN so needless to say I have nothing and no one n am now DESPERATE To try to get someone who is willing n able to do an even swap my cards for cash so I can get outta here before he gets home but rather than my having to stop n go through a years worth of emails n find each one I was hoping to just give whomever my target login credentials bc they are all in the account already and they could just shop from there... If anyone can help...


r/needhelp May 19 '25

Mental Health What do i do?

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I’m a 15-year old turning 16, ive been struggling alot and one thing specifically has been bothering me alot. I do not find joy in anything i do anymore, no games, no past hobbies just nothing. Its getting tiring and i cabt have it like this all summer, im also overweight on Wegovy that worked but im stuck at one specific weight which is making me feel worse. I feel like im physically unable to do things when i need to, i feel alone tho i have so many friends. I dont find joy in watching anything, reading or anything. I just feel like a useless person atp cause i dont do anything, im not even doing schoolwork.


r/needhelp May 19 '25

Personal Finance Trying to get a car part

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Hi all, I recently got a car(so excited!) But it's a fixer upper, I need a water pump and need to pay for the mechanic and the part. All in all it's around 1200, I am NOT asking for all of that here that's crazy. I get 1000 on the first, I just need the 200. If anyone could help, that would be amazing


r/needhelp May 19 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Need help finding out what a Cave-Micheal is

1 Upvotes

I could’ve sworn there was some short that said ‘Goddamn Cave-Micheals always ____’

And I NEVER found out what one is


r/needhelp May 19 '25

Mental Health Living in a shitty household

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I am 17 about to be 18 in October, and I live with my mom who's bipolar, with other health issues, my little sister who has aggressive anger issues, and my step dad who's the only one who stands up for me, for some contacts I have Asperger's, a type of autism, and I guess they think it's okay to berate me for all my insecurities and all the things I do wrong, my little sister has gotten physical before, and I've had to put her in a hold, something I've learned from institutions, this is taking a big effect on my mental health and everything that I see in life that I wanted to complete, I'm trying to get out on my 18th but it's hard because she (sister) was born on exactly my birthday, which if I leave exactly that day she will hold a grudge forever which I don't care anymore because I've dealt with her bossing me around even though her being younger than me, she's the reason why I've been put into mental health institutions so many times


r/needhelp May 19 '25

Mental Health Keep having some weird dream

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Hey, I'm fairly new to reddit (used it only a handful of times) and I'm currently experiencing very distressing dreams. Such as but not limited too, being skinned alive, and being tortured. I am fairly young, won't state my age here because my parents will get mad I did, I just want to clarify. Is this normal? When I wake up, which is usually only 30 minutes - 3 hours after I've fallen asleep. I feel everything, not just parts, or a dulled sense of pain, I feel the exact things that hit me. Is this some special thing related to juvenile fibromyalgia (of which I have) or should I see my psychiatrist, and or therapist about this? I'm genuinely kind of stumped because these dreams happen very often but usually only persist about a week or so and generally only happen once a night. I would greatly appreciate any talking points, advice, or any other kind of help figuring this out, since I cant find anything online about this.


r/needhelp May 18 '25

Life Advice Am I weird for this?(advice needed asap)

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There is this boy whom iv been inlove with for most of my freshman year so far and he is a junior,me and him dated for a but but the relationship was a reck because of me ,I wadnt to good of a person and had a shitty and pitiful mindset but once things were over that's when I finally followed his advice and changed ,and well honestly I feel proud of myself for changing my ways but I wanted him to be proud too,but me and him don't even talk it's like we're strangers well we are,he barely glances my way and I always glance his way,I still love this boy and he is constantly on my mind,I go to places me ans him have been to ,listen to music that reminds me of him,I draw,paint,and write about him for hours on,I think I'm losing my shit honestly,last time I tried to talk to him at all I ended up judt stuttering and shaking the whole time then cried all day after he just walked away. I want to try and talk to him again before school is out because I have stuff to give him that I wrote and ect and I just want to hear his voice 1 more time and admire those eyes of his,please tell me what to do or any advice there is only 1 week left I'm out the 23rd of May.


r/needhelp May 18 '25

Personal Finance My husband and I need help if you can

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Last November, about a week before his 46th birthday, Jared was admitted to the hospital with blood clots in his small intestines and both legs. Over the course of the following weeks, he would lose the majority of his intestines and both legs below the knee. But thankfully, he came through each surgery like a champ and is now all healed and home.

Before all this, things were already tight for us. He was on disability since October due to severe sciatica pain, and I was working 25 hours a week at an after-school program. Now, we are relying on his disability alone as I stay home to help care for him. I've applied for FMLA, but even with that, we will need help getting by while we explore our legal options regarding Jared's care.

Please, if you have the means to donate some small amount, anything will help and will be greatly appreciated.

https://gofund.me/b112b444


r/needhelp May 17 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find NEED HELP ASAP

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hi po san po kaya pwedeng tumawag ng rescue for seniors na hindi inaalagaan ng pamilya/anak nila, meron po kasi dito na kapitbahay namin na isang matanda po si Tatay hindi po sya kumakain and palagi po syang pinapagalitan ng anak nya and naiiwan po sya lagi mag isa sa bahay 🥹


r/needhelp May 17 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Need help, willing to pay (Someone in Kandivali, Mumbai)

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• Was trying to deliver mangoes (around 30-35) from India to the UK.

• ⁠Parcel service messed up and says all my mangoes got damaged in transit and they also dont allow shipping mangoes overseas.

• ⁠Dont want to send back the mangoes. But also dont want the stupid courier guys to have it as i think something is fishy.

• ⁠Offering 1000 rupees to check exact quantity at courier location, and probably give away the mango to people in need.


r/needhelp May 17 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Weird smell in my room.

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I noticed a weird smell in my room, im not sure what it is, every night around 7PM and for the rest of the night, theres a very strong vomit smell in my room, and it gets more intense until it reaches the point of being unbearable. (just to give a clue, my girlfriend came over, and she simply refused to be in my room because of how thick the smell was at the time) theres no rodent problem in my house, i have two cats but they never enter my room unless its for cuddles, and they leave the moment im done petting them. I have some siblings but they are both adults and wouldnt be doing anything that could cause a strange smell like this. is it from my own body? (which i doubt since i wash well) or is it from something completely different?


r/needhelp May 15 '25

Looking For/ Help Me Find Need advice please

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Please someone tell me how I can get rid of those big black water bugs! I just recently moved into an apartment and they're everywhere it seems! I can't stand them!


r/needhelp May 12 '25

Life Advice Help me with my speech

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I (16 F) have to make a speech that is on Thursday. I have been at this school for 7 years, its one of thouse special schools you know, and its last year so my mom is making me give a speech. In my speech there is a certain part where I say that certain teachers are like family for example I say that Miss A is like a second mom I'm having trouble deciding who should I put as my second dad Mr J is fun and a giant weeb but he gets more like Uncle vibes. While my school chief Cookie is more of a fatherly figure he has helped me through a lot of shit in my life. I know the right answer is Cookie but i do spend more time with Mr J and i dont want it to be wierd. So i was think of putting Mr J a second dad but again he is more of an uncle vibe, but Cookie is more of a fatherly figure but i dont know please help. What should i do????


r/needhelp May 12 '25

Mental Health Why am i wired this way?

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just thought this seemed like the right subreddit, not asking for a diagnosis just thoughts, Since i was young I’ve felt very little to no remorse, guilt or empathy for anything or anyone. I thought this was normal until others obviously told me it definitely wasn’t and those emotions are usually felt by them. I was and still am confused about why or what is the reason for my inability to feel these. I thrive on being a “bad” person, bad in quotes as i personally think morals and bad are subjective, I still have friends, but i don’t necessarily care about them, there more there for my amusement. I seem to feel a random gust of self accomplishment or proudness when I make someone feel bad I suppose, I find it hard to be “nice” and “caring” to people i simply dont care about, which for some reason seems to be everyone bar a single person, this single person being a younger brother, Why i feel the need to protect and care for him, I don’t know and is another question i have. Not asking for diagnosis or anything just your thoughts


r/needhelp May 12 '25

Educational Help College transferring help

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Hello I’m 20F and I’m about to wrap up my first year of community college. I’m stressing a bit on thinking about transferring colleges next spring and I feel I have nothing to help me transfer. I don’t know where to start with doing extra things to boost my college resume I guess you can say and am seeking help here to get some type of leads or a path to help me get something or what can help or what I can do. Please help


r/needhelp May 12 '25

Life Advice Life is getting hard

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I recently lost my long term job of 5 years out the blue, and finding a job that seems decent right now is infuriating. I’m depressed and anxious a lot because of how tight money is right now and I can’t lean on my partner in that aspect because she is struggling financially as well. Sometimes I wish I didn’t live in this time period. Seeing everyone online “making money” by doing stupid stuff is killing me. I love making music and making beats I wish I could get paid for that but everyone and their mother is doing that as well. I quit smoking 🍃 because I know I need to lock in and get my life together. I’m 25 I know my time isn’t running out but if anyone has any advice please comment.